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How to Write a Sister-of-the-Groom Speech

An expert shares the best tips for writing a winning and sentimental toast.

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If your brother has asked you to speak at his wedding, you know it’s a big honor. But even though you love your brother and his fiancé , mustering up the courage to give a speech might be a difficult task. Between figuring out what to write, the pressure to be funny, and simply the fact that all eyes will be on you, many people often get extremely nervous when preparing for the special moment . Plus, if you don’t love public speaking, giving a sister-of-the-groom speech may sound like a total and complete nightmare. However, don't fret, we're here to help!

To start, a sister-of-the-groom speech is a sweet moment at the wedding that's meant to bring joy and well wishes to the happy couple. It's a toast that typically includes anecdotes and compliments to the newlywed, and is generally given during the wedding reception (though some couples choose to schedule this speech for the rehearsal dinner.) Simply put, a celebratory experience that shouldn't evoke complete fear.

Thus, to assist you in writing the best toast for your sibling, we've asked expert Heidi Ellert-McDermott to help us create a guide full of speechwriting tips, guidelines, and ideas for your big moment. Read on for more.

Meet the Expert

Heidi Ellert-McDermott is the founder of Speechy , a group of seasoned writers who help people with their wedding speeches.

Sisters of the groom have more leeway than other family members when writing their speech, as they can be funny, teasing, charming, or even sassy (in a good way!). They can also be personal, demonstrating the relationship between brother and sister , all while keeping things short, sweet, and sentimental.

Before you begin the writing process, discuss the ideal length of your speech with your brother. As a general rule, however, "Unless you're opting to deliver a poetic speech, I'd recommend aiming for a speech that's about five to six minutes long, or about 800 to 900 words," says Ellert-McDermott. "If you're providing the 'entertaining' speech, then I'd advise you limit your speech to less than eight minutes or 1,200 words."

Once you have your timing confirmed, your next step is to start putting pen to paper. But if you don't know where to begin, we put together an outline to get you started on your perfect toast.

Greet the Guests

If you are the first one giving a speech greet, your guests and welcome them to the wedding. If you aren’t, skip this step and jump straight into the good stuff.

Get in a Laugh Early

Ellert-McDermott suggests making a joke early, ideally within the first 20 seconds of the speech. “It will immediately relax you and your audience. Think about your brother’s individual quirks, eccentricities, and habits," she notes.

Share Anecdotes

Tell stories about your brother, either from the early days or more recently, in order to show what type of person he is to you. “Resist the cliches about your brother always being there for you when you needed him,” adds Ellert-McDermott. “Instead, tell the anecdotes that prove his great qualities and bring his specific, unique characteristics to life.” 

Don't Forget Your Brother's New Spouse

No matter how many nice things you say about your brother, the way to truly make him happy is to talk about his new partner. “Again, avoid platitudes,” cautions Ellert-McDermott. “Think about the reasons you’ve bonded with your new sister (or brother) in law and why you think they’re so right for your brother.”

Honor Your Parents

“Your speech is not only an opportunity to tease your brother; you can also make fun of your parents and the way they brought you both up,” says Ellert-McDermott. “Remember how they wouldn’t let you eat sugar after 4 p.m.? ‘Well, mom, there’s a magnum of Champagne over there that definitely contains a few grams of sugar and I’m certainly sampling it!’”

If your parents have passed away, your speech is a good time to honor their absence, as well. “Think of how you can honor any absent loved ones by bringing a smile to everyone’s face, rather than a tear,” notes Ellert-McDermott. 

Wrap Up With a Toast

"The toast can be emotional, humorous, or a bit of both," Ellert-McDermott shares. "It's great (and seems really clever) if you can echo a thought from earlier in the speech to somehow wrap up the theme of your speech (for example, marriage advice )." 

Photo by  Jenny Quicksall Photography

Sister-of-the-Groom Speech Writing Tips

Here, Heidi Ellert-McDermott shares her best tips for writing and delivering a speech everyone will love.

Crowdsource Ideas

If you are the only sibling giving a speech, get ideas and anecdotes from your other siblings. “Arrange a family get-together or just email them with a few questions with a tight deadline for contribution,” says the speech writer.

Write Early and Practice

Ellert-McDermott suggests writing your speech at least one month before the wedding to allow time to edit and rehearse. If you feel stuck, however, just write whatever comes to your mind. It doesn't have to be perfect the first time around, and once it’s on paper, you can edit it (which we'll get into below). She also says to rehearse multiple times, so you’ll feel confident on the big day. 

Edit Your Material

“A lot of people make the mistake of trying to include everything in their speech, and considering you have a lifetime of material to get through, this isn’t a great plan,” says Ellert-McDermott. “Speeches are better when they are punchy.” In other words, make sure your speech is concise, while still hitting all the points you'd like to address. She also adds, “If a story takes longer to explain, maybe it’s better reserved for the bar later.”

Keep It Light

“Another mistake a lot of sisters make is getting overly sappy and emotional,” Ellert-McDermott continues. “Aim for 75 percent comedy, 25 percent heartfelt sentiment. At Speechy, we believe that it's always good to start a speech with some humor. The emotional, sentimental content should be in the final third of the speech." After all, you want to kick off the celebration in high spirits and get everyone excited to hit the dance floor once the toasts are over.

Carefully Consider Jokes

" Telling a bad joke is worse than no joke ," notes Ellert-McDermott, who advises staying away from politics, contentious issues, religion, cultural differences, exes, and anything that would require your brother to apologize to his new spouse. "It's not worth the risk," she adds.

Focus on a Theme

“The trick to crafting a great speech, one people will be complimenting till 1 a.m., is to find a theme that connects all the random insights and anecdotes into one narrative,” Ellert-McDermott says. “You want to think of your speech like a good, old-fashioned story with a beginning, middle, and almighty climax.”  

“If you’ve written your speech but still feel it’s lacking something, look at using a couple of quotes in your speech. Wittier, wiser people may have already articulated what you’re trying to say and, as long as you credit them, it’s not plagiarism,” Ellert-McDermott explains. “Think of the writers, bands, films, that mean something to you and your brother. Yoda does a fine line in wise words , for example.” She does note, though, that sisters of the groom should avoid "any googled gags. Nothing cliched, wedding-y, or generic."

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Sister-of-the-Groom Speech Examples

Need a few examples to jumpstart your speech-writing journey? Ahead, Ellert-McDermott shares a few sample lines (these are on the funnier side!) to use in your own toast.

Opening Lines 

“Ladies and Gentlemen, what a pleasure it is to see you all here today. For those I’ve yet to meet, I’m [Name], and I’m giving the lesser-known sister-of-the-groom speech. It’s kind of like the father-of-the-bride speech—a tribute to their personality and character—but just significantly more abusive." 

Talking About Your Parents

“ A special thanks to our fantastic parents who have done an amazing job hosting such a special occasion tonight. All the effort, all the hard work; anyone would think [Name] was actually their favorite child! On a serious note, [Name] and I wouldn't be who we are today if it wasn't for you two. No heckling from either of our partners please—they did their best with us!”

Talking About Your Brother’s Partner

“Yes, [Name], you look absolutely stunning today and it’s a privilege to have you as my sibling-in-law. I’m so excited that not only have you officially joined the [Name] family, but that you’ve also taken on responsibility for my brother. Yes, those calls at 2 a.m. when he’s forgotten where he lives are now your problem. Really [Name], you should have read the small print."

The Final Toast

"So, my final piece of utterly unqualified advice to you both is simple: Enjoy your life together. [Brother’s name], you’re so lucky to have found your soulmate, and [Partner’s name], you’re lucky to have found someone who will make you laugh every day. Usually unintentionally. And often in the bedroom. Ladies and gentlemen, a toast to my brother and my favorite new brother/sister. Cheers!"

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Sister of the Groom – Sample Wedding Speeches & Toasts

Sample wedding speech for the sister of the groom.

It is with great joy that I say “congratulations” to my brother Brad and his beautiful new bride, Amy. They say there is someone out there for everyone, and it appears that Brad has found his perfect match with Amy.

From the first moment I met Amy, I knew she was someone special to my brother. Amy, you’re everything I could ever want for my brother and I am pleased to welcome you to our family. You’re already like a sister to me — but now it’s official!

Brad, I am so proud of you. I never imagined that my rambunctious baby brother could look so handsome in a tux! I know you’re going to be a great husband. And I know I’d make a great aunt — just something to think about, OK little brother?

Seriously, though…I wish you both the greatest happiness throughout your lives. Let’s all raise our glasses in honor of the bride and groom!

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Memorable Sister Of The Groom Wedding Speech Guide

Planning your sister of the groom wedding speech can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. It’s a special opportunity to honor the bond you share with your brother and celebrate the union of two people you love. With a well-crafted speech that combines personal anecdotes, emotional tributes, and lighthearted moments, you can create a memorable experience for the couple and everyone in attendance. In this guide, we will provide you with a step-by-step approach to crafting a remarkable sister of the groom wedding speech.

As you take the floor, begin by warmly greeting the guests and expressing gratitude for their presence. Share your excitement for the joyous occasion and establish a connection with the audience. Introduce yourself as the sister of the groom, mentioning your close relationship with the couple. By setting an engaging and friendly tone right from the start, you’ll capture the attention of everyone in the room.

Personal Anecdotes and Childhood Memories

One of the most effective ways to touch the hearts of the audience is by sharing personal anecdotes and childhood memories. Paint a vivid picture of your relationship with the groom, highlighting special moments and experiences you’ve shared together. Recall the times when you were partners in crime, the inside jokes, and the secrets shared. These stories will not only make the audience smile but also showcase the deep bond you both share.

Express Admiration for the Couple

Take a moment to express your admiration for the couple as individuals. Talk about their positive qualities and what makes them unique. Emphasize how they complement each other perfectly and bring out the best in one another. By highlighting their compatibility, you’ll reinforce the idea that they are meant to be together. The audience will appreciate hearing why you believe they make a great couple.

Funny and Light-Hearted Moments

A wedding is a joyous occasion, and injecting some humor into your speech can help create a fun and memorable atmosphere. Recall funny incidents involving the groom and share humorous stories that will make the audience laugh. Keep the tone light and entertaining, but be sure to avoid any embarrassing or overly personal anecdotes. The goal is to entertain and bring smiles to the faces of the newlyweds and their guests.

Emotional Tribute to the Groom

Once you’ve shared some light-hearted moments, it’s time to shift gears and deliver an emotional tribute to your brother. Express your love and admiration for him, highlighting his growth, achievements, and the obstacles he has overcome. Speak from the heart, mentioning specific qualities and characteristics that make him a remarkable person. Let him know how proud you are of his journey and reassure him that you’ll always be there for him.

Warm Welcome to the Bride

Extend a warm welcome to the bride into your family. Highlight her positive qualities and express your happiness that she’s become a part of your lives. Mention how she has brought even more love and happiness into your brother’s life. By acknowledging her and her role in your brother’s life, you’ll create a sense of inclusion and unity among everyone present.

Words of Wisdom and Advice for a Successful Marriage

As someone who has witnessed the ups and downs of relationships, you can offer valuable advice to the newlyweds. Share some heartfelt wisdom and lessons you’ve learned about marriage. Talk about the importance of communication, compromise, and appreciation. Offer practical tips for maintaining a strong and thriving relationship. Your words of wisdom will resonate with the couple, guiding them towards a successful future together.

Give a Toast to the Couple

To conclude your speech, raise your glass and give a toast to the couple. Wish them a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness. Encourage everyone to join you in celebrating their union and toasting to their bright future. This final gesture will leave a lasting impression on the newlyweds and bring the speech to a heartfelt closure.

Closing Remarks

In your closing remarks, express your gratitude to everyone for attending the wedding and showing their support for the couple. End on a positive and hopeful note, leaving the audience with warm feelings and happy memories. It’s your chance to make a last impression and reinforce the joyous atmosphere of the wedding.

Remember, crafting a memorable sister of the groom wedding speech is all about sharing personal stories, expressing admiration, and offering heartfelt advice. By following this guide, you’ll create a speech that engages the audience, delights the couple, and leaves a lasting impression on everyone in attendance.

Sister of the Groom Speech Ideas For Wedding

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Are you the sister of the groom and looking for ideas for your wedding speech? Look no further! In this post, we’ll give you inspiration and speech tips for creating a heartfelt and memorable talk that will honor your brother and his new spouse on their wedding day.

Whether you want to tell funny stories, express your love and support, or offer advice for a happy marriage, we’ve got you covered. So grab a pen and paper, and let’s get started on writing your sister of groom speech!

Speeches from family members are during a wedding reception after the best man, maid of honor, and father of the bride.

Sister of the Groom Speech Outline

• Introduction:
• Greet the audience and introduce yourself as the sister of the groom.
• Share a memorable story or anecdote about growing up with the groom.
• Express your happiness for the couple:
• Talk about how happy you are for the groom and bride.
• Mention specific qualities that make them a great match.

3. Talk about your brother:

• Share a few funny or poignant stories about growing up with the groom
• Talk about the groom’s personality and how it has developed over the years

4. Talk about the bride:

• Talk about how the groom met the bride and what drew him to her
• Share your impressions of the bride and why you think she is a good match for your brother

5. Share your well wishes:

• Offer your congratulations to the newlyweds.
• Share your hopes and wishes for their future together.
• Thank the audience for listening.
• Offer a wedding toast to the newlyweds.

Remember to keep your speech heartfelt and personal, and try to keep it around 5-7 minutes long. Also, don’t forget to practice beforehand to ensure that your delivery is confident and natural.

Sister of the Groom Speech Example

Hello everyone,

I am so happy say that the groom and I are brother and sister. And (bride’s name) is now my sister and law. I would like to express a few sentiments on their big day.

Growing up, (groom’s name) was always my role model and someone I looked up to. He was always there for me, offering advice and support whenever I needed it. So it’s no surprise to me that he’s found someone as amazing as (bride’s name).

(Bride’s name), you and (groom’s name) are such a perfect match, and I’m so happy to see the joy and love that you bring into each other’s lives. Your happiness is contagious, and I know that you will have a lifetime filled with love and adventure.

To the newlyweds, congratulations and best wishes on this exciting journey. I’m so grateful to have you both as part of my life, and I can’t wait to see all the amazing things you will accomplish together.

Please join me for a toast to the newlyweds!

Younger Sister of the Groom Speech Samples

Hi everyone,

I’m so happy to be standing here today as the sister of the groom. (Groom’s name) has been such a significant person in my life. I’m just ecstatic to see him marrying the love of his life.

Growing up with (groom’s name) was an honor. He was always there for me and looked out for me. He was my protector and my biggest fan, and I’m so grateful to have this powerful bond with him.

(Bride’s name), you are such a beautiful and wonderful person and I’m so excited to see you and (groom’s name) get married. You make him a better person and I know that you will have a lifetime filled with unconditional love and bliss.

I want to say congratulations and I wish you the best on this new adventure. I’m so happy that l have you both in my life, and I am s excited to see all the things your marriage has in store.

Cheers to the happy couple!

Good evening everyone,

I’m the sister of the groom, and I couldn’t be happier to stand here today and watch my brother marry the love of his life. (Groom’s name) has always been such a special person to me, and I’m so grateful to (bride’s name) for bringing so much joy and love into his life.

Growing up, (groom’s name) was always there for me and supported me in everything I did. Whether it was cheering me on at my sports games or helping me study for exams, he was always the best brother anyone could ask for. So it’s no surprise to me that he’s found someone who is just as kind, compassionate, and loving as he is.

(Bride’s name), you and (groom’s name) are truly a perfect match, and I have no doubt that you will have a lifetime filled with love and happiness. I’m so grateful to have you as a new sister and can’t wait to see all the amazing things you will accomplish together.

To the newlyweds, congratulations and best wishes on this exciting journey. Cheers to many more years of love and laughter.

Older Sister of the Groom Wedding Speech

I’m so honored to stand here today as the sister of the groom and to witness the love and commitment that (groom’s name) and (bride’s name) have for each other.

As the older sister, I’ve had the privilege of knowing some of (groom’s name)’s most embarrassing moments. I’ve also watched him grow and mature into the kind, caring, and loving person that he is today. And it’s no surprise to me that he has found someone as amazing as (bride’s name) to spend his life with.

(Bride’s name), you and (groom’s name), my baby brother are such a perfect match, and I have no doubt that you will have a lifetime filled with love and happiness. Thank you for bringing so much joy and love into his life.

To the newlyweds, congratulations and best wishes on this exciting journey. I’m so grateful to have you both in my life, and I can’t wait to see all the amazing things you will accomplish together.

A toast to the happy couple!

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The Sister of the Groom Speech: What to Write, Say & Do

Hey there! So, your brother is tying the knot and you’ve been asked to prepare a sister of the groom speech. That’s super exciting, but also a bit nerve-wracking, right? How do you wrap years of sibling love, shared secrets, and inside jokes into a few minutes of the spotlight? Fear not, I’ve got some tips to help you spin the magic with your words and deliver a sister of the groom speech that will leave a lasting impression.

Jotting Down Your Thoughts

First things first, grab a pen and paper, or your laptop, and start by reminiscing about your adventures with your brother. From those pillow fights to his first heartbreak, and the triumphant moments you’ve celebrated together – jot down whatever crosses your mind.

Now, remember the beautiful bride-to-be. Throw in a story or two about how she’s become part of your family. Did you notice when your brother’s eyes started to sparkle a bit more when she walked into the room? Share that with everyone!

Try to keep your sister of the groom speech short and sweet, something like three to five minutes should do the trick.

Choosing the Right Words

Alright, let’s dive into the speech. Kick things off with a warm welcome to all the lovely people who’ve gathered to celebrate this special day. It’s a nice touch to thank the bride and groom’s parents too.

Next, spill some beans about your brother’s journey, his growth, and all those qualities that make him an amazing brother. And, hey, why not have a little fun with it? Throw in some funny anecdotes or inside jokes to keep it light and entertaining.

Shift gears and focus on the star couple. Talk about how they complete each other, how their love story unfolded, and how your brother has bloomed in her company. Trust me, everyone’s waiting to hear these juicy details.

Wrap up your sister of the groom speech by showering the couple with your blessings and well wishes for their future. Then, raise your glass for a heartfelt toast to their happiness.

Delivering Like a Pro

Now, you’ve got a fabulous speech ready, but how to deliver it? Here’s the secret – practice, practice, and then practice some more. Reading your speech aloud will help you with your pace, pauses, and overall flow. And remember, it’s totally okay if you get a bit teary-eyed. It just shows how much you love your bro.

While giving your speech, try to make eye contact with your audience, especially your brother and his bride. This will make your sister of the groom’s speech more engaging.

And hey, no one’s expecting you to give a TED talk. It’s all about being yourself and speaking from the heart. If you stumble over a word or two, just laugh it off and carry on. As long as your speech is genuine, you’re golden.

Wrapping it Up

Being asked to deliver a sister of the groom speech is truly an honor, and sure, it can feel like a daunting task. But remember, this is your chance to express your love for your brother and welcome a new sister into your family. Keep it authentic, heartfelt, and relatable, and your speech will be a hit. So, break a leg; you’re going to do great!

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(*Of course, if you’re looking for more than ‘advice’, check out all the different ways the Speechy team can help you write & deliver a great speech. Or check out our new AI-powered team member, SpeechyAI .)

(Of course, if you’re looking for more than ‘advice’, check out Speechy’s bespoke speechwriting service . We also have a range of excellent speech templates that might be just what you need.)

Step 1: Know Your Etiquette & Plan For The Day

Luckily, there isn’t much.

These days, you don’t need to address anyone as ‘ladies and gentlemen’ unless it’s a particular formal affair or you simply want to.

A sister of the groom doesn’t need to think about thank yous either. These will be handled by the newlyweds.

Of course, something you DO have to do is compliment your brother’s choice of partner . It helps if this is sincere (but not essential). Again, try to avoid cliches and highlight anything you’ve bonded over (whether it’s a good Merlot or a tolerance of your brother).

If you’re the only person from your side of the family speaking (apart from your brother hopefully) then make sure you also convey your excitement at the prospect of getting to know your new (extended) in-laws too.

In terms of length, it’s good to chat to the nearlyweds in advance of the big day and see what they’re comfortable with. If there are a lot of speakers, they may ask you to keep it on the shorter side.

Generally, we think five to nine minutes is a good length to tell a few fun stories and pay a genuine tribute to a loved one. 750 – 1,100 words is a good guide.

Remember, no one ever wanted a speech to be longer. In fact, once you write your first draft, a good challenge is to try to edit it down by a third. Generally, it will make your speech much stronger. Punchy is always better.

In advance of the day, confirm whether or not an MC will be introducing you . If not, you will have to explain who you are at the start of your speech.

It’s also helpful to know whether you’ll be given a mic . If so, you might want to practise your mic-technique in advance (though don’t worry, it’s not rocket science!).

Step 2: Gather Your Intel

At the heart of all good wedding speeches is a collection of heartfelt and hilarious memories. Ge t flicking/scrolling through the old photo albums, Facebook, Instagram – maybe even pay a trip to your family house to go through mementos. And while you’re here, get together with other family members to share memories (a.k.a. incriminating stories).

Of course, your speech is not only an opportunity to tease your brother but pay ‘a tribute’ to your parents and the way they brought you both up . Remember how they wouldn’t let you watch Hollyoaks or eat sugar after 4 pm? ‘Well, mum, there’s a three-tier cake over there with our name on it, and YOU can’t do anything about it.’

Did you grow up squabbling or were you always as thick as thieves? Was  one  of you ALWAYS the favourite growing up? If so, it’s time to dish the dirt. Lovingly of course!

Step 3: Find Your Theme

Once you’ve gathered your anecdotes, hopefully, there’ll be some kind of theme emerging. Some writers call it the ‘throughline’ but a theme is a narrative thread that will help give your speech some structure . It’s the thing that connects all your content so it sounds like a narrative rather than just a rather arbitrary list of thoughts.

Your theme is likely to center around that one thing that perfectly sums up your brother – whether it’s the fact that he’s a control freak, accident-prone, or a dedicated ‘foodie’.  

• For example, if the groom’s now a vaguely respectable teacher, reveal the alarming things he’s taught you over the years (snorting Sambuca etc).
• If he’s a wannabe musician,  chronicle his life through his musical eras.
• Perhaps having lived with him for nearly two decades, you feel well-placed to tell his partner how they can continue your mission to house-train him.

You get the idea!

Step 4: Get It Write

To simplify the writing process, think about it in sections. It makes the whole process less intimidating and also stops you from going off track, if you have headings to work with.

If, for example, your speech theme is centered around you and your brother being partners in crime, your headings may be

• Hello – establish the theme
• ‘The toddler years’
• ‘The teenage troubles’
• ‘A dult misdemeanors’,
• ‘Going on the straight and narrow’ – a loving tribute to my brother and his new partner in crime.
• Toast to the newlyweds

Then y ou simply insert any stories that fit these categories and connect them so it becomes a free-flowing narrative. You can already see how much easier this speech will be to write.

Once you’ve added in the appropriate anecdotes and insights you simply need to make sure they all link together seamlessly.

Of course, make sure you have regular humour throughout . If you’re struggling to find your funny bones, read our blog on How To Make Your Wedding Speech Funny and find out how you can add laughter to your speech without resorting to any wedding jokes, sexist stereotypes, or Googled gags. The trick is simply to observe your brother in action and identify what makes him unique. Let’s face it, everyone is weird in their own way, so you just have to watch him in action!

The final third / quarter of the speech should be the emotional sucker punch (the bit where you reveal how much you really blooming love your bro). It should also express your joy in them finding their soulmate and your sibling-in-law.

Once you’ve written your first draft, get brutal with it. Invite others to read it and, here’s the tricky thing, take their feedback on board. If they don’t get a joke, don’t bother explaining it to them. You won’t be able to do that on the day! 

Step 5: Deliver Like A Pro

Written the perfect speech? Great! Now it’s time to master it.

Practising reading the speech out loud, five times in a row. It’s a simple but effective memory technique. And read your speech just before you go to bed. It sounds ridiculous, but apparently, this is the best time to memorise something – scientifically proven!

Of course, you don’t need to know your speech by heart but you need to be familiar with it.

It’s fine to have notes on the day. Using electronic devices to read from is now commonplace (as it avoids ‘paper shake’ or faffing about with cards) but personally, at Speechy, we still prefer old-school paper as many of us are now trained to resent people reading from tech in our presense.

On the day, eyecontact with the guests remains paramount to a good delivery. As does smiling – which is scientifically proven (again) to be infectious.

Read our How To Deliver Like A Pro guide.

Now we reach the big moment – actually delivering the speech on the day!

It’s easy enough for us to say but you really have nothing to worry about. Everyone wants you to do well. 

So just take your time, read slowly, take deep breaths, and you’ll be fine. You’ll ease into it no time and by the end, you’ll have done your brother proud.

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Sister of the Bride Speech Guide with Examples

When your sister asks you to speak at her wedding, you know it’s a tremendous honor. And while growing up, you may not have always seen eye-to-eye, being there for her on her wedding day is huge! The brides’ sisters can create an extra-special moment for the bride and the groom on their wedding day.

With an extra bout of sentiment and sass, this speech can make tears fall. and giggles erupt. And don’t worry about nerves; we’ve got you covered. We have compiled some great examples of the sister of the bride speeches here. If you’re worried about messing your speech up, we’ve got you covered. Check out our article on avoiding common wedding speech mistakes .

What Makes a Great Sister of the Bride Speech?

Sisters share a common lineage that makes them partners and friends for life.

It goes way beyond being described as close or as members of the same family. A sister’s wedding presents an opportunity to make her feel special and enjoy a uniquely sweetly-worded sister of the bride’s wedding speech .

Five Tips To Improve Your Sister Of The Bride Speech

• Make it personal.
• Share profound memories – the good and the slightly embarrassing.
• Practice. Practice. Practice. And start writing it early.
• Gush about your sister and let everyone know how and why she is so unique to you and others.
• Always thank the guests for coming.

Other Important Tips To Remember

When you plan to deliver a sister’s wedding speech, make sure you keep the moments as lively and simple as possible. Don’t be afraid to be funny , and people will always love the heartfelt side too.

Start by stating the relationship you share, if you are older or younger, to the bride. Having done this, extend a few words of congratulations to the couple on behalf of your family and remember to thank your guests and relatives for coming.

Examples of Sister of the Bride Speeches

Keep it light and fun.

“All right, good afternoon, everyone. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Lindsay, and I am a younger sister of the bride. Those of you who do know me, I’ll have the usual, just put the butter by my purse. I would like to congratulate the other Lenny, Lenny, the number one for her Oscar nomination. Thank you for making us beautiful today, taking the time out, and thank you for telling Glenn Klaus “No” and Emmy “Yes.” We appreciate it. The day that Emmy asked me to be her maid of honor… actually, she never asked me to be her maid of honor. I just sort of assumed the role. So hopefully, I’m the person you want sitting next to you; if not, I’m sorry there are no refunds.

Anyway, when I started thinking about a speech, I was really nervous, and I even contemplated asking her if she would mind if I didn’t speak. I have several anxieties. But I quickly scrapped that idea because, for those of you who know my sister, you know that she does not take no for an answer. I can elaborate with a short story to help pin up a better picture for you. When Emmy first told me she was moving to Ireland, for those of you who know my sister, the conversation was something like, “Hello, you’re what? Steve begged you? And he’s, “Jeez!” Yeah, great. No, I don’t think dad will kill him.”

Steve’s version of it went something like, “You’re sister, she’s the most determined woman I’ve ever met.”

“What? What do you mean?”

“Well, she came for a three-day visit, and she had three job interviews lined up, and she had an apartment.” So, there are two sides to every story, but she’s a very determined young lady. Growing up with Emmy as a big sister really helped paved the way for me in high school. “Oh, are you Emmy Thorne’s sister?” “Yes.” Well, that pretty much meant that if I had any grade below an A, they questioned whether or not we were indeed related.

And they would do the same for your brother too. So, that was tough. But not only was Emmy an academic star but she never really joined anything else in school except the captain of the dance team. She is the head of math leads, president of the student council, basketball player, volleyball player, a typical underachiever. And then went to North Western on top of it. On a more serious note, Emmy is a type of sister that everyone probably wishes that they had; I’m not going to cry. As far back as I can remember, you’ve been the voice of reason, my biggest cheerleader, and my role model.

Above all, you’ve been a great friend. Even though she’s far away, she’s still the first person I call with good news or bad or someone just when I need advice or someone to listen to me bitch. She’s that person. I honestly don’t know what I would do without you. Steven, oh Steven… I’m not going to embarrass Steve because Johnny is going to handle that. I’d like to welcome you to our family officially. We all love you very much. I’ve always hoped that Emmy can find someone that can keep up with her, someone who challenges her, makes her laugh, enjoys the same thing she does. Above all, I would hope she found someone who can put her in her place, and you are that someone.

One of Emmy’s best friends back home refers to you as gentleman Steve, and that name couldn’t be any more fitting, and dad I thought sober for my speech. You’re a true gentleman, and Emmy couldn’t have picked a sexier accent to listen to if you ask me. To finish up, Steve, I would like to share a few tips with you, which are supposed to guarantee a long and happy marriage. Number one, when you’re wrong, admit it; when you’re right, shut up. The best way to remember your anniversary is to forget it once. A happy wife is a happy life. And finally, Steven, never be afraid that Emmy will leave you, she has spent years training you, and she will not give that up.

With that said, I’d like everyone to please raise a glass; I’d like to make a toast to Emmy and Steve. I wish you a lifetime of happiness. May the road be long, and the party never end.”

Funny Sister of The Bride Gives Speech That Includes Great Quotes Can Use

Now, this is how you give an incredible sister of the bride toast! This sister gives a very poised and funny speech that includes a few  great quotes that may be perfect to include in your wedding toast. This speech by the sister of the bride also includes a few digs at herself, and funny things about the bride and many praises for the new Mr. Presented in a very down-to-earth, lighthearted and enjoyable manner. Watch it now-it’s great!

A Wonderful Sister Of The Bride Speech For The Sentimental

“Good evening! First of all, I want to thank all of you for coming and celebrating this beautiful new marriage, especially all those who had to buy a plane ticket and take off work to be here. We appreciate you so much.

For those who don’t know me, allow me to introduce myself. My name is Claire, and I’m the little sister of the stunning bride tonight. And when Claire asked me to be her maid of honor, I was so honored although slightly nervous about this task right now.

Our relationship has always been solid. We fought, of course, but my memories are filled with giggles and hugs and secrets. Although we shared a room for nearly ten years and were utterly sick of each other when she moved off to college, she’s always been my favorite person.

When she brought Ben home that Christmas, I knew this was it for her. I knew we’d never share a room again; I knew that I’d never get to share an apartment with her after we graduated college. Because the truth was, she had already found her forever roommate just two months into freshman year.

Both of you are such good people, deserving of each other’s love and an inspiration to all of us. I have an incredible sister already, and I’ve been doubly blessed this evening by gaining a brother too.

We salute you and wish you both an incredibly happy and long life together.”

Double Trouble, And Twice The Fun – A Twin Sister Wedding Speech

“Good evening, everyone, and thank you so much for being here. My name is Cara, and I’m the bride’s sister, twin, and best friend – Ainsley agrees, just ask her! I said that I’d make an allowance for her new husband and begrudgingly keep my visits to three times a week. But I still get first dibs on the comfy blue couch!

Welcome to the Family

Ainsley, I can’t believe this is your wedding day and that you’re standing there in such a gorgeous dress. You always used to say that even though we’re identical twins, you were the prettier one. I always smacked you for comments like that, but today, I know that it’s true. You’re a beautiful bride.

Tristen, I’m in awe of the love you and Ainsley have for each other. The gentle touches, the little smiles. I’m so happy you’re now a part of my sister’s life, that you’re part of our family. You guys have something extraordinary, though, and I know that it will only grow deeper with time.

Ainsley, when I look back on our time growing up, I recall so many moments full of giggles when we should have been sleeping, sneaking out of the house when we should have been sleeping, writing our scary stories when we should have been sleeping … there seems to be a pattern here.

Mom and Dad spent many nights yelling at us to go to bed and then threatening to keep us from our toys, then our music, then our friends. I guess the threats worked for a while, but we just couldn’t help ourselves.

Ainsley, there’s no one else I’d rather have as my sister. You were the perfect partner in crime, and I will admit, there was an occasion or two that I pretended to be you so you’d take the blame for some devious plan of mine.

To my sister and brother-in-law, I wish you years of happiness, and I can’t wait to see what the future brings.”

Heartfelt Sister of The Bride In Under 5 Minutes

No one ever said a wedding speech has to be long. In fact, most experts recommend that you keep it under 5 minutes. Here is a wonderful example of a younger sister giving a heartfelt, emotional speech with a little humor in under 5 minutes. Watch it here.

Older Sister Of The Bride Wedding Speech Sample

“Welcome, everyone, I’m Nadia, and you’re all looking absolutely lovely tonight! But of course, no one can beat my little sister, the bride Naomi. In case you haven’t guessed yet, I’m the older sister of this stunning bride, and I am totally ready to crush all the other speeches for first place.

To The Blushing Bride

Naomi, what can I say. You’re so gorgeous in that dress. I know you have dreamt of this day since you were a little girl, and I have too. But I never imagined in a trillion years that you could be so unbelievably radiant on this day.

Ladies & Gentlemen, Naomi is wearing our mother’s wedding gown that she wore to wed our father 30 years ago. Of course, being the older sister, I tried to fit into it for my own wedding a few years ago, but I quickly realized that it wasn’t meant to be. Clearly, I took after our daddy’s side of the family.

Naomi, she’s the spitting image of our mom at that age, so of course, the gown fits her perfectly. And although I was saddened that I couldn’t walk down the aisle in mom’s dress, today I am over the moon to see how stunning Naomi looks wearing it. We were just 11 and 14 years old when Mama left us, and Naomi wearing her gown today gives incredible tribute to our love for her.

Ideally Suited in Love and Life

And of course, today there wasn’t just one beautiful dress at this wedding; there are two. Naomi and her new wife Eva were captivating standing hand in hand under the gorgeous floral arch in their stunning gowns.

Eva, I see how much Naomi has blossomed since first meeting you. I see how much you both bring out each other’s best traits.

I remember when Naomi was nine years old, she ran to her room, closed the door, and several hours later emerged with this incredible poster full of whirls, swirls, and intricate flowers. The colors were gorgeous; it was truly amazing.

At the time, Mama was sick, but she knew that Naomi had talent. She squeezed my hand and told me to promise to do everything possible to ensure Naomi went to art school. And trust me when I say no was not an option.

Dad and I did what we could to save, cut back on things so that we could fulfill the promise we made. Naomi went off to art school, found her purpose in life, and quickly met her ladylove. Seeing the two of you share your love for art and the incredible talents you both have inspires us all.

Hand-in-hand, with their paint brushes, pencils, and sketchbooks, Naomi and Eva are ready to accomplish great things. The world is a vast place, but knowing that they will have each other’s backs throughout life will make the journey just a little bit sweeter.

To Naomi and Eva.”

Getting Over Fear Of Public Speaking – A Great Sister Of The Bride Speech

There are a lot of people that have a tremendous fear of speaking in public. In this next sister of the bride speech example, Michaela overcomes her anxiety and speech fear and presents a great sister of the bride speech.

“Good evening everyone, I would like to welcome you all and say thank you to Linsey and Neil for allowing us to share their special day.

For those of you who don’t know who I am, my name is Michaela. I am Linsey’s very proud older sister, and just in case you were wondering if you heard right, you did, it’s true I am the older sister,.. hard to believe I know,… but that’s enough about me, today it’s all about my beautiful little sister and her husband.

This is the first wedding in our family, we tend to be a little on the free-spirited side of life, and of course, there have been the usual tears and tantrums, but that was just me trying to write this speech.

Linsey, of course, has been the epitome of calm and decorum. It’s true what they say,” that a deep river runs still,” and that’s what you get with my little sister. Who On the surface is very glamorous and calm, but you will get a flash of her depths every now and then.

I once read a quote that said,” A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life,” and that is what Linsey has been to me.

I was so excited when Linzy was born and even more so when I held her for the first time. She had massive blue eyes, and as I looked into those huge eyes, I remember wondering what our lives would hold.

Little did I realize it would mean sleepless nights, sharing a bedroom for the next 18 years, regular loss of my clothes from MY part of the wardrobe, being woken up on Saturday mornings by her singing like a Diva into her fisher price tape recorder to Whitney Houston’s ‘I will always love you. ..’ and then playing it back over and over again. To be honest, I still laugh about that.

She has always been creative, and it appeared at an early age. She loved to draw; she drew all the time, on the wall, on her bedsheets, on my bed sheets, on her arms, up her legs, and anywhere else she could reach. Fortunately, she also loved to bathe! She would spend hours in there, ducking and diving under the water; well, it would remove the pen, but she would end up so cold that she would be shivering.

As she has grown older, she managed to place her creativity into more constructive things, and her talent has taken her through university, on to teaching, and then on to her own ‘Linzy Lou’ creations.

When Linsey met Neil, I immediately noticed something different about her…. There was a twinkle in her eye! One I hadn’t seen before. Ohhhhhhhhhhhh, I thought to myself.

Although it took Neil a very LONG time to realize what he was missing out on, a few Facebook traumas, and a bad hair dye reaction on Linsey before their first date, they finally got together, and there has been no looking back!

Of the two Sisters, one is always the watcher, one the dancer. Well, I am definitely the watcher as I missed out on both coordination and rhythm, whereas Linz is definitely the dancer. She has danced her way through life to her own rhythm.

The world of Linz has always been a place you want to be a part of…. Full of dreams, laughter, music, quirky ideas, and God…… it draws you in,… it surprises you, delights you, comforts you, and makes you feel special, and I feel lucky to have been there from the very beginning.

Linsey has been there through thick and thin, been my confidant and adviser, Loyal and protective; Neil, she will be all of these things to you and more! Today I am not losing a sister but gaining another brother. I would love to take this opportunity to welcome you to our family; the adventure begins here.

Could I ask you all to raise your glasses as I propose A toast to Linsey and Neil.

May your dreams be shared visions, your Christian walk side by side, hand in hand, and your love deepen every day of your lives.

To Linsey and Neil.”

Heartfelt Younger Sister Of The Bride Speech

We know that not all sisters have an intense bond, and many don’t grow up together. But love is love, and Genesee shares her undying love for Marin (her older sister) with a heartfelt speech that explains their distance, reconnection, and unconditional love that will last for eternity. Check out this lovely younger sister of the bride speech.

“I want to start by saying how, just last night, Marin whispered to me how worried she was that people wouldn’t love her wedding. Marin, let me reassure you on that one. Judging by the sea of smiles around me, you can put that fear neatly to rest.

Hello, everybody, and thank you for coming. I’m Genesee, and I’m Marin’s younger sister.

Marin and Hal are the cutest couple, aren’t they? It’s incredible to think that they didn’t know one another four years ago. They’re so in-tune with one another and so comfortable with sharing their truths.

I am thankful for having the opportunity to get to know Hal and welcome him as the brother I never had. He loves to sing as I do, and he has joined in on numerous karaoke nights when Marin would wave him out the door with her usual, “Go bother someone else with all that croaking.” With that, we’d head to our favorite karaoke bar and croak away.

Just last week, we were singing away and having a blast. I guarantee there will be many more to follow!

Reconnecting

Marin and I have an unusual family history. We weren’t all that close when we were growing up. It wasn’t until I was in college that we really got close. I had a pretty rough time of it at first—I can see by the smiles that some of you remember dealing with me when I was having my “rough time”—and one night, when I was feeling really gloomy, something made me send Marin a message, even though we hadn’t talked in months. She wrote back right away, and we ended up talking until late in the night.

That night long chat turned into weekly coffee meet-ups and coping with college got a lot easier after that. I just needed to remember I had an older sister I could count on.

And of course, I remember the coffee chat when Marin told me about this great guy she’d just met. You guys might know him; he’s standing over there now. Hi, Hal!

Love From All Corners

But let’s bring it all back to today. Marin, I see the way Hal looks at you. I see the way your little girl looks at you, who, by the way, is the cutest flower girl ever. All of that love makes me so proud to call you my sister. Some days I completely forget that we didn’t grow up together.

To Marin, Hal, and little Tala, I wish you the very best. Wherever the road takes you, you’ll be surrounded with love and laughter. Oh, and this girl right here, because I’m not going anywhere. I love you guys. Cheers to the bride and groom!”

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Sister of The Groom Wedding Speech

Good evening, everyone!

For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], [Groom’s Name]’s sister. Standing here today, seeing my brother marry the love of his life, fills me with so many emotions—pride, happiness, and just a hint of nostalgia. It feels like just yesterday we were kids, causing mischief and pretending to be superheroes in the backyard, and now here we are, celebrating one of the most important days of his life.

A Walk Down Memory Lane:

Growing up with [Groom’s Name] was always an adventure. Whether it was [insert a specific memory or anecdote about his childhood], or the way he would [mention a funny or endearing habit], he was always the one with the wild ideas and the unwavering determination to see them through.

But amidst all the fun and craziness, there’s something that has always stood out to me about [Groom’s Name]—his big heart. He was the brother who [insert a memory that shows his protective or caring nature]. He has always been the protector, the doer, and the one who makes you feel like everything is going to be okay.

Welcoming [Bride’s Name]:

When [Groom’s Name] first introduced us to [Bride’s Name], I remember thinking, “[Insert your initial thoughts about the bride].” And I couldn’t have been more right. From the very beginning, it was clear that [Bride’s Name] brought out the best in my brother. She’s [insert her qualities, such as kind, patient, loving], and has this incredible ability to [mention something unique about their relationship]. But more than that, [Bride’s Name] has become the sister I never knew I needed. You’ve not only made my brother incredibly happy, but you’ve also brought so much joy and warmth into our family. I can’t imagine a better partner for him, and I’m so excited to officially call you my sister.

Their Love Story:

Watching [Groom’s Name] and [Bride’s Name] together has been like watching a perfect love story unfold. They balance each other in such a beautiful way—he brings the [mention his qualities], and she brings the [mention her qualities], and together, they create this harmony that’s both inspiring and heartwarming. They’ve been through [mention challenges or milestones they’ve faced together], and no matter what, they’ve always found their way back to each other, stronger than before. That’s how I know their love is the real deal—because it’s not just about the good times; it’s about the way they support each other through everything life throws at them.

A Sister’s Advice:

As your sister, [Groom’s Name], I can’t let this moment pass without giving you a little sisterly advice—though I’m sure you’ll take it with a grain of salt, as you always do. Marriage is a journey, filled with surprises and sometimes a few bumps in the road. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned from watching you two, it’s that you’ve already got what it takes to make it work. Keep laughing together, even when life gets tough. Keep talking, even when it’s hard. And above all, keep choosing each other, every single day.

So, let’s raise our glasses to my amazing brother and his beautiful bride. [Groom’s Name], I couldn’t be prouder to be your sister, and [Bride’s Name], I couldn’t be happier to welcome you into our family. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and endless adventures together. May your marriage be filled with all the joy and happiness in the world.

To [Groom’s Name] and [Bride’s Name]! Cheers!

This template allows you to easily insert your personal experiences, anecdotes, and heartfelt sentiments, making it a customizable and meaningful speech that will resonate with the couple and their guests.

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Sister Wedding Speech: Tips and Examples for a Memorable Toast

Speeches are a crucial component of the celebration at weddings. Additionally, you can be requested to make a speech honoring your sibling and their new spouse if you are the bride’s or groom’s sister.

It might be intimidating to stand in front of a crowd and give a moving speech, even if it is an honor to be asked to speak.

Don’t worry if you’re unsure of where to begin with your sister’s wedding speech; we’ve got you covered.

We’ll provide you advice, suggestions, and strategies in this post to help you perfect your sister of the bride or sister of the groom speech.

We’ll go over everything, including the ideal length of your speech as well as key points to include and exclude.

You may give a speech that your sibling and their new spouse will remember for years to come with our advice.

As sisters, we share a bond that is unlike any other. When our younger sister or big sister gets married, it is a beautiful and emotional moment for us.

One of the most important parts of the wedding reception is the wedding speeches, and as sisters, we have a unique opportunity to share our love and support for the newlyweds through our sister wedding speech.

Our sister wedding speech is not just a formality, but an opportunity to express our emotions and share our memories and anecdotes with the bride and groom.

It is a chance for us to offer our advice, support, and love to the newlyweds as they embark on their new journey together.

Our sister wedding speech is a way to show the bride and groom how much we care about them and how proud we are of them.

As the bride’s sister or the groom’s sister, we have a special relationship with the newlyweds.

We have seen them grow and change over the years, and we have been there for them through their adventures and hard times.

Our sister wedding speech is a chance to reflect on these memories and share them with the wedding guests.

Preparing a sister wedding speech can be emotional and overwhelming, but with the right preparation and tips, we can deliver a beautiful and loving speech.

We can start by brainstorming our personal stories and memories with the bride and groom, and choosing a theme or message that we want to convey.

We can also seek advice and guidance from wedding experts or use a maid of honor speech template to help us organize our thoughts.

Our sister wedding speech is a way to express our unconditional love and support for the newlyweds.

It is a chance to share our personal stories, memories, and advice with the bride and groom, and to show them how much we care about them.

We are honored and lucky to have the opportunity to give a sister wedding speech, and we should embrace it with grace and love.

How to Prepare

Preparing for a sister wedding speech can be nerve-wracking, but with the right approach, it can also be an enjoyable experience.

In this section, we will provide tips on how to choose the right tone, structure your speech, and practice effectively.

Choosing the Right Tone

The tone of your speech should reflect your relationship with the bride or groom and the overall mood of the wedding .

It’s important to strike a balance between being emotional and entertaining. Here are some tips to help you choose the right tone:

• Be sincere: Speak from the heart and express your genuine feelings towards the bride or groom.
• Be positive: Focus on the happy moments and memories you share with the couple.
• Be respectful: Avoid embarrassing stories or inappropriate jokes that could offend the couple or their families.

Structuring Your Speech

A well-structured speech can help you stay organized and on track. Here’s a simple outline you can follow:

• Introduction: Start by introducing yourself and your relationship with the bride or groom.
• Personal anecdotes: Share some personal stories or memories that highlight the couple’s best qualities.
• Advice or well wishes: Offer some words of wisdom or express your hopes for the couple’s future together.
• Conclusion: End your speech with a heartfelt toast to the newlyweds.

Practicing Your Speech

Practicing your speech is crucial to delivering it with confidence and ease. Here are some tips to help you prepare:

• Time yourself: Make sure your speech is not too long or too short. Aim for a duration of 3-5 minutes.
• Record yourself: Use your phone or a recording device to listen to your speech and identify areas that need improvement.
• Rehearse in front of others: Practice in front of friends or family members and ask for their feedback.

Remember, the key to a successful sister wedding speech is to be yourself, speak from the heart, and have fun.

With these tips, you’ll be well on your way to delivering a memorable speech that the couple and their guests will cherish forever.

What to Include

As the sister of the bride or groom, giving a wedding speech is a great opportunity to share your love and joy for your sibling. Here are some ideas on what to include in your sister wedding speech:

Personal Memories and Anecdotes

One of the best ways to make your sister wedding speech memorable is to share personal memories and anecdotes.

This could be a funny story from childhood, a touching moment you shared with your sibling, or a special memory from the wedding planning process.

Personal stories are a great way to connect with the audience and show the love and bond you share with your sibling.

Words of Advice and Wisdom

As the older sister, you may have some words of advice and wisdom to share with the newlyweds.

This could be something you learned from your own marriage or a piece of advice that has been passed down through your family.

Giving advice shows that you care about the couple and want to help them have a successful and happy marriage.

Expressions of Love and Gratitude

Finally, it’s important to express your love and gratitude to your sibling and their new spouse.

This could be a heartfelt message about how much you love and admire your sister or brother, or a thank you to their partner for making them happy.

Expressing love and gratitude is a great way to end your sister wedding speech on a positive note and leave a lasting impression on the newlyweds and guests.

When giving a sister wedding speech, it’s important to include personal memories and anecdotes, words of advice and wisdom, and expressions of love and gratitude.

By sharing your love and joy for your sibling and their new spouse, you can make their special day even more memorable and meaningful.

Adding Humor

When it comes to adding humor to your sister wedding speech, it’s important to remember that the goal is to make your sister and her new spouse laugh, not to embarrass them or make them uncomfortable.

Here are some tips to help you add humor to your speech:

• Use personal anecdotes:  One of the best ways to add humor to your speech is to share personal anecdotes about your sister. Think about some funny memories you have shared together, or any embarrassing moments she may have had. Just make sure that the anecdotes are appropriate for the occasion.
• Keep it light:  While it’s important to add some humor to your speech, it’s also important to keep it light. Avoid any topics that may be controversial or offensive, and steer clear of anything that may make your sister or her new spouse uncomfortable.
• Use jokes sparingly:  Jokes can be a great way to add humor to your speech, but use them sparingly. Too many jokes can make your speech feel like a stand-up routine, and you don’t want to take away from the heartfelt sentiment of the occasion.
• Practice your delivery:  When it comes to adding humor to your speech, delivery is key. Practice your speech in front of a mirror or with a friend to make sure that your jokes are landing and that your timing is on point.

Remember, the goal of your sister wedding speech is to celebrate your sister and her new spouse, so make sure that your humor is in service of that goal.

With a little bit of preparation and practice, you can add some humor to your speech that will have everyone laughing and smiling.

Delivering a Memorable Speech

As the sister of the bride, delivering a memorable wedding speech is an important part of the wedding reception .

It’s a chance to express your love and appreciation for your sister, share some heartfelt memories, and engage the audience with your words

Here are some tips to help you deliver a memorable sister wedding speech.

Speaking with Confidence

Public speaking can be daunting, but with preparation and practice, you can deliver a confident and engaging speech.

Start by writing down your thoughts and ideas, and then organize them into a clear and concise speech. Practice your speech several times, either in front of a mirror or with a trusted friend or family member.

This will help you feel more comfortable and confident when delivering your speech in front of a larger audience.

Engaging the Audience

To engage the audience, start by introducing yourself and thanking everyone for attending the wedding.

Share some personal stories and memories about your sister, but keep your speech short and sweet.

Avoid inside jokes or stories that only a few people will understand. Instead, focus on stories that everyone can relate to and enjoy.

Use humor, but make sure it’s appropriate for the occasion.

Closing Your Speech

In closing your speech, offer some words of wisdom or advice for the newlyweds. Congratulate the bride and groom and wish them a lifetime of happiness together. End your speech with a heartfelt toast to the newlyweds.

Remember, delivering a memorable sister wedding speech takes preparation, practice, and confidence. If you’re feeling nervous, take a deep breath and remember that everyone is there to celebrate the love and happiness of the newlyweds.

By following these tips and speaking from the heart, you can deliver a speech that will be remembered for years to come.

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A Sister of the Groom Wedding Speech That’s Worth a Standing Ovation

Are you the sister of the groom and have to make a speech on the big day? Make it simple yet remarkable with the right words and expressions.

There is always a different air of romance, family bonding, love, and commitment when there’s a wedding in process. A bond which the new couple makes doesn’t just give them a sense of belonging, but also gives hope to those witnessing it. Weddings are all about the beautiful bride and groom that are going to be united in holy matrimony. The sheer joy, happiness, and excitement in the atmosphere is so contagious that nobody can seem distant in those moments. Everyone is looking forward to seeing the gorgeous bride take her steps towards eternal happiness with the handsome groom, and all have nothing but best wishes in mind. Such is the magic of weddings. The entire day for celebration has many elements to make any wedding memorable. Right from the bride walking down the aisle to the wedded couple rushing off on their honeymoon after the wedding reception party. And in between all that, there’s one more event that takes place which is important, giving wedding speeches; especially when it’s from someone close to the family, like the sister of the groom. The speech, no matter who says it, has to be from the heart or else the emotions don’t get carried across.

As I mentioned earlier, the toast can either be funny, filled with humor or could touch a more emotional tone as well. Depending on how you (the sister) wishes to keep the ambiance of the reception party, you have the liberty to handle the crowd accordingly. And if you’re searching for some inspiration for your speech, then we can be of some help for certain because your toast to the happy couple has to be just right.

Wedding Toast Made Easy

I’m sure you’ve heard that any speech needs to be short and simple. But what defines short? Is it few lines or an entire paragraph? The only time a speech seems long and boring is when the guests are finding the toast monotonous and draggy.

Of course, while giving a speech, you have to be very careful as to what information you can disclose. It’s not always an easy task and getting the right words out might be tougher than you may think. Whether you wish to write the speech beforehand or like to take a stab at being impromptu, it’s always a good thing to stick to the essentials. What I mean by that is you don’t want to go all the way to your childhood and bring out stuff to talk about. Just hint on the main subjects and how the bride, your new sister-in-law, has made a new man out of your brother. And to help you get the toast perfect, here’s a sample speech.

Sister of the Groom Wedding Speech

I am so happy today to be able to congratulate my brother (Name) and his beautiful wife, (Name). I have always believed that there is someone out there for everyone and today, (Brother’s name) has found his soulmate in (Bride’s name).

The first time I met (Bride’s name), I was absolutely sure that she is the right person for my brother. Instantly we became friends and our families bonded together smoothly, that was a relief. When I told (Brother’s name) that I wanted to give a speech at the wedding, he sort of freaked out as he thought I may talk about how he always used to tease me and make me mad. But I’m not going to do that because we have our entire lives to get to that with (Bride’s name). Plus I am not going to bore you all with any poetry or a long speech. I just want the happy couple to know that I am proud of both of them and really happy to be able to stand here with the entire family to witness your wedding.

On this day, all I would wish is the two of you the greatest happiness for the rest of your lives. It might come with a mix of good and bad times, but they are only there to test your love for one another. So be true to each other and never stop believing in yourself and one another.

This toast goes to the beautiful bride, my beautiful sister-in-law and to the handsome groom, my sweet, kindhearted, loving brother. Here’s to you both (raise your glass), two beautiful souls who have their heads but who have lost their hearts.

TO THE HAPPY COUPLE!!!

And there you have it, your toast to the bride and groom is ready. As tradition goes, writing a toast to the bride and groom is an integral part of the entire celebration. Along with your speech, you can also use sentimental wedding quotes to make the speech that much better.

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A Guide to Crafting the Perfect Sister of the Bride Wedding Speech

In this guide, we'll walk through tips and templates for how to deliver a great sister of the bride speech.

Writing the perfect sister of the bride wedding speech can be a daunting task, but with a little preparation and planning, you can deliver a speech that will leave a lasting impression on the newlyweds and their guests.

Here are some tips to help you write and deliver the perfect sister of the bride wedding speech:

• Start by thinking about the couple and what they mean to you. Reflect on the memories you have shared together and the love and support they have given you over the years. This will help you to personalize your speech and make it more meaningful to the couple.
• Make a list of the key points you want to include in your speech. These may include stories or anecdotes about the couple, your congratulations to them, and any advice or well wishes you would like to offer.
• Practice your speech. This will help you to become more comfortable with the material and ensure that you can deliver it confidently.
• Try to make it as personal as possible and use your own personal experiences as a sister of the bride.
• Consider the tone of your speech. While you want to be funny and engaging, you also want to be sincere and heartfelt. Strike a balance between the two to keep your audience engaged and entertained.
• Include a call to action or a toast. End your speech with a call to action or a toast to the couple, encouraging your audience to raise their glasses and join you in wishing the newlyweds a lifetime of happiness.
• Practice your delivery. Speak loud and clear, and make sure to maintain good eye contact with the audience. Avoid using filler words or phrases, and speak at a moderate pace.
• Be yourself. Be natural, be yourself and let your personality shine through. Your speech will be more engaging and memorable if you are yourself.
• Don't be afraid to use humor. Humor is a great way to add a touch of lightheartedness to your speech and help to break the ice. Just make sure that the jokes are appropriate and inoffensive.
• Time your speech. Make sure your speech is the right length, not too long or too short preferably 3 - 5 minutes and no more than 7.

By following these tips, you can write and deliver a sister of the bride wedding speech that is engaging, heartfelt, and memorable. Remember to speak from the heart, be yourself, and have fun!

Here are 10 sister of the bride wedding speech templates:

Sister of the Bride Template #1

Good evening everyone,

I am honored to stand here as the sister of the beautiful bride. But let's be real, I'm not here to talk about her. I'm here to talk about myself.

[Insert personal story #1 about how you and the bride used to get into mischief as kids]

But let's fast forward a few years. [Insert personal story #2 about the time you and the bride went on a wild adventure together]

And now, the bride has found her perfect match in [groom's name]. I have to say, I'm a little jealous. I mean, who wouldn't want to be married to someone who [insert something positive about the groom].

But in all seriousness, I couldn't be happier for my sister and [groom's name]. They truly are the perfect match and I know they will be happy together forever.

So let's raise a glass to the happy couple! Cheers!

Sister of the Bride Template #2

Good evening everyone, and a special shoutout to the groom, [insert groom's name]. I'm so excited to be standing here as [insert sister's name]'s sister of the honor. Now, I know some of you are thinking, "Oh no, not another boring wedding speech." But don't worry, I promise to keep it short and sweet, just like [insert sister's name]'s first husband. (pause for laughter)

Growing up, [insert sister's name] was always the wild child. Remember that time she snuck out of the house to go to that concert and came back with a tattoo of a unicorn on her ankle? (pause for laughter) But despite her wild ways, I always knew she would find someone who could tame her. And [insert groom's name], you have done just that. I've never seen [insert sister's name] as happy as she is when she's with you.

But let's not forget the many adventures we've had together as sisters. Like that trip to [insert location], where we got lost in the woods and had to spend the night in a tent. Or that time we decided to start a band, and [insert sister's name] insisted on playing the kazoo. (pause for laughter) Those are the memories that I will treasure forever.

So, to [insert groom's name], I may have to give my sister away today, but I know she will always be a part of my life. And to [insert sister's name], I couldn't be happier for you and your new husband. I love you and I wish you both a lifetime of love and happiness. Cheers!

Sister of the Bride Template #3

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to stand before you today as the sister of the beautiful bride. I must say, it's a little intimidating to be following in the footsteps of legends like [name person that spoke before you], but I'll give it my best shot.

First of all, let me just say that [bride's name] has always been the more attractive and successful sister. But I've learned to live with it and today, I'm just happy to see her marry the love of her life.

[Personal story about the bride growing up]

Now, let's talk about the groom. [groom's name], you are one lucky man. Not only are you marrying the love of your life, but you're also gaining a whole new family. And trust me, we're a bunch of characters.

[Personal story about groom and the bride's family]

But in all seriousness, I couldn't be happier for my sister and [groom's name]. They truly are the perfect match and I know they will have a lifetime of love and happiness together.

So, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. [bride's name] and [groom's name], may your love for each other continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Cheers!

Sister of the Bride Template #4

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to stand before you today as the sister of the beautiful bride. And let me tell you, being the sister of [bride's name] is not for the faint of heart. But it's been a wild ride, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

[Personal Story 1]

[Personal Story 2]

But despite all of the craziness, I've never seen [bride's name] as happy as she is with [groom's name]. It's truly a match made in heaven, or at least in [insert any location where they met].

Now, I know that [groom's name] may be wondering what he's getting himself into with [bride's name], but let me assure you that he's in for a lifetime of laughter, love, and [insert any inside joke between them].

So, to [bride's name] and [groom's name], I raise a glass and toast to a lifetime of happiness. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day, and may you never run out of [insert any funny thing they like to do together].

And to the rest of you, let's party!

Sister of the Bride Template #5

Ladies and gentlemen, for those of you who don't know me, I'm the sister of the beautiful bride. And let me tell you, growing up with her was an adventure.

[Insert personal story about the bride]

But despite all the shenanigans we got up to, I couldn't be happier for her and [groom's name]. They truly are the perfect match. Like peanut butter and jelly, or [insert another humorous comparison].

[Insert personal story about the groom]

So to my sister, I want to say congratulations on finding the love of your life. And to [groom's name], welcome to the family. Just remember, if you ever hurt my sister, I have a [insert funny threat].

But in all seriousness, I'm so excited to see what the future holds for the two of you. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day.

And to everyone here, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. Cheers!

Sister of the Bride Template #6

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to stand before you today as the sister of the beautiful bride.

First of all, I would like to thank [insert name of bride] for not only being my sister, but also my best friend, confidant, and fashion advisor (except for that one time she made me wear those overalls to prom).

Now, I know some of you may be thinking, "But wait, aren't sisters supposed to be jealous of each other on their wedding day?" Well, let me tell you, I am not jealous at all. I am just so [insert personal story or anecdote about the bride and groom]

But enough about [bride's name], let's talk about the man of the hour, [groom's name]. When [bride's name] first brought him home, I was a little skeptical. I mean, who is this guy, and how did he manage to steal my sister's heart? But after getting to know him, I have to say, [groom's name], you are a true catch. [insert personal story or anecdote about the groom]

[bride's name] and [groom's name], I am so happy for you both. I know that you will have a lifetime of love, laughter, and [insert personal story or joke about the couple]

So, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day, and may your marriage be filled with nothing but sunshine and rainbows (except for the occasional storm, because let's be real, that's what makes life interesting).

To [bride's name] and [groom's name], cheers!

Sister of the Bride Template #7

Good evening everyone, I am [insert name], sister of the beautiful bride [insert bride's name]. And let me tell you, growing up with [insert bride's name] was like living in a real-life sitcom. There was never a dull moment, and I always had someone to laugh with, even if it was at my own expense.

[Insert personal story 1]

But despite all of our sibling shenanigans, I have never been more proud of [insert bride's name] than I am today. She has grown into an incredible woman, and I am so lucky to call her my sister.

[Insert personal story 2]

And to [insert groom's name], I have to say, you are one lucky man. Not only do you get to spend the rest of your life with my beautiful sister, but you also get to be a part of our crazy family. Just a warning, we may drive you crazy at times, but I promise it's all worth it.

[Insert personal story 3]

So let's raise a glass to the happy couple, [insert bride's name] and [insert groom's name]. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Cheers!

Sister of the Bride Template #8

I am [Your Name], the sister of the beautiful bride [Bride's Name]. And let me tell you, growing up with her was an adventure to say the least.

Like the time she convinced me to sneak out of the house to go to a [insert personal story]. Or the time she [insert personal story]. Let's just say, I always knew she was destined for greatness.

But seriously, I am so incredibly happy and proud of my sister on her special day. [Bride's Name], you have found the love of your life in [Groom's Name] and I couldn't be happier for the two of you.

To [Groom's Name], welcome to the family. Just a heads up, we [insert personal story].

But in all seriousness, I am so excited to see what the future holds for the two of you. May your love be as strong as [insert personal story].

So raise a glass to the happy couple! [Bride's Name] and [Groom's Name], cheers to a lifetime of love and adventure.

Sister of the Bride Template #9

I am [insert name], the sister of the beautiful bride [insert bride's name]. And let me tell you, growing up with her was quite the adventure.

Like the time [insert personal story]. Oh, [bride's name], you never cease to amaze me.

But seriously, I am so happy to see [bride's name] marry the love of her life, [groom's name]. And I know they will have a lifetime of [insert personal story].

And to [groom's name], welcome to the family. You may have heard some rumors about us [insert family name], but just remember [insert personal story].

But in all seriousness, I am so grateful to be here today to witness the love between [bride's name] and [groom's name]. They are truly meant for each other and I couldn't be happier for them.

So let's raise a glass to the happy couple. To [bride's name] and [groom's name], may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Cheers!

Sister of the Bride Template #10

I'm [Your Name], the sister of the beautiful bride [Bride's Name]. First of all, I just want to say that [Bride's Name] has always been the best sister anyone could ask for. Growing up, she was always there to [insert personal story]. But, let's be real, she was also the one who [insert embarrassing personal story].

But, I'm not here to talk about the past, I'm here to celebrate the present. [Groom's Name], you are one lucky man to have [Bride's Name] by your side. I have to admit, I was a little worried when you first came into the picture. I mean, who would want to take on [Bride's Name] and all of her [insert personality trait]. But, you've proven to be the perfect match for her.

Now, I know that [Bride's Name] and [Groom's Name] have a lot of love and a lot of laughter in their future. But, I also know that there will be tough times. So, I want to leave you with some advice that my grandmother told me on my wedding day: "Always remember to [insert personal advice]."

So, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. [Bride's Name] and [Groom's Name], may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Cheers!

26 Wedding Speech Examples

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Hi, Friend!   Jen Glantz here. I’m a bestselling author, the first ever bridesmaid for hire and have written over 1000 wedding speeches for people all around the world! Let’s dive into some wedding speech examples to get you inspired for your own!

Welcome to the ultimate guide for crafting the perfect wedding speech! We’ve got you covered with 26 wedding speech examples that’ll have everyone raising their glasses. From heartfelt anecdotes to clever quips, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know to deliver a toast that’ll be remembered long after the last dance.

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TL;DR: Key Takeaways for Memorable Wedding Speeches

• Tailor your speech to the couple and the audience
• Balance humor with sincerity
• Keep it concise (3-5 minutes is ideal)
• Practice your delivery
• Include personal anecdotes and specific memories
• Be mindful of cultural sensitivities
• Consider incorporating multimedia elements
• Express gratitude and well-wishes
• Don’t be afraid to show emotion
• End with a heartfelt toast

The Importance of a Wedding speech

A wedding speech is a cherished tradition that allows loved ones to express their joy, share meaningful memories, and offer heartfelt wishes to the newlyweds, creating a lasting emotional impact on the couple and guests alike. Beyond its sentimental value, a well-crafted wedding speech has the power to set the tone for the celebration, bringing laughter, tears, and a sense of unity to the gathering, while also providing a beautiful keepsake for the couple to treasure for years to come.

Purpose and Audience

Giving a wedding speech can be scarier than walking down the aisle in six-inch heels. But here’s the secret sauce: know your purpose and your audience. Are you the best man trying to roast the groom without making his new in-laws faint? Or the maid of honor aiming to make everyone cry (in a good way, of course)? Your role sets the tone. And as for the audience, read the room! If Aunt Edna’s pearl-clutching at your mildest joke, maybe dial back the stand-up routine.

Structure and Content

Structure is your friend. Think of your speech like a sandwich: a tasty intro to grab attention, a meaty middle filled with juicy stories and heartfelt moments, and a satisfying conclusion that’ll leave everyone feeling warm and fuzzy. And please, don’t just Google “funny wedding jokes” and call it a day. Your speech should be as unique as the couple’s first dance song.

Length and Delivery

Nobody has ever complained that a wedding speech was too short. Aim for the sweet spot of 3-5 minutes. Any longer and you risk losing your audience to the siren call of the open bar. As for delivery, channel your inner Meryl Streep (or The Rock, if that’s more your style). Practice in front of a mirror, your cat, or that judgmental houseplant. And make eye contact! Nothing says “I care” like staring at your shoes for five minutes straight.

Cultural Sensitivity

If you’re at a multicultural wedding, think of yourself as a cultural diplomat in a fancy outfit. Be aware of traditions! What’s hilarious in one culture might be more offensive than pineapple on pizza in another. If you’re not sure, ask! The couple, their families, or even that know-it-all cousin who studied abroad for a semester. Better safe than sorry.

Personalization

Your speech should be as unique as the couple’s love story. Ditch the generic templates and dig deep into your memory bank.

Maid of Honor Speech Example – Sentimental

Emma, my incredible best friend and beautiful bride. When we first met in high school, bonding over our shared love of terrible rom-coms and even worse dance moves, I never imagined I’d be standing here today, watching you marry the love of your life. But here we are, and I couldn’t be happier.

Over the years, you’ve been my rock, my confidante, and my partner in crime. You’ve seen me through my best and worst moments, always with a kind word and a warm hug. And when you met Jake, I saw a light in your eyes that I’d never seen before. I knew he was the one for you.

Jake, you’re not just gaining a wife today, but a best friend, a fierce advocate, and a karaoke partner for life. Take care of our girl, and know that you’re getting one of the best people I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing.

Emma and Jake, may your love continue to grow, may your laughter never fade, and may your life together be as beautiful as the love you share. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness, adventure, and terrible dance moves. Cheers to the happy couple!

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Maid of Honor Speech Example – Humorous

Well, folks, as Emma’s maid of honor, I’m contractually obligated to embarrass her in front of all her loved ones. Don’t worry, Emma, I’ll keep it PG-13… mostly.

First off, let’s talk about Emma’s infamous “cooking” phase in college. Did you know that she once set off the fire alarm trying to boil water? Jake, I hope you’ve got the local pizza place on speed dial. And let’s not forget the time she decided to give herself a haircut the night before a big job interview. Spoiler alert: it didn’t go well, but she got the job anyway. That’s our Emma – failing upwards with style!

But for all her questionable life choices, Emma’s made one brilliant decision today – marrying Jake. Jake, you’re getting a woman who can turn any situation into an adventure, even if that adventure involves explaining to the fire department why the smoke alarm is going off… again.

Emma, you’re my best friend, my partner in crime, and now, officially, someone else’s problem. Just kidding! Jake, take care of our girl. And remember, if she ever offers to cook you a romantic dinner, I’ve left the number for poison control under your plate. To the happy couple!

Wedding Vows Example – Sentimental (Bride’s Perspective)

David, my love, my best friend, my soulmate. As I stand here before you, I am overwhelmed with emotion and gratitude for the journey that has led us to this moment.

From our first awkward date at that tiny coffee shop, to our late-night talks about our dreams and fears, to the day you proposed under a sky full of stars, every moment with you has been a gift. You’ve taught me the true meaning of partnership, of unconditional love, and of finding home in another person.

I vow to stand by your side through all of life’s adventures, to support your dreams as fiercely as you’ve supported mine, and to love you with every fiber of my being. I promise to be your biggest cheerleader, your trusted confidante, and your partner in all things.

I vow to face life’s challenges with you hand in hand, to celebrate our joys and weather our sorrows together. David, I give you my heart, my trust, and my future. I love you today, tomorrow, and always.

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Wedding Vows Example – Humorous (Groom’s Perspective)

Jessica, my darling, my better three-quarters (let’s be honest here). I stand before you today, ready to embark on the craziest adventure of our lives – marriage.

I vow to love you unconditionally, even when you insist on watching rom-coms for the millionth time, or when you “borrow” my favorite sweatshirt and it mysteriously disappears into the black hole that is your closet.

I promise to be your partner in crime, whether we’re planning our next vacation or trying to figure out how to assemble Ikea furniture without divorcing. I vow to always kill the spiders, open the tight jar lids, and pretend to remember all the names of your cousins at family reunions.

I promise to love you through bad hair days, pizza-for-breakfast days, and “I-have-nothing-to-wear” days. Jessica, I choose you to be my wife, my best friend, and the person I’ll blame when the WiFi isn’t working. Here’s to a lifetime of laughter, love, and trying to figure out what’s for dinner. I love you, even more than I love pizza – and that’s saying something!

Best Man Speech Example – Sentimental

John, my best friend, my brother in all but blood. Standing here today, watching you marry the love of your life, Sarah, fills me with an indescribable joy.

From our childhood adventures in your backyard treehouse to our college shenanigans and beyond, you’ve been a constant in my life, always there with a laugh, a helping hand, or a word of encouragement when I needed it most.

Sarah, from the moment John met you, I saw a change in him. He became happier, more driven, and even started doing his own laundry – a miracle if I’ve ever seen one. You bring out the best in him, and for that, I’ll be forever grateful.

To John and Sarah, may your love story continue to unfold with the same magic that brought you together. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless adventure. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness for two of the most deserving people I know. Cheers!

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Best Man Speech Example – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Mike, John’s best man and long-suffering friend. I’ve known John since we were kids, and I can honestly say that Sarah is the best thing that’s ever happened to him – apart from me, of course.

John, buddy, I never thought I’d see the day when you’d willingly commit to anything other than your fantasy football league. Yet here we are, and I couldn’t be prouder. Sarah, you truly are a saint for taking on this project of a man. I hope you know what you’re getting into – his idea of cooking is microwaving leftover pizza, and he still thinks axe body spray is an acceptable substitute for a shower.

But in all seriousness, John, you’ve been my best friend through thick and thin. From covering for me when I snuck out in high school to being my wingman at bars (albeit a terrible one), you’ve always had my back. Sarah, thank you for making my best friend the happiest I’ve ever seen him. You two are perfect together, like peanut butter and jelly, or in John’s case, like pizza and more pizza.

To the happy couple! May your love be as endless as John’s appetite and as strong as Sarah’s patience. Cheers!

Wedding Officiant Speech Example – Sentimental

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to witness and celebrate the union of Emily and Michael, two souls brought together by love and bound by their commitment to each other.

Emily and Michael, your journey to this moment is a testament to the power of love. From your first chance encounter at a local coffee shop, to your first date where you talked until the restaurant closed, to this very moment – your love has grown, deepened, and flourished.

Today, you stand before your friends and family, ready to declare your love and commitment to one another. Marriage is a sacred bond, a promise to love, support, and cherish each other through all of life’s joys and challenges. It is a journey you embark on together, hand in hand, heart to heart.

As you exchange your vows and rings, remember that these are symbols of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver – for each is the giver and each is the receiver.

May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day, and may your union be blessed with happiness, understanding, and compassion. Emily and Michael, it is my honor to officiate your wedding and to be the first to present you as a married couple.

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Wedding Officiant Speech Example – Humorous

Friends, family, and those who got dragged here against their will, we are gathered here today to witness the voluntary imprisonment… I mean, the joyous union of Alex and Jamie.

Now, I’ve known Alex for years, and I can confidently say that Jamie is the best decision Alex has ever made. And that’s including the time Alex decided to get that “No Ragrets” tattoo – which, ironically, they immediately regretted.

Marriage, my friends, is like a walk in the park. Jurassic Park, that is. It’s exciting, sometimes scary, and occasionally, you might need to outrun a T-Rex. But with the right partner by your side, even facing down prehistoric predators can be an adventure.

Alex and Jamie, as you embark on this wild journey called marriage, remember these words of wisdom: Always say “I love you,” never go to bed angry, and most importantly, agree on which way the toilet paper roll should go. Trust me, it’s the little things that count.

By the power vested in me by a surprisingly easy online ordination process, I now pronounce you married. You may now kiss your partner and seal your fate… I mean, your love. Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you the newly married couple! May your marriage be long, happy, and full of laughter – you’re going to need it!

Father of the Bride Speech Example – Sentimental

My dearest Olivia, my little girl. It seems like only yesterday I was teaching you how to ride a bike, and now here you are, radiant in white, marrying the love of your life.

As I look at you today, I’m filled with an overwhelming sense of pride and love. You’ve grown into an incredible woman – kind, intelligent, and strong. I’ve watched you overcome challenges, achieve your dreams, and now, find a love that makes your eyes light up in a way I’ve never seen before.

Daniel, from the first time Olivia brought you home, I knew you were special. The way you look at her, the way you support her dreams, and the way you’ve become a part of our family – I couldn’t have hoped for a better partner for my daughter.

Olivia and Daniel, as you start this new chapter of your lives together, remember that love is both a gift and a responsibility. Cherish each other, support each other’s dreams, and never forget to laugh together.

To my daughter and new son-in-law, may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless joy. I love you both. Cheers to the happy couple!

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Father of the Bride Speech Example – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Olivia’s dad, also known as the guy who’s about to be significantly poorer after today. But hey, who needs retirement anyway?

Olivia, my darling daughter, I’ve been dreading this day since you were born – not because I’m losing you, but because I knew I’d have to make a speech in front of all these people. You couldn’t have just eloped, could you?

I still remember the day you were born. I held you in my arms and thought, “I’m going to have to pay for a wedding someday.” Well, that day has come, and let me tell you, weddings were a lot cheaper 25 years ago.

Daniel, when Olivia first brought you home, I had my doubts. But then I saw how happy you make her, and I realized something important – I can finally cancel her phone plan and car insurance.

In all seriousness, Daniel, you’re the son I never had, mainly because your mother-in-law said one kid was enough. Welcome to the family, son. Remember, our family motto is “We put the ‘fun’ in dysfunctional.”

To Olivia and Daniel, may your love be as strong as the WiFi signal you’ll fight over, and may your marriage be longer than the line for the open bar tonight. Cheers!

Father of the Groom Speech Example – Sentimental

My son, Ethan, and my new daughter-in-law, Sophie. As I stand here today, my heart is full of joy and pride.

Ethan, from the moment you were born, you’ve been a source of endless happiness in our lives. I’ve watched you grow from a curious little boy into the remarkable man you are today. Your kindness, your integrity, and your sense of humor have always made me proud to be your father.

Sophie, from the first time Ethan brought you home, you’ve been a ray of sunshine in our family. The way you love our son, the way you’ve embraced our family as your own – we couldn’t have wished for a more wonderful addition to our family.

Ethan and Sophie, as you begin this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a partnership. It’s about supporting each other’s dreams, facing challenges together, and finding joy in the simple moments you share.

May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless beautiful memories. We love you both dearly. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Father of the Groom Speech Example – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Ethan’s dad. I’m the guy who taught him everything he knows – except for all the things his mother insisted I was doing wrong.

Ethan, son, I’ve been waiting for this day for a long time. Not because I’m particularly sentimental, but because I’ve been paying for your car insurance for far too long. Sophie, he’s your responsibility now. No takebacks!

I still remember when Ethan was a little boy, he used to say he wanted to be just like me when he grew up. Well, son, you’ve succeeded – you’re also losing your hair and marrying way out of your league.

Sophie, when Ethan first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make him happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach him how to properly load a dishwasher.

In all seriousness, Ethan and Sophie, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like peanut butter and jelly, or in Ethan’s case, like pizza and more pizza. Your mother and I couldn’t be happier to welcome you into our family, Sophie.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Ethan’s Wi-Fi password and may your marriage be longer than the line at the open bar tonight. Cheers!

Mother of the Bride Speech Example – Sentimental

My darling Sophia, my beautiful daughter. As I look at you today, resplendent in white, my heart overflows with love and pride.

From the moment I held you in my arms, I knew you were destined for greatness. I’ve watched you grow from a curious little girl into the remarkable woman you are today. Your kindness, your determination, and your infectious laughter have been a constant joy in our lives.

Thomas, from the first time Sophia brought you home, I saw the way her eyes lit up around you. You’ve brought so much happiness into her life, and by extension, into ours. Your gentleness, your humor, and the way you support Sophia in all her endeavors make you the perfect partner for our daughter.

Sophia and Thomas, as you embark on this beautiful journey together, remember that marriage is a partnership built on love, trust, and mutual respect. Support each other’s dreams, face challenges hand in hand, and never forget to find joy in the little moments you share.

May your love continue to grow deeper and stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless beautiful memories. We love you both dearly. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Mother of the Bride Speech Example – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Sophia’s mom. I’m the one who taught her everything she knows – except for how to pick up her clothes from the floor. Sorry about that, Thomas.

Sophia, my darling daughter, I’ve been preparing for this day since you were born. Not because I’m particularly sentimental, but because I’ve been dreaming of the day I could finally turn your bedroom into my personal yoga studio.

I still remember when Sophia was a little girl, she used to say she wanted to be just like me when she grew up. Well, sweetheart, you’ve succeeded – you’re also marrying someone who can’t load a dishwasher properly. It must be genetic.

Thomas, when Sophia first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make her happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach her how to cook something other than microwaved ramen.

In all seriousness, Sophia and Thomas, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like wine and cheese, or in Sophia’s case, like Netflix and procrastination. Thomas, we couldn’t be happier to welcome you into our family.

To the happy couple! May your love be as endless as Sophia’s shoe collection and may your marriage be stronger than the coffee you’ll need to survive her morning crankiness. Cheers!

Mother of the Groom Speech Example – Sentimental

My dear son, Nathan, and my new daughter-in-law, Emma. Today, as I watch you join your lives together, my heart is filled with an indescribable joy.

Nathan, from the moment you were born, you’ve been the light of our lives. I’ve watched you grow from a mischievous little boy into the compassionate, intelligent, and kind-hearted man you are today. Your sense of humor, your dedication, and your ability to see the best in others have always made me proud to be your mother.

Emma, from the first time Nathan introduced you to us, I knew you were special. The way you love our son, the way you’ve embraced our family as your own – we couldn’t have wished for a more wonderful addition to our family. Your kindness, your strength, and your infectious smile have brought so much joy into Nathan’s life and ours.

Nathan and Emma, as you begin this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a beautiful journey of love, understanding, and growth. Support each other’s dreams, face life’s challenges together, and always find reasons to laugh together.

May your love continue to deepen with each passing day. May your home be filled with warmth, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless happy memories. We love you both dearly. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and love!

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Mother of the Groom Speech Example – Humorous

Good evening, everyone. For those who don’t know me, I’m Nathan’s mom. I’m the one who spent 18 years trying to teach him basic life skills, most of which I’m pretty sure he’s already forgotten. Emma, good luck with that.

Nathan, my darling son, I’ve been waiting for this day for a long time. Not because I’m eager to see you married off, but because I’m excited to finally have someone else to call when you can’t figure out how to use the washing machine.

I still remember when Nathan was a little boy, he used to say he wanted to be a superhero when he grew up. Well, son, you’ve sort of succeeded – you’re marrying Emma, and that definitely requires super-human patience.

Emma, when Nathan first told us about you, we were overjoyed. Not just because you make him happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach him that vegetables are not, in fact, the enemy.

In all seriousness, Nathan and Emma, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like peanut butter and jelly, or in Nathan’s case, like video games and “just five more minutes, Mom!” Emma, we couldn’t be happier to welcome you into our family.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Nathan’s ability to sleep through multiple alarms, and may your marriage be filled with more laughter than the time Nathan tried to cook a turkey for Thanksgiving. Cheers!

Brother of the Bride Speech Example – Sentimental

My dear sister, Olivia, and my new brother-in-law, Jack. It’s an honor to stand here today and celebrate your love.

Liv, as your big brother, I’ve had the privilege of watching you grow from an annoying little sister (sorry, but it’s true) into the amazing woman you are today. Your kindness, your determination, and your ability to light up any room have always inspired me.

I remember the day you told me about Jack. Your eyes sparkled in a way I’d never seen before, and I knew he must be someone special. Jack, from the moment you became a part of our lives, I’ve seen how happy you make my sister. Your loyalty, your sense of humor, and the way you support Olivia in all her dreams make you the perfect partner for her.

Olivia and Jack, as you start this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a partnership. It’s about supporting each other, laughing together, and facing life’s challenges hand in hand.

May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless adventures. I love you both. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Brother of the Bride Speech Example – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Olivia’s brother, also known as the guy who’s been protecting her from spiders and bad boyfriends for the past 28 years. Looks like I can retire from at least one of those jobs now, Jack.

Liv, my dear sister, I’ve been preparing for this speech since the day you were born. Not because I’m particularly eloquent, but because I’ve been gathering embarrassing stories about you for nearly three decades. Don’t worry, I’ll only share the PG-rated ones… maybe.

I still remember when Olivia was five, she declared she was going to marry her pet goldfish. Well, sis, I’m glad to see your taste in life partners has improved significantly. No offense to Bubbles the goldfish, may he rest in peace.

Jack, when Olivia first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make her happy, but because we finally had someone who could reach the top shelf in the kitchen. Welcome to the family, man. Your official duties include killing spiders, opening tight jars, and pretending to laugh at dad’s jokes.

In all seriousness, Olivia and Jack, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like coffee and donuts, or in Olivia’s case, like online shopping and buyer’s remorse.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Olivia’s WiFi password and may your marriage be longer than the list of TV series she’s binge-watched. Cheers!

Brother of the Groom Speech Example – Sentimental

My brother, Ethan, and my new sister-in-law, Madison. It’s an honor and a joy to stand here today and celebrate your love.

Ethan, as your little brother, I’ve always looked up to you. From teaching me how to ride a bike to showing me how to tie a tie, you’ve been my role model and my best friend. Your kindness, your integrity, and your ability to make everyone around you feel valued have always inspired me.

I remember the day you told me about Madison. The way your face lit up when you spoke about her, I knew she was someone special. Madison, from the moment you became a part of our lives, I’ve seen how you bring out the best in my brother. Your warmth, your intelligence, and the way you support Ethan in all his endeavors make you the perfect partner for him.

Ethan and Madison, as you embark on this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a beautiful journey of love and partnership. It’s about supporting each other’s dreams, facing challenges together, and finding joy in the simple moments you share.

May your love continue to grow deeper and stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless beautiful memories. I love you both. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Brother of the Groom Speech Example – Humorous

Good evening, everyone. For those who don’t know me, I’m Ethan’s younger, funnier, and let’s face it, better-looking brother. I’m also the reason Ethan learned how to share his toys at an early age. You’re welcome, Madison.

Ethan, my dear brother, I’ve been waiting for this day for a long time. Not because I’m particularly sentimental, but because I finally get to embarrass you in front of all your friends and family. It’s payback time for all those noogies and wedgies, bro.

I still remember when Ethan was ten, he swore he’d never get married because girls had “cooties.” Well, brother, I’m glad to see you’ve finally realized that cooties aren’t real. Or maybe Madison just has really good cootie repellent.

Madison, when Ethan first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make him happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach him that socks don’t belong on the living room floor. Welcome to the family! Your official duties include deciphering Ethan’s handwriting and explaining to him that “fine” never actually means fine.

In all seriousness, Ethan and Madison, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like peanut butter and jelly, or in Ethan’s case, like dad jokes and eye rolls.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Ethan’s morning breath and may your marriage be filled with more laughter than the time Ethan tried to give himself a haircut. Cheers!

Sister of the Bride Speech Example – Sentimental

My beloved sister, Emily, and my new brother-in-law, Alex. It’s an honor to stand here today and celebrate your love.

Em, as your big sister, I’ve had the joy of watching you grow from a feisty little girl into the incredible woman you are today. Your compassion, your strength, and your ability to find joy in the smallest things have always inspired me.

I remember the day you told me about Alex. Your eyes sparkled with a happiness I’d never seen before, and I knew he must be someone truly special. Alex, from the moment you became a part of our lives, I’ve seen how you bring out the best in my sister. Your kindness, your sense of humor, and the way you support Emily in all her dreams make you the perfect partner for her.

Emily and Alex, as you begin this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a beautiful journey of love, growth, and partnership. It’s about supporting each other, laughing together, and facing life’s adventures hand in hand.

May your love continue to deepen with each passing day. May your home be filled with warmth, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless beautiful moments. I love you both dearly. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Sister of the Bride Speech Example – Humorous

Hello everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m Emily’s sister, also known as the one who taught her everything she knows about fashion, makeup, and how to sweet-talk dad into extending her curfew. You’re welcome, Alex.

Em, my dear sister, I’ve been preparing for this speech since the day you were born. Not because I’m a great public speaker, but because I’ve been collecting embarrassing stories about you for the past 25 years. Don’t worry, I’ll only share the ones that won’t make Grandma faint.

I still remember when Emily was seven, she announced she was going to marry her favorite boy band member. Well, sis, I’m glad to see your taste in men has improved. No offense to Justin Timberlake, but I think Alex is a much better choice.

Alex, when Emily first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make her happy, but because we finally had someone who could reach the top shelf in the kitchen without a stepladder. Welcome to the family! Your official duties include killing spiders, opening tight jars, and pretending to be interested when Emily talks about her latest Netflix obsession.

In all seriousness, Emily and Alex, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like wine and cheese, or in Emily’s case, like online shopping and next-day delivery.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Emily’s obsession with taking selfies, and may your marriage be filled with more joy than the time Emily finally learned how to parallel park. Cheers!

Sister of the Groom Speech Example – Sentimental

My dear brother, Michael, and my new sister-in-law, Sarah. It’s a privilege to stand here today and celebrate your love.

Mike, as your little sister, I’ve always looked up to you. From protecting me from imaginary monsters under the bed to being my confidant during tough times, you’ve been my hero and my best friend. Your kindness, your perseverance, and your ability to make everyone around you feel valued have always inspired me.

I remember the day you told me about Sarah. The way your eyes lit up when you spoke about her, I knew she was the one. Sarah, from the moment you became a part of our lives, I’ve seen how you bring out the best in my brother. Your warmth, your intelligence, and the way you support Michael in all his endeavors make you the perfect partner for him.

Michael and Sarah, as you start this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a beautiful journey of love and partnership. It’s about supporting each other’s dreams, facing challenges together, and finding joy in the simple moments you share.

May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless beautiful memories. I love you both. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Sister of the Groom Speech Example – Humorous

Good evening, everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m Michael’s sister, also known as the one who taught him everything he knows about style, cooking, and how to charm his way out of trouble. You’re welcome, Sarah.

Mike, my dear brother, I’ve been waiting for this day for a long time. Not because I’m particularly sentimental, but because I finally get to reveal all your secrets in front of your friends and family. Don’t worry, I’ll keep it PG… mostly.

I still remember when Michael was eight, he declared he’d never get married because it would interfere with his career as a professional video game player. Well, bro, I’m glad to see you’ve finally realized that there’s more to life than beating your high score. Although, Sarah, I should warn you – he still gets pretty excited about new game releases.

Sarah, when Michael first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make him happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach him that the laundry basket is not, in fact, an optional piece of furniture. Welcome to the family! Your official duties include deciphering Michael’s grocery lists and explaining to him that “I’m fine” never actually means fine.

In all seriousness, Michael and Sarah, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like coffee and donuts, or in Michael’s case, like dad jokes and eye rolls.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Michael’s ability to fall asleep anywhere, anytime, and may your marriage be filled with more laughter than the time Michael tried to assemble IKEA furniture without reading the instructions. Cheers!

Joint Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental (Best Man and Maid of Honor)

Best Man (James): Good evening, everyone. I’m James, the best man, and standing beside me is the maid of honor, Emily. We’ve known Alex and Sarah since college, and we’re honored to share this special day with them.

Maid of Honor (Emily): When James and I were asked to give a joint speech, we immediately agreed. After all, who better to talk about the bride and groom than their best friends who’ve been there through it all?

James: I’ve known Alex since our freshman year when we were roommates. From day one, I knew he was someone special – kind, loyal, and always up for an adventure.

Emily: And I met Sarah in our first psychology class. Her infectious laugh and compassionate nature made us instant friends.

James: I remember the day Alex met Sarah. He came back to our dorm with this goofy grin on his face, talking about this amazing girl he’d just met.

Emily: Sarah called me that same night, gushing about the cute guy she’d bumped into at the campus coffee shop. Little did they know that their chance encounter would lead to this beautiful day.

James: Over the years, we’ve watched Alex and Sarah’s love grow. They’ve supported each other through tough exams, celebrated each other’s victories, and built a relationship based on trust, respect, and genuine friendship.

Emily: Sarah, you’ve been my rock through so many life events. Your strength and kindness never cease to amaze me. Alex, thank you for loving our girl so completely and for being such a wonderful addition to our friend group.

James: Alex, you’ve been more than a best friend to me – you’re the brother I never had. Sarah, thank you for making my best friend happier than I’ve ever seen him.

Emily: As we stand here today, we’re not just celebrating a wedding. We’re celebrating the union of two incredible individuals who make each other better every single day.

James: To Alex and Sarah, may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing year. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless adventures.

Emily: May you always find comfort in each other’s arms, strength in each other’s support, and joy in each other’s smile.

James and Emily (together): To Alex and Sarah – our dear friends, and now, husband and wife. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness. Cheers!

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Joint Wedding Speech Example – Humorous (Father of the Bride and Father of the Groom)

Father of the Bride (Tom): Good evening, everyone. I’m Tom, Jessica’s dad, and this distinguished gentleman beside me is Bob, Ryan’s father. We’ve been asked to give a joint speech tonight, which is fitting because we’ve been joining forces for years now to keep these two out of trouble.

Father of the Groom (Bob): That’s right, Tom. When our kids first started dating, we thought we’d finally get a break. Little did we know we were just trading one set of headaches for another.

Tom: I remember the day Jessica told us about Ryan. I was thrilled – not just because he made her happy, but because I finally had someone else to blame for the dents in my car.

Bob: And when Ryan introduced us to Jessica, I was ecstatic. I thought, “Finally, someone who might be able to teach my son that socks don’t belong on the coffee table.”

Tom: Over the years, we’ve watched Jessica and Ryan’s relationship grow. They’ve supported each other through thick and thin, good times and bad, and countless pizza deliveries.

Bob: Ryan has always been an, let’s say, “interesting” kid. When he was five, he wanted to be a dinosaur when he grew up. Jessica, I’m glad you’ve managed to slightly adjust his career goals.

Tom: And Jessica, well, she’s always been our little princess. Ryan, I hope you know that “princess” is just a fancy word for “someone who always gets their way.” Good luck with that, son.

Bob: But in all seriousness, we couldn’t be happier to see these two tying the knot. They complement each other perfectly, like peanut butter and jelly, or in their case, like Netflix and procrastination.

Tom: Jessica, sweetheart, you’ve made us proud in so many ways. Your kindness, your intelligence, and your ability to put up with Ryan’s jokes are truly impressive.

Bob: And Ryan, my boy, seeing the man you’ve become and the way you love Jessica fills my heart with joy. Your mother and I couldn’t be prouder.

Tom: As fathers, we’re not losing a daughter and a son today. We’re gaining…

Bob: …a whole lot of expenses. Seriously, do you two know how much grandkids cost these days?

Tom: To Jessica and Ryan, may your love be as strong as our new combined credit card debt, and may your marriage be filled with more laughter than the time Ryan tried to propose and forgot the ring.

Bob: May you always support each other’s dreams, have patience for each other’s quirks, and most importantly, may you always remember whose turn it is to do the dishes.

Tom and Bob (together): To the happy couple! May your love story be long, your arguments short, and may you always remember – we’re just a phone call away… unless you need money or babysitting. Cheers!

Final Thoughts: Toasting to Your Success

At the heart of every great wedding speech is genuine emotion and a desire to celebrate love. Whether you’re the wise-cracking best man, the sentimental maid of honor, or the parent trying not to ugly-cry through your entire speech, your sincerity will shine through. Don’t let the pressure get to you.

Even if you stumble over a few words or your voice cracks with emotion, in ten years, the only thing people will remember is how much love was in the room. Now go forth and speak your heart out! And if all else fails, just raise your glass and say, “To love, laughter, and happily ever after!” Cheers to you, cheers to the happy couple, and cheers to love in all its beautiful, messy, wonderful forms!

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Wedding speeches are an essential part of every wedding. They let all the members of the bridal party and guests share their overwhelming emotions about the big day. Best wedding speeches stay in our memory forever, marking the significance of the wedding day for everyone involved. It can be quite challenging to fit all the feelings you want to share into a single toast . In this article, you will find invaluable tips from the expert Amanda Layton, an experienced wedding vow and speechwriter, in crafting memorable wedding speeches.

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Writing a wedding speech can seem daunting, but with some preparation and guidance, you can deliver a heartfelt and memorable speech that will be cherished by the newlyweds and their guests.

Good evening, everyone. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Sarah, and I’m the ___ I’ve known the bride, Emily, since we were little girls, and we’ve been best friends ever since. I remember the first time she told me about Alex, and how excited she was to go on a date with him. From that moment on, I knew he was something special. Seeing them together over the years has been such a joy, and I’m so happy to be here today to celebrate their love. Emily, you are the most kind, caring, and generous person I know. And Alex, you are her perfect match. I’ve never seen her so happy as she is with you. I know you will continue to be each other’s best friend, confidant, and partner in all of life’s adventures. So, let’s raise a glass to the newlyweds. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Congratulations!

Groom Wedding Speech

“I would like to thank my parents for all the help they have given me over the years, if it wasn’t for them I wouldn’t be here now. I would also like to thank (my wife’s) parents for making me feel like the son they never wanted, sorry the son they never had, right from day 2. Day 1 was a bit rough, but hey, they’re over it now. I would also like to thank them for having such a beautiful, intelligent, kind, and caring daughter. I hope to do you both proud and thank you both for everything you have done today and to make today happen.”

The groom’s wedding speech starts at the reception. On behalf of himself and his bride, he expresses his gratitude to everyone involved in the wedding preparations. He toasts his parents, bridesmaids, and the groom’s party, and mentions their help and support. His speech is often quite sentimental, as he shares some personal memories. He also mentions how his life has changed since he met his bride.

Wedding Speeches for Parents

When the kids find love, the parents are also happy. So, it rests upon them to give wedding reception speeches in honor of their children. Now, depending on the chosen style, you’ll have to fit in with the wedding theme. Most times, a funny speech is just perfect, because it works for every wedding. Below, we’ll see wedding speech examples for different parents.

Wedding Speeches for Mother of the Groom

“The first time I saw you, it was love. My little baby grew into a wobbly toddler, and then a smart child. The pre-teen and teen years and the next thing I knew, you’ve become a man. I am so proud of you. You’ve made us proud of everything you’ve done. And on your wedding today, we wish you only the best.”

As a mother of the groom, wedding speeches for your son will be an emotional one. You’ll talk about his growing up, the bond you share, and how he was well-raised. You can add one or two romantic quotes  and close. See the wedding speeches sample below.

Wedding Speeches for Mother of the Bride

“It’s no news that we love our kids so much, and seeing them grow up is hard. Everything they do fills you with pride. But you also miss the little girl who cuddles into you. And cried to you when she scraped her knee. Now my daughter is older and I’m grateful and proud that she found love in the groom. May your lives be long, happy, and peaceful together.”

The wedding speeches for mother of the bride isn’t a norm. But today, it’s becoming acceptable especially if the father isn’t involved. Tell your daughter that she’s beautiful and strong. Talk about the good memories in her growing years. And if her father has passed, talk about him with fondness.

Wedding Speeches for Father of the Groom

“My greatest blessing is having a son, one that mirrors me in many ways. But like his dream, he’s grown into his own person. He has taught me as much as I’ve taught him and I’m proud. My son is someone who goes the extra mile for people and I know he’ll make an amazing husband. I wish you every best, as we raise our glass to the groom and his amazing bride.”

Your son getting married excites you because he carries on the torch. Again, he will be looking to you for support and wisdom for marriage. So, good wedding speeches from the father of the groom must contain lots of quotes about marriage . Draw inspiration from talking about your own marriage, the bond you share, and why he’s a great son.

Wedding Speeches for Father of the Bride

“Looking at both of you in your beautiful dress and dapper suit, my wedding day comes to mind. We were quite excited, filled with love, merriment, and of course nervousness. From me to you, I’ll tell you for free that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times. And doing it with the same person always.”

As the father of the bride, you have responsibilities to your baby girl. From walking her down the aisle to the father-daughter dance. Throwing in a great speech is just perfect. Let your love for your baby shine through and talk about her growing up. Remember the groom, give them pieces of advice, and your best wishes. See the wedding speeches template below for some inspiration.

Wedding Speeches for Sister

Ladies and gentlemen, today I stand before you with immense pride and joy as I celebrate my sister’s union with [Groom’s Name]. As her older sister, I’ve had the privilege of watching her grow into the amazing woman she is today. She has found in [Groom’s Name] the love and support she deserves. Here’s to a lifetime filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories. Cheers to the newlyweds!

When delivering a wedding speech for your sister, begin by expressing your love and pride for her. Share heartfelt stories that illustrate her special qualities, highlight her relationship with the groom, and offer well-wishes for their future. End your speech by raising a toast to the newlyweds.

Best Man Wedding Speech

Take a look at this great example of a witty speech, presented by the best man.

“There comes a time in everyone’s life when they meet their one true love, their soul mate, the person that’s going to know and love them for the rest of their life. That moment came for the groom…3 years ago when he met me. Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen, for those of you that don’t know me my name, is Dan, What-would-you-like-to-drink. I hope you’ll come and say hello at the bar later, but please…call me by my full name. On behalf of the bride and groom, I’d like to thank you all for coming. And I want to give special thanks to the parents of the bride and groom… it’s amazing how far some people are willing to travel, just for some free food and drink. And finally, I’d like to thank my best friend (the groom), for giving me the first EVER opportunity…. to be able to speak for five minutes without him interrupting!”

Wedding speeches best man deliver are usually the most humorous of all the others. Thank you’s are also appropriate, especially to the bridesmaids and fellow groomsmen. Some anecdotes about the groom would be also much anticipated. People expect wedding best man speeches to be memorable, funny, with well wishes to the couple . Humor is a must.

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Maid of honor speech.

“Before I go any further, I just want to say, Bride, you look absolutely beautiful and Groom, you’ve never looked more handsome. For those of you who don’t know me and for those who can’t tell, I’m Bride’s sister. Thank you Bride for the honor of being your bridesmaid. Obviously, I’ve known Bride all of my life and we know more about each other than we would probably care to. We’ve laughed together, cried together, and laughed until we’ve cried. We’ve also had the odd fight! We also have so many inside jokes that only we find funny.”

There is one thing all wedding speeches maid of honor makes have in common: they boost the bride. Like any other wedding speech, the maid of honor’s speech can be witty and humorous, but the most important feature of this category is love and sentimentality. Add a couple of memorable stories you have of the newlyweds. Don’t forget well wishes!

Wedding Speeches for Best Friends

“I’m here to talk about two very special people, John and Eve. I’ve been friends with Eve since kindergarten. On our first day at school, we met and formed a friendship that has lived two decades and some. We got into trouble a lot and got grounded many times by the parents. My bestie is free-spirited and has a strong will to date. James, I hope you’re prepared for marriage with a woman who is full of life and spirit. With her, you’ll never live the same day twice. I wish you heaven’s best all your life. A toast…”

Wedding Welcoming Speeches

“Welcome to the celebration of James and Eve’s wedding. A tale of love that promises to last forever. Today promises to be one of beauty, friendships formed, and bonds lasting forever. For you all who have come from far and near to celebrate, we hope you take joy home with you. The happiness of marriage is the highest happiness on earth. And this is what we’ve witnessed today. Sit back, relax, have the time of your lives, and thank you for choosing to share in our joy.

Funny Wedding Speeches

Good evening everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m the groom’s brother. I’d like to start by saying that I’m delighted to see so many people here tonight, and I hope you’re all enjoying the celebrations as much as we are. Now, it’s not often that you get to make a speech at your brother’s wedding, so I thought I’d take this opportunity to share a few stories about him. Growing up, my brother was always the smart one. He was top of his class and excelled at everything he did. And then he met his beautiful bride-to-be, and everything changed. Suddenly he became clumsy, forgetful, and absent-minded. I guess you could say that love really does make you do crazy things. But in all seriousness, I couldn’t be happier for the two of them. They truly are a perfect match, and I have no doubt that they will have a long and happy life together. So let’s raise a glass to the newlyweds – may your marriage be filled with love, laughter, and lots of adventures!

Writing a funny wedding speech can entertain guests and create lasting memories. Keep it appropriate, short, know your audience, and practice for a smooth delivery.

Short Wedding Speech Ideas

“Groom, thank you for being an anchor, a friend, and brother. And I can’t be more proud that you married an amazing bride. Man! You’ve won a lottery! We celebrate both of you tonight, and all of the good things you are. You care for everyone and I’m sure you’ll care for her. We wish you success, laughter, and love. May your humor in bad times and appreciation in good times never leave you. May you get answers to prayers. May the friendship you share keep growing till death parts you. Cheers to you!”

Whether you’re giving wedding speeches for the bride, best man, or brother; the shorter the better. This will help make sure you don’t bore the audience. 11 /14

Wedding Thank You Speeches

“We (couple) worked really hard to make this day perfect. But we remembered that being bound to the one you love in the presence of your loved ones — is what makes the day perfect. I’m overjoyed that we had beautiful weather. The food and drinks were great and everyone is happy. Thank you all, especially my beloved, because today I’m bound to him to start a beautiful journey together. And after all my fears and jitters, today turned out to be much more memorable than we planned. Thank you.”

Wedding thank you speeches give you the opportunity to thank your guests. You will also extend your appreciation to everyone who made your day possible. If you intend to mention names, have a list, so that you don’t leave anyone out. This speech can come from the bride or groom. But it’s always better to skip the names. Also, infuse some humor. 12 /14

Wedding Officiant Speeches

“Shall we all sit? Today, we gather to witness and celebrate the matrimony of Eve and James. What they have is an existing bond, and we’ve come together to strengthen it. As family and friends, it’s our honor to witness today. Marriage is a lifetime commitment where two people work tirelessly to bring out the best in each other. You get an opportunity to share your joys, success, failures, and burdens with an ally for life. You get an opportunity to share and grow. One relationship which no other can equal. You are in for a physical and emotional binding that has the promise of a lifetime.”

Great wedding officiant speeches must be short, sweet, and have the perfect length to keep guests dialed in. The officiant should leverage the relationship and how much they know the couple. You must also tailor your speech in line with the wedding style. 13 /14

Wedding Anniversary Speeches

“Anniversaries are beautiful recollections of the past years and reflections for the years to come. The years past were happy and successful ones in many ways. They’re shrouded in a kaleidoscope of great relationships, supportive families, and happy memories. I’m not saying it’s smooth, but with your support, the journey became easier. We can only be grateful, even as we look forward to better years. As we celebrate our 50th year, I want to thank you for walking with us. It’s not a question of where you, it’s who goes with you. Thank you, everyone.”

A wedding anniversary speech must be heartfelt, sweet, and short. Whoever is giving the speech must know that it’s a time to reminisce and give good wishes. So, you’ll talk about the marriage, throw in some humor and bless the couple. If it’s the couple giving the speech, some advice will go a long way. 14 /14

Wedding Quotes for Speeches

“I’ve seen nothing more satisfying than two people coming together to become one. They share in each other’s pleasure, and bear each other’s pain. They crush their enemies together and make home with their friends.” “The pain and weight of life vanish from our lives by one word. It sets us free and we live again. It’s called LOVE.” “If you want to keep your marriage cup filled and running over, always admit your wrongs. And, if you’re right, be kind to shut up.”

Wedding Speeches Tips

Ready to seize the mic, command the room, and leave everyone applauding your wedding speech? Not quite yet? Amanda Layton, a Professional Wedding Speech Writer, shared top 5 tips to help you craft and deliver an epic wedding speech. With a little bit of guidance, you’ll be delivering an unforgettable wedding toast template that captures hearts and makes memories for years to come!

• Keep it Short and Sweet First things first–when it comes to wedding speeches less is more. Did you know that a 5-minute speech is approximately 700 words? It’s important to keep your speech concise and to the point, ensuring that every word is impactful and resonates with the audience.
• Skip the Roasts Steer clear of roasting the couple. It might sound funny in your head, but trust me, some things are better left unsaid. Avoid cringeworthy moments by focusing on heartwarming and positive anecdotes that celebrate the couple’s journey and love.
• Harness the Power of Storytelling Capture everyone’s attention by using storytelling to highlight either the bride or groom’s wonderful qualities. Is she loyal, adventurous, generous, or kind-hearted? Is he optimistic, resilient, hilarious, etc? Share a touching story that really showcases one of these character traits, allowing everyone to get a deeper insight into how amazing this person truly is.
• Celebrate the Path to Becoming a Husband or Wife Remember that this is a wedding celebration and your wedding speech is a great opportunity to encourage the bride in her new role as a wife or the groom in his new role as a husband. Share your heartfelt wishes and why you believe they will make an amazing partner in this new chapter of their life.
• Practice Makes Perfect Confidence is key! Practice your speech a few times to build up your self-assurance. Remember to speak slowly when practicing because you are more likely to speed up in front of a crowd. Think of the areas you might tear up at and remember to pause and take a second to breathe. You don’t have to rush through the toast. Everyone wants to hear what you clearly have to say. Here’s the thing, the audience wants you to succeed, so embrace those nerves and let them fuel your confident delivery! You’ve got this, my friend! With these tips and a little bit of preparation, your speech is bound to be a show-stopper that leaves everyone applauding and reaching for the tissues! Crafting a memorable wedding speech is an art form, and your words have the power to touch hearts and create lasting memories.

Wedding Speeches Order

The order of wedding speeches can vary depending on cultural traditions and personal preferences. However, a common order for wedding speeches is as follows:

• Father of the Bride: Welcomes guests, and expresses love and pride for his daughter.
• Groom: Thanks guests, expresses gratitude to both families, and shares love for the bride.
• Best Man: Shares humorous anecdotes about the groom, and proposes a toast.
• Maid/Matron of Honor: Expresses friendship and admiration for the bride, offers wisdom, and proposes a toast.
• Additional speeches: Other family members or friends may give shorter speeches or toasts as desired. Note: The order and inclusion of speeches can be customized to the couple’s preferences. Communication with the wedding party beforehand is essential for a smooth flow of the reception.

Wedding Speeches Template

Learning how to write a wedding speech involves creating a heartfelt and memorable outline.

Introduction:

• Greet the guests and introduce yourself.
• Express your gratitude for being chosen to speak at the wedding.

Personal Connection:

• Share a personal story or memory about the couple.
• Talk about your relationship with either the bride or groom (or both) and how you’ve seen their love grow.

Compliments and Qualities:

• Compliment the couple individually and as a pair.
• Highlight their qualities and what makes them a great match.

Anecdotes and Humor:

• Share light-hearted and funny anecdotes about the couple.
• Keep the humor appropriate and avoid embarrassing stories.

Words of Wisdom:

• Offer advice or lessons on love, marriage, or relationships.
• Use heartfelt and meaningful quotes or poems if desired.
• Raise a toast to the couple’s happiness and future together.
• Invite guests to join in raising their glasses and toasting.
• Express well wishes and congratulations to the newlyweds.
• End with a final heartfelt message or a toast to love.

Remember to personalize the speech to your relationship with the couple and make it heartfelt and authentic. Practice it beforehand to ensure a smooth delivery and consider keeping the speech around 3-5 minutes in length.

Things You’d Better Exclude From Any Wedding Speech

At the same time, there are things great wedding speeches avoid.

• Do not include any embarrassing information.
• Do not mention previous boyfriends or girlfriends of the newlyweds.
• Do not say rude things like ‘We thought that day would never come’.
• Do not include any crude language, there are all sorts of guests around, and what is totally appropriate in a group of friends is inappropriate at the celebration.
• Adding humor, don’t make fun of the bride or groom. This is your best friend’s wedding, do not spoil it! If in doubt – use examples above, but by no means copy them. It is only a piece of speech to boost your imagination.

Wedding Speeches can be tricky to write, but we hope that now you have everything you need to deliver a perfect speech. A couple of jokes, a sentimental story, and letting your love for the couple shine is all it takes.

What Not to Say in a Wedding Speech

• Embarrassing Stories : Steer clear of tales that could embarrass the couple.
• Negative Remarks : Refrain from negative comments or jokes.
• Excessive Inside Jokes : Ensure your speech is inclusive for all guests.
• Lengthy Monologues : Keep it concise and engaging.
• Controversial Topics : Avoid sensitive or controversial subjects.
• Overuse of Clichés : Aim for originality over clichés.
• Inappropriate Humor : Be mindful of cultural or personal sensitivities.

Frequently Asked Questions

What do you say in a wedding speech.

• Express your love and support for the couple.
• Share personal anecdotes or stories about them.
• Offer well-wishes for their future together.

How long should a wedding speech be?

What is an example of a short marriage speech.

To [Couple’s Name], may your love be as endless as the horizon, your laughter as infectious as a melody, and your journey together full of joy. Here’s to a lifetime of love and happiness. Cheers!

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Sample Wedding Speech for a Brother From His Sister

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A wedding speech for a brother from a sister can be a mix of love and humor. You can illustrate your relationship with your brother by sharing one or two short stories about growing up together.

Creating a Wedding Speech for a Brother From a Sister

Your wedding speech for your brother should be from the heart. You want to use this opportunity to let your brother know how important he is to you. Keep in mind that others will be making a wedding speech or toast as well, and long-winded speeches quickly become tedious. Keeping these things in mind, your speech will be one of the first ones of the night, so you can set the pace and expectation by keeping it entertaining, but not drawn out. You can download the following three speeches as printables that you can edit and customize for your speech. To download, you can refer to the Guide for Adobe Printable .

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1. Unconditional Love: Wedding Speech for a Brother Sample

In the speech below, you'll need to insert the names for Bride or Brother wherever indicated.

"Good evening. I'm so happy to be here tonight. First, I want to wish my brother and his new wife a wonderful life together. The two of you are great together, and today, your wedding, it was just magical."

[ Turn to the guests. ]

"Many of you only know my brother as the cool, dashing, athletic, somewhat successful professional [ fill in type of career ]. However, he wasn't always that way. I know. It's difficult to imagine, but he was once just a little guy, my baby brother. And, even though we're adults, I'll always think of him as my little brother."

[ Look at your brother. ]

"I spent our childhood looking out for you, Brother, and I'll always be your big sister and always look out for you."

[ Insert a story about how you protected your brother or encouraged him when he was a little boy and was feeling discouraged or challenged. ]

"What I've learned from being your big sister is unconditional love. I've always known that I love you unconditionally, but I never knew that you loved me unconditionally. Not until…"

[ Insert short story of how you discovered your brother's love was unconditional. When finished, turn to the bride. ]

"I know that you, Bride , have also discovered that same unconditional love. And, just as importantly, I know that you love my brother the same way he loves, with your whole heart. Bride , I'm so grateful that my little brother found the love of his life. Seeing the two of you together always makes me smile. I can't help it. You are a perfect match for each other. You give each other permission to be yourselves. You accept each other's imperfections. Most importantly, you support and encourage each other, no matter what task or project you decide to tackle, like the time Brother decided to…"

[ Insert a funny story of a project or task your brother undertook that turned out badly in a humorous way. This can be anything from any time in his life. ]

"Had you been by his side at the time he did that, I know you would have been right there with him, helping him. And, knowing that, I can breathe a sigh of relief as Brother 's big sister because I know you will look out for him the same way I always have. I also know that he will always look out for you, the same way he has always looked out for me."

[ Turn back to the other guests. ]

"Please join me in a toast to Bride and Brother . To a life filled with happiness and love. May you build on the love and relationship you sealed today with your wedding vows and always have each other's best interest as your number one priority in your marriage, with your combined unconditional love guiding you."

2. Sibling Rivalry: Sample Wedding Speech for a Brother From His Sister

This speech is good for siblings who have always competed against each other. It should be delivered as poking fun at yourself with some additional light-hearted teasing of your brother. This wedding speech for your brother should be delivered as entertainment to everyone at the wedding reception and given only a loving sister can only do.

"Thank you all for coming to my brother's wedding. I love my brother, dearly. You know that right, Brother ? But I must admit we've always had a kind of competition going on between us. Yeah, Brother , you can't deny it. Sometimes, it wasn't very pretty."

"But today! I mean, Brother , I have to say, you took all this competitiveness between us to an extreme level by being the first one to get married. And yeah, you won the whole marriage competition, but you are so much more than the winner of our little competition. You are a star winner because you chose Bride to be your wife! You truly rose to stardom level in our competition when you somehow convinced this poor woman to marry you."

[ If you were the first one to get married, then replace the previous paragraph with the following one.]

"But I beat you at the whole first to get married competition. And even though you're the loser , I have to say you are very much the winner by marrying, Bride ! You truly rose to stardom level in our competition when you somehow convinced this poor woman to marry you."

[ You can then continue. ]

"No offense to you, Bride, because I love you dearly too. But this is about my brother and his obsession to best me and just how far he's willing to go. You don't believe me? Once, when we were kids, he..."

[ Insert an example that demonstrates this kind of sibling rivalry. Keep it fun and in a loving spirit .]

"Of course, I was the more mature one, I rose above the pettiness of such competition and..."

[I nsert what you did to get back at him that shows you were not at all the more mature one .]

"In all seriousness, though, Brother and Bride I am so happy for the two of you. Watching the two of you preparing for your wedding, I realized just how much you adore each other."

[ Turn to the guests for the final toasting .]

"Please raise your glasses and join me in toasting my wonderful brother and his new wife! May you always be the winners in life. I love both of you very much."

3. Twins: Sample Wedding Speech for a Brother From His Sister

If you and your brother are twins, then you have quite a bit of material (history) to draw on for your wedding speech. The most obvious theme is how alike the two of you are. You can use this wedding speech for your Brother to express how much he means to you. The following sample is intended to be used as a guide. You can edit and change anything you wish to make it fit you and your brother.

"Good evening, everyone! What a wonderful wedding we all just attended! [ Pause for applause ] As you know, Brother and I are twins, but we are very different people. Brother likes rock music, I like classical. Brother is athletic and I'm a bookworm. Brother likes comedy movies, I like sci-fi. And the list goes on. For twins, we just aren't very much alike. In fact, I'd say we are pretty much like most siblings, except we do have the typical twin connection. Fro example, I knew when Brother..."

[I nsert a twin story of when you and your brother had that kind of ESP or other unique connection and you knew something had happened to him or he was feeling something. ]

"That wasn't the only time we've had such a strong connection. I know when he's happy and when he's sad. And the most important connection I have felt with you, Brother was earlier today. I could feel your exuberance. I felt the love you have for Bride, and it made me so grateful that you've found such fulfillment in Bride , your new wife."

"Your happiness is so important to me, and I know you will always have it with Bride. The two of you have so much in common and you both have big hearts."

" Bride , when you entered my brother's life, it was like you turned on a light switch. He always had a lot of energy and zest for life, but you've amplified all that and so much more. You complement him, the way he seems to complement you."

"And isn't that what a marriage needs? Two people who are whole by themselves. It's obvious that you make an amazing team, and I can't wait to see the life you carve out for yourselves-together."

[ Turn to the guests with toasting glass in one hand .]

"Please join me in celebrating Brother and Bride as they start their lives together as husband and wife. May you forever hold the joy you share today in your hearts and never let it go!"

Personalizing Wedding Speech for Brother Samples

You can use a wedding speech for brother sample to craft your own speech. You may even decide to combine a few ideas from these wedding speech samples to personalize your speech at your brother's wedding. The important thing is that your words come from your heart, even if you used a little help to put your speech together.

Everything You Need to Know About Giving a Brother of the Bride Speech

• Author: Natali Grace Levine
• Reading time: 7 min 41 sec
• Publication date: 09/09/2024
• Updated: 09/09/2024

How to Write a Brother of the Bride's Wedding Speech

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Stepping up to the microphone as the brother of the bride comes with its own unique set of emotions. Pride, joy, a touch of nervousness—it's a significant moment where you get to share your thoughts and feelings about your sister's big day. Whether you're a seasoned speaker or a novice at public addresses, crafting a speech that captures the essence of your relationship and the joy of the occasion is crucial. In this guide, we'll walk you through everything you need to know to deliver a memorable and heartfelt brother-of-the-bride speech. Let’s dive into creating a speech that not only honors your sister but also resonates with every guest in the room!

Creating a memorable wedding speech as the brother of the bride means weaving together emotion, humor, and personal touches that celebrate your sister’s big day. Here’s a detailed guide on crafting a speech that will resonate with the audience and make the day even more special for your sister:

• Open with Heart: Begin your speech with a warm welcome to all the guests, expressing your happiness on this joyful occasion. It's always a good move to start with something light-hearted or a gentle joke to ease yourself into the speech and capture the audience’s attention.
• Express Gratitude: Acknowledge the people who played significant roles in making the day possible. Thank the parents, the other members of the wedding party, and specifically mention any family or friends who have traveled a long way to be part of the ceremony.
• Reflect on Shared Memories: Share anecdotes that illustrate your relationship with your sister. These can range from humorous childhood memories to poignant moments that highlight her qualities. The key is to pick stories that not only entertain but also show her character and the bonds you share.
• Compliment Her Qualities: Speak to your sister's unique traits and achievements. Whether she’s incredibly creative, fiercely independent, or the most caring person you know, let these qualities shine through your words. This not only personalizes the speech but also lets the audience see her through your eyes.
• Welcome the Spouse: Make a point to formally welcome the bridegroom into your family. Discuss your positive impressions of them, your initial meeting, and the qualities that make them a perfect match for your sister. It's important to strike a balance between celebrating your sister and acknowledging her partner's role in her life and happiness.
• Share Wisdom: If it feels appropriate, offer some light-hearted or sincere advice to the couple. Drawing from your own experiences or even quoting advice from beloved family members or cultural wisdom can add depth to your message.
• Conclude with a Toast: End with heartfelt wishes for the couple’s future. Raise a toast to their health, happiness, and a lifetime of love. Make sure your closing lines are hopeful and uplifting, leaving both the couple and the guests feeling positive and moved.
• Practice Makes Perfect: Practice your speech several times. This helps you manage any nerves and ensures that you deliver it smoothly on the day. It also allows you to fine-tune timing and pacing, ensuring your delivery feels natural and engaging.
• Stay True to Yourself: While it’s great to draw inspiration from other speeches, make sure your speech feels true to who you are. Your sister will appreciate the authenticity and personal touch, making the speech memorable for all the right reasons.

By following these steps, you'll be able to craft a speech that not only honors the occasion but also deeply touches your sister and all the guests, creating a memorable moment during the wedding celebration.

When it comes to delivering a memorable speech as the brother of the bride, having a few examples can be incredibly helpful. The tone and content of your speech can vary greatly depending on your relationship with your sister, the style of the wedding, and your personal comfort with public speaking. Below, you’ll find three diverse examples of brother of the bride speeches.

Funny Brother of the Bride Speech

"Ladies and gentlemen, grab a drink and settle in; you're about to enjoy the shortest fairy tale ever — once upon a time, I had to share my room with my sister, Sarah, and now, thankfully, that burden falls to Tom! But in all seriousness, I couldn’t be happier. From stealing my baseball caps to stealing my heart with her kindness, Sarah has been the best sister anyone could ask for. Tom, she’s all yours now, but no refunds or exchanges, please! Here's to a lifetime of love, laughter, and finding my hats in your closet instead of mine. Cheers!"

Short But Heartfelt Brother of the Bride Speech

"Good evening, everyone. As Sarah’s big brother, I’ve had the joy of watching her grow from a feisty little girl into the beautiful woman she is today. Sarah, you've always been my partner in crime, my confidant, and my friend. It fills my heart with joy to see you so happy with Tom. Tom, take good care of her; she's a gem. To my sister and her new husband, may your life together be filled with endless love and joy. Here's to new beginnings and unforgettable memories. Cheers!"

Formal Brother of the Bride Speech

"Ladies and gentlemen, I am honored to stand here today as the brother of the bride. On behalf of our family, I extend a heartfelt welcome to all of you and a special acknowledgment to Tom’s family, who we are delighted to join through this blessed union. Reflecting on the journey Sarah has made, from her early days filled with ambition to the wonderful, compassionate person standing before us, I am overwhelmed with pride. Sarah, your strength and grace inspire me daily. Tom, your integrity and passion are evident, and I am confident in the beautiful life you will build together. May your marriage be a beacon of love and stability in all seasons of life. To the bride and groom!"

When you’re standing up to speak at your sister’s wedding, the aim is to enhance the joy and celebration of the day. However, there are certain pitfalls you should avoid to ensure your speech contributes positively to the occasion. 

Inside Jokes and Obscure References

While it’s tempting to include personal jokes or references, remember that the audience is diverse, and not everyone will understand them. Avoid alienating guests with humor or anecdotes that are too specific to your family or friend group.

Mentioning Past Relationships

It might seem humorous to bring up past flings or relationships, but a wedding is a celebration of the couple’s future together. Bringing up past relationships can be uncomfortable, not just for the bride and groom, but also for the guests.

Inappropriate or Offensive Humor

Keep the content of your speech appropriate for all ages present at the wedding. Avoid any humor or stories that are off-color or offensive. Remember, what might be funny in a more private setting could be inappropriate at a wedding.

Rambling and Overly Long Speeches

Keep your speech concise and to the point. A long, rambling speech can lose the audience’s attention and detract from the flow of the wedding festivities. Aim for a speech that’s about 3-5 minutes long, as this is usually enough time to say what’s heartfelt and meaningful without dragging on.

Excessive Teasing

While light teasing can add a humorous touch to your speech, be cautious not to overdo it. Too much teasing can embarrass your sister and make the speech feel more like a roast than a tribute. Balance any teasing with genuine compliments and affection.

Overly Emotional Content

While it’s perfectly fine to show emotion, be mindful of not turning the speech into an overly emotional ordeal. Keep the tone balanced; it’s a celebration, after all. Share touching moments or tear-jerking memories sparingly and focus on celebrating this happy milestone.

Delivering a speech as the brother of the bride can feel like a daunting task, especially if you're not accustomed to public speaking. To help ease any anxiety and ensure you're well-prepared for this honorable role, we've compiled a list of frequently asked questions about giving a brother of the bride speech. 

Q1: How long should the brother of the bride speech be?

Aiming for a speech length of about 3-5 minutes is ideal. This duration is long enough to include a heartfelt tribute, a couple of memorable anecdotes, and well-wishes for the couple, without losing the attention of your audience. If your speech is engaging and well-paced, it will feel neither rushed nor drawn out.

Q2: Is it okay to read from a paper?

Absolutely, it's perfectly fine to read from a paper or note cards. Many people find that having a written copy helps them stay organized and calm during the speech. However, try to maintain eye contact with the audience as much as possible. Practicing your speech several times before the big day can help you become familiar enough with your text that you can look up from your notes frequently and engage with your audience.

Q3: What if I get emotional during the speech?

It’s completely natural to feel emotional while giving a speech at your sister’s wedding. If you find yourself getting choked up, take a moment to pause, take a deep breath, and compose yourself. The guests will understand—after all, it’s a significant moment for you as well. If you anticipate being very emotional, practice your speech more to get accustomed to saying the words out loud. This can help manage emotions on the day of the wedding.

Q4: Can I use quotes in my speech?

Including a meaningful quote can add a thoughtful touch to your speech. Whether it’s a famous saying, a line from a poem, or a piece of advice from a family member, make sure the quote enhances your message and fits seamlessly into your speech. Choose something that resonates with the sentiment you wish to convey and ensure it aligns with the tone of the rest of your delivery.

Q5: How do I make my speech memorable?

To make your speech memorable, focus on delivering it with sincerity and personal touch. Include specific anecdotes or qualities about your sister that highlight your unique relationship. You can also incorporate a meaningful quote, a brief poem, or a special message from other family members who couldn’t attend. Engaging with your audience through eye contact, expressive delivery, and genuine emotion will also help make your speech stand out.

Q6: What is the best way to end a speech?

The best way to end your speech is on a positive, uplifting note. You can do this by expressing your best wishes for the couple's future, proposing a toast, or sharing a hopeful or inspiring thought about love and marriage. Ensure your closing words reflect the joy and significance of the occasion, leaving both the couple and the guests feeling inspired and celebrated.

Q7: Is it appropriate to make references to the bride's childhood or family traditions?

Yes, referencing the bride's childhood or family traditions can add a rich, personal layer to your speech. These references can evoke nostalgia and offer the audience deeper insight into her background and the formative experiences that have shaped who she is today. However, ensure these references are shared with a tone of respect and affection, and are relatable enough so the broader audience can appreciate them.

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Little brother shares heartfelt, emotional speech at sister's wedding

"I think more than 75% of people there were crying."

A 12-year-old's emotional speech at his sister's wedding has gone viral, with commenters saying it's making them tear up, too.

Videographer Jose Luis Medina of Milan Photography shared an Instagram video of Benji delivering a speech as his sister Cindy Villanueva and brother-in-law Jose Villanueva reacted, with all three growing emotional.

"I used to talk to Cindy every morning … she's like a best friend to me," Benji said in part, explaining that he would open up to his older sister about his life at school and make cookies with her regularly.

"And Jose, I want to thank you because you have been a brother to me ever since I met you. You have been so nice to me and I appreciate that a lot, and I want to wish you guys a great future," Benji continued with tears in his eyes as his sister and brother-in-law wiped away their own tears and clapped.

The Instagram video quickly caught the attention of thousands, picking up over 240,000 likes and over 1,400 comments since Aug. 29.

"Don't mind me, just over here drying my tears up," wrote one commenter.

Maid of honor who missed wedding goes viral for pre-recorded speech

Cindy Villanueva told "Good Morning America" she is the oldest of three siblings and her relationship with her youngest brother Benji, in particular, is "pretty close."

"I have two brothers. I asked both of them if they wanted to do a speech and surprisingly, [Benji] did, and he caught all of us by surprise," the 25-year-old bride said.

Cindy Villanueva said Benji wrote his speech off the cuff the day of her Aug. 10 wedding and told her he had been a little nervous before he shared his heartfelt message.

"He's not the type of person to really express himself, so that was another reason why I thought he caught all of us by surprise," she said, adding that she thought Benji's words were "really, really sweet."

Both Cindy and Jose Villanueva, who said they gave Benji hugs afterward, couldn't help tearing up when they heard him speak at their reception.

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"I couldn't hold it in at that moment. I think more than 75% of people there were crying," Jose Villanueva told "GMA," adding that the 12-year-old's speech was "beautiful."

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"I think it hit me a lot when he said that I am like a best friend to him and that I understand him," Cindy Villanueva added. "As the oldest, I kind of felt that responsibility to be that person for him, so immediately, as soon as I heard that, that's when the ugly cry came out, and it was a very nice feeling."

Cindy Villanueva said even though she and Benji no longer live together, they still keep in touch often. She also encouraged others to remain close with their own family members.

"What I would want people to know is keep a close relationship with your siblings," she said. "Be there for your siblings, because at the end of the day, family's what's most important."

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