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Eulogy examples to help you write a eulogy for a memorial service

Funeral speech examples from around the world.

By:  Susan Dugdale  

How do you begin to write a meaningful eulogy?

And how is it possible to say everything you want to about a person's entire life story in a few, very brief, minutes?

Both those questions are natural responses to having a eulogy to write for a funeral service.

Grief, together with the desire to honor your loved-one the best way you can, and the pressure of a tight timeframe, can make it feel like an almost insurmountable challenge. 

That's why reading what others have written in similar circumstances helps a great deal.

What's on this page:

Access to 70+ eulogy examples, the whys and wherefores of the collection: its background, a submission form to use if you want to contribute a eulogy and links to other useful pages on my site.

Quick links

  • I want to browse and read the example eulogies in the order they have been received . (The most recent is at the top of the list.)
  • I want to submit a eulogy I have written .
  • I want to read specific types of eulogies : eulogies for mothers, fathers, an older brother, a dear friend...
  • I want help with the eulogy writing process .

About these eulogy examples

I am fortunate to be able to make available to you a large, and growing, collection of funeral speech examples. 

They've been written by people from all over the world, who are just like you and me. They too have family and friends whom they care for deeply.

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Look and you'll find examples of eulogies for mothers, fathers, grandparents, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, mentors, colleagues, a close friend..., in short: loved ones.

The people who've written them have shared them to help people like yourself. Because they've been where you are now with a funeral speech to prepare, they know how it feels to be searching for inspiration, trying to find a starting point.

Some of the speeches are short. Some of them are funny. All of them are heartfelt, and they appear in the order I received them.

To see them, jump to  eulogy samples .  

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 Help to find specific eulogy examples easily

If you're looking for an example of a eulogy for a particular kind of person, and don't want to browse your way through the chronologically ordered list below, use these links to go straight to a collection of:

  • eulogies for mothers
  • eulogies for  fathers
  • eulogies for  sisters
  • eulogies for  sons
  • eulogies for  grandmothers
  • eulogies for  grandfathers
  • eulogies for  friends
  • eulogies for  colleagues

I've grouped all the speeches I've received through this page according to their type on a new page here: sample eulogies . Whenever a eulogy is submitted, I add its link to the category it belongs to.

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The story behind this collection of eulogies

It began with two funeral speeches  I had written. 

Almost as soon as I put them online, they attracted an enormous number of visitors.

It was then I realized the need for more.  

I also knew my examples would not answer everybody's needs.

The one for my sister was different in approach.

The one for my friend and next-door neighbor was not what a grieving person with a eulogy speech to write for a close family member really wanted to see. 

My two were definitely not enough! 

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Offering a wider variety of funeral speeches 

To be really useful there needed to be a wider variety of funeral speeches. We needed eulogies for mothers, fathers, sons, sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, colleagues, friends, people who died unexpectedly and suddenly...

And we needed them to reflect the diverse countries and faiths of the people visiting the site.

I decided to ask for more. Lo and behold, they began to arrive through my   eulogy submission form below.

Help to make writing a eulogy easier.

After you've read a few eulogy examples, and you want help to prepare your own speech you'll find it here:  how to write a good eulogy .

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The article has step-by-step instructions, examples, a very useful free 15-page printable eulogy planning template to download , as well as comprehensive answers for 13 FAQs about eulogies :

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  • how do you end a eulogy ?
  • do you read a eulogy or memorize it?
  • how do you stop from crying when you give a eulogy ?

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Why do people share a deeply personal speech?

The people sending their eulogies to me to publish fully appreciate that writing a funeral speech under pressure can be a difficult, sad and lonely task - sometimes one of the hardest things they've ever done.

They know from experience having examples to read can lessen that burden. It's a good way of starting to find the right words to tell their own personal stories and share their favorite memories about a person they have loved.

Theirs is a kind and generous act, one that's been repeated over 70 times already. 

Wonderfully, some of the people who've come searching for help to write their own eulogy, have returned to share what they've written.

(Read Craig's comment below his eulogy for his Grandmother, Bertha  or Byrona's below her  eulogy for her Dad  for verification.

Both were helped by funeral speeches they found here and wanted what they had written to assist others in the same way.)

So, if you've written a eulogy...

Would you consider sharing it?

It would help others enormously.

Every day people look for tips on how to a write eulogy or to find  eulogy examples  to read. I know because I see it reflected in my website visitor statistics.

I also know because of the comments people leave under speeches.  They are so very grateful to have found a eulogy expressing how they feel.

For instance, see the comments on Eulogy for my Son , on Eulogy for my Grandmother - Bertha , or Sharon Catley's poem for her Mother,  Journey's End .   

You know how it generally is with a speech of this sort. Typically, there is not much time to prepare, and you want to get it right.

Reading what others have done helps in the best possible way.

These eulogies inspire and give people the courage to do what they need to do.

Despite our differences what we all have in common is the desire to speak about our loved ones the very best way we can. 

The more examples we have, the more likely a person is going to find a speech that resonates and meets their needs.

You too could help by submitting the eulogy you've written. It's very simple to do.

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When you're ready...

PS. If you would like to share your eulogy but have privacy concerns around using your loved one's name you could use a fictional name, like Bob or Sue in place of their real one. Be assured too, that although there is the possibility that people reading your speech might wish to respond, no comment goes live without my permission.

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We hope our funeral speech examples will inspire you to write a heartfelt eulogy to honour your loved one.

Delivering a funeral speech can be a daunting task.  Quite apart from the challenge of speaking in front of people while in a highly charged emotional state, the task of actually writing the funeral speech can be overwhelming. 

We are here to help you tackle this important job especially if you are in a state of shock from the grief of losing your loved one.

Further down the page there are links to example eulogies for all loved ones, friends or colleagues to give you inspiration.

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First of all, we have put together the following simple guidelines to help you to think of things to say: 

  • Speak from the heart and say how you feel about the person
  • Describe the person's qualities
  • Talk about their career, jobs, hobbies and passions
  • Talk about their relationships with family, friends and colleagues
  • Mention things that you inherited or learned from them
  • Perhaps mention some people who will be at the funeral
  • Mention a couple of funny stories if appropriate
  • Keep it real and don't be afraid of mentioning their less good points - you don't have to put them on a pedestal
  • Thank people for coming to the funeral and for their support

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All the following links are sample eulogies written about real people.  The ones for a father were written by myself and my brother when my Dad died.  The one for a mother was written by my mother (founder of this website) about her own Mum.  

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We hope they will give you some ideas for writing your own moving tribute.  

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How to write a eulogy for a mother.

Writing a eulogy for a beloved mother is a rare opportunity to share with your friends, family, and loved ones the importance of your mother’s life in your own (and in the lives of others). For those who have never written a funeral speech for a mother, this may feel like a lot of pressure. How can you sum up the importance of one’s life in a short speech? The good news is, writing a eulogy for a mom isn’t hard and can easily be done if you know where to start.

How to write a eulogy for a mother

Unsure where to start? Here’s some easy steps to guide you when writing a eulogy for a mother.

Step 1: Look at examples

Writing a eulogy for a mother from a daughter may look different and have a different feel than writing a eulogy for a mother from a son. There may be different qualities that were passed down, different ideas and lessons that you connected over, or a different type of bond that was established. Looking through eulogy examples for a mother can help you identify what kind of eulogy resonates with you and the kind of style or tone you’d like to emulate. Looking at examples of great eulogies for a mother will also help you figure out the length that you’re comfortable with and the content you want to share during the eulogy.

(Note: If you’ve never written a eulogy or heard one before, they typically last anywhere from 3 - 10 minutes in length.)

Step 2: Read a guide

While looking at examples can help you gain a better understanding of what to write (and maybe even what you don’t want to include), an example of a eulogy is only a basis for understanding what a eulogy looks like and what others decide to include. Going off of examples alone instead of looking at a guide can also leave you feeling unprepared, especially if you find yourself wanting to write a specific eulogy that you’re unable to find an example for. (For example, you may want to craft a eulogy for a mother with cancer but can’t find any examples of such a eulogy online.) This is where a guide can be of great use. Reading a guide on how to write a eulogy will give you a clearer understanding the layout, structure, and foundation of a great funeral speech for your mother.

Step 3: Create the outline

Outlining the eulogy is a good way to organize your thoughts, consider key elements you want to include in the eulogy, and get a feel for the length the eulogy will be. When writing the eulogy outline, consider the content you want to include, the tone you’re going for, and the structure. If you’re unclear on a standard structure, you can start by filling out a eulogy template for a mother for the foundation of the eulogy.

Step 4: Practice reading the eulogy out loud

A eulogy is a type of speech and is typically read out loud in front of the attendees, so you’ll want to prepare for this to be part of the experience. Reading the speech out loud in front of a trusted friend can give you an idea of what the eulogy sounds like and whether you’d like to change any wording so that it sounds better when spoken out loud. Ask your friend for feedback and suggestions if you’re comfortable with it.

Step 5: Make any edits necessary

The final step is making any edits necessary so that you can feel confident when delivering the eulogy in front of attendees. This is also a good place to time yourself for an idea of the length.

Can a eulogy be uplifting or funny?

The style, content, and tone of a eulogy depends entirely on your and your own personal writing style. Generally, try your best to keep the eulogy true to the person who has passed away. If your mother was reserved and quiet, it may not feel authentic to write an upbeat and out there eulogy for her. That being said, if your mother was eccentric or loved to laugh and be the life of the party, it can feel right to include this in your style and tone of voice when delivering the eulogy. Eulogies are unique pieces of writing tailored to the life of the person who passed away.

I don’t want to write a eulogy. What should I do?

If you feel like you’re not comfortable with writing the eulogy on your own, you have a few options available to you.

  • Ask someone else to consider reading the eulogy in your place, if you’re comfortable writing the eulogy but don’t want to read it out loud in front of others.
  • Ask someone to write (and potentially even give) the eulogy alongside you. Sometimes teaming up can make the process more meaningful and can help you feel less alone or pressured.
  • Consider hiring a professional eulogy writer to write the eulogy for you.
  • Say a few words at the funeral or celebration of life instead of reading an entire eulogy.

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A grandmother’s eulogy is an excellent time to include all attendees in a brief remembrance of your grandmother’s life. Here’s steps on how to write a eulogy for a grandmother, including ideas on what to say, how to structure the eulogy, and what to do if you’re not comfortable writing a eulogy.

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Eulogy For My Mother

In honor of Mother’s Day, I would like to share a tribute to my mother that I read in front of friends and family at her funeral.

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I sat down to write this eulogy a couple weeks before my mother died. I was in a rocking chair next to her bed, keeping her company as she dozed. Initially, I thought this would be the hardest thing I would ever write.

But the truth is, as I watched her sleep, I took comfort in knowing she was lost in a dream-world instead of plagued by her dark reality—and the words poured out of me like I too was lost in a world of dreams. Dreams that brought me back to the imaginary games we played when I was younger, hearing her cheer me on from the sidelines during my soccer games, secrets confided, lessons learned, I loves yous exchanged, her beaming pride, our best friendship, arguments that exhausted both of us, and the reconciliations that always brought us back together. And below you'll find the final result.

When I was little, my mother and I played a game before I went to sleep. The rules were simple. We would take turns saying that we loved each other more than something. For example, she would say, “I love you more than a soccer ball.” And then it was my turn. It was my task to return the sentiment by saying that I loved her more than something larger than a soccer ball. “I love you more than the kitchen table.” And so on. We would continue in this vein until the game was over by default with someone saying the magic words, “Well, I love you more than infinity!” When the game was over, we’d kiss goodnight, and I would sleep.

What I didn’t realize at the time was that my mother was teaching me about shapes and sizes and how to use my imagination. The game was about learning to comprehend the magnitude of my mother’s feelings for me as much as it was about being together and laughing about the goofy things we came up with—“I love you more than a tennis racket.” “Well, then I love you more than a gorilla.” And so forth.

My mom was a genius at finding games and activities I enjoyed that would teach me valuable lessons and important skills. I confronted the challenge of comprehending another enormity or type of magnitude later in my childhood when my father died. And again, my mother was there at every step along the way to make sure I was coping with the various emotional phases I went through during the process. For a while, the gravity of his death was too overwhelming and to try to contemplate what my mother went through too much. Years later, it still scared me, but I knew that I wanted to make sense of it and its effect on my mother. And then, when I was a little older, I figured it out. I felt  pride .

How incredibly strong was she? Did I know anyone stronger? She never gave up; she put her entire being into raising me, providing for me and finding a home for us at Georgetown Day School where I could learn, grow and stretch as far as I could stretch.

And this is why, when my mother was sick and most concerned about how her willingness to fight would impact me, I tried several times to convince her that those lessons had already been taught, the wisdom imparted. But she continued to worry and concern herself mostly with how I would handle this—how I would move forward after this devastating loss. The toll it would take and the tears I would cry….

Over the last 10 months, I have grown accustomed to having a sick mother and while I was in shock for several weeks after her diagnosis, I learned to be her caretaker while I was in DC, her caretaker while I was in Philadelphia, and although I doubted my strength from the beginning, I learned to have a terminally ill mother, go to class, have fun with friends and live my life.

I am writing this before her death and know that my strength and her strength will get me through this. As my mother always said to me, it’s amazing how strong you can be when you have no other choice.

There are really no words to describe my closeness with my mother. I know this because the slow, agonizing decline of the disease forces even the most optimistic and hopeful to think about and plan for this day. And as such, you start thinking about what you might say during a time like this. And after unsuccessfully putting pen to paper several times, I realized that there really are no words.

There are only feelings, indescribable feelings. Feelings that make my heart burst and my whole being melt. Because my mother was my insides. She  is  my insides. My guts. My confidence. My bravery and my strength. My sensitivity, my compassion, my loyalty and even my laughter.

She was everything. She was my mother, and she was my father.

If I had to conjure up one life lesson that she would want me to carry for the rest of my life, it is this: Seek advice from others, but always trust myself. She believed in me, and she believed that I always knew what was best for  me .

And if I had to conjure up a second lesson or personal desire of hers, it would be a plea for me to have a daughter—and for that daughter to play sports. I’m not sure Mom could’ve been any happier than when she was cheering from the sidelines at my soccer and lacrosse games.

I miss you, Mom. I will trust myself, Mom, and I will be fine. I love you more than infinity.

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Eulogy example: What can I say about my mum at her funeral?

Emotions run deep following the loss of a mother, and finding the right words to capture the essence of her remarkable life can be a challenging time.

To help encourage ideas and support you on your journey, we hope the below eulogy example for a mother serves as a testament to the unwavering love, guidance and support that our mothers so often selflessly provide. Make yours personal by adding your own memories, don't focus on the grammar just yet, just let the conversation flow. You've got this!

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Hello everyone, thank you all for coming to honour and remember my Mum, (name).

In the depths of our grief and sorrow today, we come to bid farewell to a woman who was not just a mother, grandmother, wife and sister, but a guiding light in all our lives. My Mum, pillar of strength and compassion, leaves behind a legacy of love that will forever remain etched in our hearts.

Born and raised in (town), the heart of (state), Mum had a spirit that was as boundless as the acreages of land she lived on. She was a true-blue country girl, with a laugh that could brighten the darkest of days and the warmest hug I'll ever know. To me (and siblings), mum was like a beautiful weeping willow tree, providing shade and comfort whenever any of us / I needed it.

Oh, how I will miss her cooking! Shame the apple didn't fall from the tree in that department... From her simple Sunday roast and backyard BBQ's to her mouth-watering caramel slice, Mum's kitchen was food lovers heaven. The pleasure she got from cooking for loved ones mirrored the warmth of her heart, and every meal to her was an opportunity to be together and I will miss these special table moments most of all.

Mum loved to share stories about her life on the farm. Sitting around the campfire, she would spin yarns of her childhood, sharing the family's struggles and achievements, instilling in us a sense of belonging to something greater than ourselves. Her stories wove the tapestry of our family's heritage, and I know we will all be forever grateful for the cultural richness she imparted.

In the face of adversity, Mum was a beacon of resilience. (Personal story here) She taught us that strength doesn't come from avoiding hardships but from facing them head-on. With every challenge that life presented, she demonstrated grace and courage, inspiring us to approach life with the same tenacity and determination.

As a grandmother, Mum was pure magic. Watching her with (names of grandchildren) was witnessing love in its purest form. She doted on them with so much warmth and affection, creating cherished memories that will be passed down through generations.

Though the pain of losing Mum is beyond words, I hope you can find solace in knowing that she lived a life of purpose and love. Her kindness, selflessness and unwavering devotion to family and friends has left an indelible mark on each of us.

In the words of Dorothea Mackellar, "I love a sunburnt country, a land of sweeping plains," and so did Mum. She embraced the Australian spirit wholeheartedly and enriched our lives every single day. Today, as we bid her cheerio, we celebrate a life well-lived, a life filled with love, and a mother who was simply extraordinary.

Rest in peace, Mum. You will forever be our guiding star, shining brightly in the vastness of our hearts. Goodbye, until we meet again on the other side of the horizon.

To find support 

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Lifeline Australia provides Australians experiencing a personal crisis with access to 24-hour crisis support. Call 13 11 14 or visit lifeline.org.au for more information.      

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Memorial Tributes to Mothers: Guide to Cherishing Her Memory

An avid freelance writer, Tamsen has penned multiple published articles along with books using her advanced degrees and certifications.

Learn about our Editorial Policy .

A memorial tribute to a mom who passed away is also commonly referred to as a eulogy. This is a speech that someone close to the deceased gives at the funeral as a final tribute. Writing memorial tributes to deceased mothers can be difficult and emotional. Use the memorial tribute sample provided to help you get started.

A Fitting Tribute to a Mother at Her Funeral

The responsibility of giving the memorial tribute typically falls on the eldest child of the deceased, but this is not an absolute rule. It's important that the person giving the memorial tribute is not only willing to do so but has the ability to do so as well. In other words, a hysterical eldest child who may have a difficult time getting any words out at the podium might allow an adult grandchild who has a better ability to speak calmly in front of people to deliver the tribute.

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Writing the Tribute Speech to Mom

The purpose of the memorial tribute is to give those in attendance a feel for the life of the deceased. It's a way to share favorite memories and paint the deceased in a good light.

Writing Tips

While writing the tribute, keep in mind that being a mother was likely the most important role in the deceased's life. Highlight the role of motherhood in the memorial tribute, emphasizing how much the deceased loved and cared for her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, etc.

Some other items you should consider including within the eulogy are:

  • Birthdate and birthplace
  • Memories of what the deceased was like as a child and at other points of her life
  • Important dates such as a wedding date, graduation date, etc.
  • Names of her children
  • Occupation and/or hobbies
  • Mention of her faith or spirituality
  • Funny or warm memories

While writing the memorial tribute, think about what the deceased would have wanted said about her, and let that be your guide.

Memorial Tribute Samples

While your mother will undoubtedly have experienced a much different life than the moms featured in these sample tributes, use the samples as guides to writing your own. Notice how both samples exalt the mothers' role as mothers while also mentioning other aspects of their lives. If you need help to download the printable, check out these helpful tips .

Mom Tribute: The Animal Lover

The mom's life in this sample tribute was characterized by a great love for animals and a fearlessness later in life.

Mom Tribute: The Social Butterfly

This tribute is written about a mom who enjoyed socializing with other people so much that it became one of her identifying traits in life.

Prose and Poetry

It may be too painful for some people to read aloud a highly personalized tribute about their mother at her funeral. In these instances, a funeral poem specifically for moms or a song might be a good option. This allows you to use someone else's well-crafted words to honor your mother.

Deliver Your Tribute With Confidence

If getting up in front of people to speak makes you nervous, keep in mind that nobody expects perfection in your words or delivery. Those in attendance understand that this is a difficult time. Prepare as much as you can beforehand so that when the time comes to get up and deliver the eulogy it can be a fitting and memorable tribute to a special woman.

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Eulogy Examples For Mother

How do i write a eulogy for my mother.

I don’t know if there is a deeper sense of loss than that of your Mother. The person who raised you taught you right from wrong and brought you into this world. I want to say how sorry I am for the loss you are going through and that I hope this page of text will help, in some way, to get you through writing a lovely memorial speech for your mother.

Before you start to write, I want you to know that the fact you are preparing this eulogy means that you played a huge role in your mother’s life and that she would be proud of you for putting so much thought and effort into the speech. No matter how the speech goes, what you share or don’t share will not have any effect on the lasting memory of your mother. Now is just the time to share your most wonderful memories of the women that raised you. Share what you love most about her and your most cherished memories. The best thing I can do for you is to provide some eulogy examples which I found useful to hopefully bring you some inspiration at this tough time. I have also included some tips from professional eulogy writers below. I wish you and your family only the best. If I can help anymore, please do reach out. If you would like to share your eulogy with us, to help others in the future, I would be honoured. Thank you

Tribute Ideas to a Mother at Funeral

Eulogy for mother from son.

This lovely eulogy from a son her his mother is a lovely example of how to memorialise your mothers life

Can you hear me at the back? I have to ask because we were at the wedding last week and mum was sending smoke signals from the back of the room because she couldn’t hear me….. Ministers, family, friends and to the thousands of well-wishers who in the past few days have sent their messages of condolence and sympathies, thank you for coming to pay respect to my mother, Miriam. Those of us who knew her well knew that mom was never more than a deepin’ meaningful conversation or an emotional story away from having a good ol’ cry, so as her only son you’ll understand if I shed a few myself. As I speak to you I have to begin by thanking a few people, that’s what mom would have done so I’d like to say, I want to thank the friends and family who have rallied around and given us great strength in this dark time. Your organization and your willingness to pitch in is greatly appreciated by dad and me. Monsignorakhirin for your guidance and compassionate words I know. Mom was inordinately proud of your achievements and hopeful for what your future might bring. To the calibre family for the beautiful flowers here in the church today for deer, and Eve rain and the wonderful musicians for sharing the music with us, and to my stepbrothers and your families, my cousin’s, our neighbours, to my beautiful wife, Jennifer, for stepping in at a time of crisis and keeping the show on the road. Ma’am would have been so proud and grateful to see all the family come together and muck in so thank you all. the Marines we know many people across the length and breadth of this country have their own personal experience of and relationship with, Miriam and the many versions of her that there are. the mother, the wife, the sister, the aunt, the stepmother, the mother-in-law, the friend, the colleague, the journalist, the radio host, the social commentator, the activist and the architect. Each of these versions of Marian touched us because she had great empathy and her curiosity made all these selves very genuine. the woman I knew behind all these selves, was a shy lady who was as happy reading a book in silence, as she was sitting around the dinner table in the small areas of the morning with friends, laughing, joking, singing when she could remember the words, debating the politics of the day and generally sorting out the world’s problems, one dinner party at a time. The lady who liked being in bed during a storm, listening to the wind and rain crashing against the windows with the duvet pulled up to her chin, a classy lady with soul in the truest sense. she had a razor-sharp mind, she was patient, she was compassionate and she was great company at home. the matriarch was deeply protective of her family, mom was not a strict mother luckily for me but she would let me know when I was being foolish. her own mother, my granny, was a wonderful stoic religious woman who had sent mom back to school after her Leaving Cert because she thought mom was a bit too young and probably a bit too wild for a university. the result for us was that mom gave us great freedom, she respected good efforts, she rewarded independent thinking, she believed we should continually educate ourselves. she loved to debate things just for the sport of it. she believed that respect was always deserved and not just earned, and when it was lost there was room for forgiveness. nobody is always good and nobody is always bad. one of her favourite songs was a revolution by the Beatles, in it the line “you say you want a revolution, yeah we all want to change the world.” this is the challenge that she. accepted her activism and her charity were real because she lived the problems she tried to fix. her work with the Irish Hospice Foundation and the work of friends in Ireland were fueled by her experiences with my sister Sinead and the death of her own mother. she had the courage to step up to life’s challenges publicly and reflected on them privately. mom taught me that if you want a revolution, you can start one by challenging people, by finding commonalities, and by finding within people their humanity and their capacity to improve. stand up straight, she’d say, look him in the eye and go from there. mom lived many lifetimes in her life, her legacy to me is to travel to learn to live a life that’s full of love and her spirit will live on when the next generation of her family is born next month. Jenny and I will try to raise our child to have courage, curiosity and kindness, virtues that Marian espoused. thank you ma’am, we love you and we’ll miss you terribly

Eulogy Example for Mother from Daughter

The below eulogy is an example of an adult daughter saying goodbye to her mother.

hi, I’m on Harley’s daughter Nancy. Dear friends family and pastor, today we say goodbye to my mom but we’re also here to celebrate her life because that’s what she would want for all of us here that are saddened by her passing. She had a whole life, most of you here knew her as a friend but she was also an aunt. She was a grandmother. She was a wife, a daughter, a sister and a mom. She was also known around the house as chief. So the last few days they’ve been trying to think how in the world I could possibly put into a few minutes everything that I could be to someone like that, so bear with me. First, I think I should acknowledge that she gave me life, that’s a pretty big one and forever grateful to have such a great mom. She was my first teacher, she taught me all through her life, all through my life and she taught me right up till the end what humility, dignity, poise and bravery look like she also taught me the value of a good gift together and having friends and family around and I know she’s up in heaven right now looking down and it’s very happy and very excited and pleased with all of you and her friends and I know she’s thinking this is a good one we’re here to celebrate her life her, comic wit. My mom had a way of coming up with a one-liner just when you least expected it and it was the perfect comedy one-liner. It would come out of the left field and it would have you floored and only in her way of delivery could she do it. She was a consummate entertainer and singer. A few years ago I was having a birthday party for my husband, it was one of his milestone birthdays and I asked my mom ahead of the party if she would prepare a toast for Glen and give it at the party and she said, ‘oh no I could never, but what I will do is I will prepare a song I’ll make up new lyrics to a show too and I’ll jump and sing it’ I’m not sure what was easier, but she got up and she’s singing a song that she had written that was hilarious. It was a toast to my husband and everyone there was blown away and that was her way. In fact, she’s staying at our wedding she had secretly talked to the minister and to the keyboardist at our wedding and in the middle of the service she had it all arranged, she got up and sang sunrise sunset to her daughter and her new husband it was beautiful and pretty special. Obviously, to have a mom singing that song to you, I knew in fact it was such a time that although I thought the minister will leave in the middle of the service, he stayed and that job probably pulled it together to finish the ceremony. My mom and dad were from what is called the greatest generation, they taught us, kids, that he saved with a penny earned and that if something is broke you fixed it, you repaired it, you mended it, you took the time and you put it back together. For those of you who have been to my mother’s house you know that that’s the truth, they could have remodelled their home ten times but they repaired it themselves. They still have the O’Keefe and Merritt stove that they bought when that house was built in1953. I remember my mom telling me once that my dad was so smart because when they were gone in the house he researched furnaces and the one he picked is the one that was still working, 60 years later. It was in his heart and so yes at one point my husband and I remodelled our kitchen and we were tearing out cabinets and taking out appliances then yeah it was just way too much, it was their appliances, they were still good. Nancy and I were like his mother that they’re all the green kind of brain you know we were going for four days it didn’t even matter, we essentially remodelled the kitchen and she still to this day wonders what happened to those appliances, they were so good, so new isn’t always better! She told me you can tell what they have when people spend their money and how my mom felt about appliances, she felt about her friends and family. She didn’t just throw out the appliances, you didn’t throw out a family you didn’t throw out your friends. Just because things got a little rough, she stuck around. You know she’s been a member of this church for 60 years, she’s been a member of the Assistance League and the Women’s Club at the fringe clubs and gosh I don’t even know. That was my mom, she stuck by her friends and her family so in the last few days I’ve gotten lots of heartfelt messages and I want to read to you one of the passages someone sent me because it kind of helped me get through. It said ‘ tonight when you look up don’t see the stars, think of them as porchlights welcoming your mom safely home ‘, So I share that with you because apparently she had a gig that we didn’t know about and she’s probably up there right now singing and dancing and telling her jokes. In the past few days I was going through some of her things, putting some stuff together and I found a seven-page handwritten story of her life that she had written about ten years ago and it’s so Arlene and so my mom. There are sections in it there are entertaining and there are bits and pieces in it that our song lyrics were written throughout and it was I didn’t know about it. My family didn’t know about it. It was written ten years ago so we printed out a few copies at the reception afterwards. I want to close with the way she closed because I think she would like that, so I guess to sum it all up you all good friends, sisters, wonderful family, four children, six grandchildren and a husband with married for over 50 years, this fun line from the musical carnival. “it’s been a real nice clambake Emma, sure had a real good time” So thank you for coming, thank you for loving my mom she loved all of you so much. Her daily community, so thank you. I’m not doing a very good job at celebrating her life so if anybody would like to come up and do a remembrance I would welcome you, maybe something a little more lighthearted. Thank you.

Here is another eulogy to a mother who died of breast cancer

You know, my mother was very smart. very, very smart. But she did have trouble she had some trouble with technology. she really didn’t get answering machines. she really didn’t get portable phones. and I don’t know if you’ve ever gotten a message from my mother on the answering machine, but it’s like she’s talking into a well or something. she starts out ‘this is your mother, Frances.’ well good because I thought it was my other mother. ‘well we just called to see how you were and you could almost see her trying to crawl in there and ‘and we’ll call you back, we love you very much amen’ but you know she didn’t get that you have to push the button now to get the phone to go up so if you’d listen a while longer you’d hear daddy say, ‘did you talk to him, no they weren’t there well who are you talking to no they weren’t there I left a message but I think I said amen’ next message ‘this is your mother Francis, I think I said Amen I don’t know what in the world is wrong with me, well we love you very much, amen’ I just have to tell you that like everyone before her, I’m so happy you’re here and I’m so blessed. my mother and I tried to take real good care of each other over the years and when she died, I thought, ‘well I know she’ll be all right now, but I don’t know about me, who’s going to take care of me, cuz I know God’s taking care of her’ and it occurred to me yesterday, that she didn’t need me anymore, but she left behind people who do and she couldn’t take care of me anymore, but she left behind people who could. and so I know I’ll be alright, my friend Karen said, ‘you know death came for your mother several times and she ignored it’ and then finally God said no I’m serious and I’m going to take you right here now where you can’t get away thank you God for doing that, that way and that quick and in this place where she’s filled with people who love her so much. Thank you. Amen!

Eulogy for Mother Poems

Below are a list of poems suitable for a mothers eulogy

  • My Mother Kept A Garden
  • Child and Mother
  • A Sonnet for My Incomparable Mother
  • Goodbye Mom
  • Away by James Whitcomb Riley
  • Richer Than Gold by Strickland Gillilan
  • Your Mother is Always With You by Deborah R Culver
  • In Remembrance by Christine Currah
  • My Mother, My Friend by J. Allen Shaw
  • Only One Mother by George Cooper

We have curated a list of suitable funeral poems for mums to help give you some inspiration.

How to Write a Unique Eulogy for Your Mother

A story from a child is one that no other can replicate. There through good and bad, the clsoe bond shared will forever be with you and something you can use when penning a eulogy for your mother. We have written en extensive post to help you write your eulogy, but writing for your mother comes with a few extra steps that will ensure your message is a perfect goodbye.

1. Gather Thoughts and Memories

Make sure you speak with other fmaily members, friends & work colleagues to relive past memories. Not only will this help you determine the theme for your speech but it will ensure they feel a part of this too.

2. Theme your Mothers Eulogy

We dont advocate listing off items in chronological order like you are reading for ma list. Think of the type of women your mother was an weave this into your stories. Can you describe a time of adversity she overcame. Highlight the journey she went on, not just things that happen to everyone.

3. Slow Down and Really Remember Her

Rushing through the eulogy is a sure fire way to under deliver your speech. As well as practicing, just slow down, this gives you time to think and the audience a chance to catch up with you. A helpful tip is to write your speech as if your mother was in the audience and talk directly to her.

When it comes to paying tribute to your mother, only you will know the best way to immortalise her memory. We have put together an extensive list of funeral poems and popular funeral music for mothers, we hope this will help you plan the ceremony. If we are missing any information, please do contact us so we can ensure this resource is as helpful as possible.

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21+ Short Eulogy Examples for a Funeral

Updated 04/12/2024

Published 11/15/2019

Kate Wight, BA in English

Kate Wight, BA in English

Contributing writer

Discover short eulogy examples to use at a memorial service or a funeral, including tips for writing a great eulogy for a friend, parent, spouse, aunt, cousin, colleague, and more.

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A eulogy is a speech given in honor of a loved one who has passed away. Eulogies are given at funerals and memorial services and are typically delivered by a family member or close friend of the deceased.

Eulogies are one of the most important aspects of a funeral or memorial service . They provide an opportunity to inform or remind guests of who the deceased was as a person. In a eulogy, the person delivering it talks about the deceased’s interests and talents. They’ll also share things the deceased was passionate about. In addition, they may share funny or moving anecdotes about the deceased.

Have you been tapped to deliver a eulogy for a loved one, but aren’t sure what you should say? The tone for your eulogy will depend on a lot of factors. The eulogy a grandson gives for his grandfather will be different than the eulogy a husband gives for his wife or one a sister gives for her brother. It will also depend on the manner of death.

A eulogy for someone who died in a tragic accident will have a different tenor than a eulogy for someone who died after a lengthy illness. Here are some tips to help you prepare, no matter the circumstances.

Tip:  You can also use these eulogy examples as a starting point for your online memorial page. Writing a memorial page tribute is very similar to writing a eulogy. If you haven't created a memorial page yet, consider using Cake's online memorial tool . It's easy to use and completely free.

Jump ahead to these sections:

Short eulogy examples for a friend, short eulogy examples for a father or father-in-law, short eulogy examples for a mother or mother-in-law, short eulogy examples for a brother or sister, short eulogy examples for a cousin, short eulogy examples for a partner or spouse, short eulogy examples for an aunt or uncle, short eulogy examples for a colleague.

Short eulogy example for a friend image

Sometimes it’s difficult settling on a family member to deliver a eulogy. Family members may be too emotional, or there may be some degree of family estrangement. Whatever the reason, sometimes a friend is the best option. The honor usually goes to a lifelong friend who grew up with the deceased and can provide perspective on them throughout their life.

Here are some examples of how a eulogy from a friend might read.

“Amanda and I met on the first day of kindergarten. I was crying, because, as many of you know, I don’t do well with change. Amanda marched right up to me and took my hand. ‘Don’t worry,’ she said. ‘I’ll take care of you.’ That’s the kind of person she was. She was always the kind of person who would step up and take care of someone sad or hurt or afraid.

"That’s why none of us were surprised when she became a firefighter . On the worst day of people’s lives, she was there. She was willing to put herself on the line to protect people and their families. In the end, she died saving people, and she wouldn’t have had any regrets about that, so I can’t either. I’m still sad about it though. I still don’t do well with change. And I wish she was here to hold my hand and get me through.”

“John and I have been friends our whole lives. We were actually friends before we were even born—our mothers met in the waiting room at the doctor’s office when they were pregnant with us. We grew up a few streets apart. We went to school together.

"We played football together. We started a terrible garage band together, much to the dismay of our parents and anyone else in a three-block radius. John was always more like a brother to me than a friend, and when he married my sister that made it official. I don’t know what my life will look like without him in it. I’ve never had to live in a world without him.

"But we have sons who are the same age, and they are cousins and best friends all in one. Getting to watch them grow up together will help keep John alive in all of our hearts.”

"Many of you may know that Sarah and I have owned and operated a bakery together for several years. You might not know that we were baking together long before that. Our parents enrolled us in a summer program that taught kids how to cook and bake, and we bonded over our love for creating offbeat flavors.

"While most kids our age had lemonade stands, we were setting up mini bake sales to buy more ingredients to bake more stuff. Sarah wasn’t just a talented baker, though. She was a great person. When you’re working long hours with someone, it’s easy to get frustrated with each other. But Sarah was endlessly patient and kind with everyone, inside the kitchen and out.”

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It can be difficult finding the right words to capture everything special about your father. Some people will source  funeral quotes for a eulogy . They can make it easier for you to find an entry point. Others will instead pick a particular anecdote that sums up their father’s character. Here are a few examples.

Tip:  Writing a eulogy might be just one of the tasks you're facing for the first time after losing a loved one. For help prioritizing the rest, check out our post-loss checklist . 

“The author Frank Clark wrote, ‘A father is a man who expects his son to be as good a man as he meant to be.’ My father was the best man I knew. Even so, he expected us, his sons, to be better. He did this by holding us accountable for our actions.

"If we weren’t living up to his expectations, he was sure to let us know. But was never unkind about it. He showed us that real men needed to be compassionate as well as strong. I’ll never be able to express how grateful I am for the way he raised us. But I will continue to always try to exceed his expectations about who I could be.”

“Charles Kettering once said, ‘Every father should remember one day his son will follow his example, not his advice.' I don’t know if my dad knew that quote, but it was certainly the way he lived his life.

"While some of my friends’ dads had an attitude that seemed to be, ‘Do as I say, not as I do,’ my father would have never asked that of me. If there was anything he couldn’t stand it was hypocrisy. I’m so proud of the kind of dad I had. I hope that as he looks down on me from heaven, he’ll continue to be proud of the kind of son I am.”

“My parents split up when I was quite young, and my mother raised me on her own. She did such a phenomenal job, that I never felt like I was missing out on anything. But when I met my husband, I finally realized how much different a father-daughter dynamic could be.

"Charles was more than a father-in-law to me. He truly was the father I never had. He was always there for me to offer advice or a hug. When I married my husband he told me not to feel that I was adjacent to the family—he let me know that he thought of me as one of his children. I hope he knows that I held him in just as high a regard.”

If you need more help writing a eulogy for your dad, read our guides on how to write a eulogy for a father  and how to write a eulogy for a father-in-law .

Short eulogy example for a mother or mother-in-law image

There is no love like the love that a mother feels for her child. Delivering a eulogy for the mother or mother figure in your life allows you to express your gratitude for that very unique love.

“When I was young, I remember asking my mom why she wasn’t home waiting for me after school like the moms of so many of my friends. She told me that while being a mother was an incredible calling, she felt that her skills and talents that she needed to share with the world.

"My mother was the first female surgeon to practice at her hospital. She prepared for that as one of the only female medical students in her class. People challenged her ability to be both a mother and a surgeon, but she brought the same passion and commitment to both roles. And she did it without tearing down other women who walked different paths. She has inspired me as both her daughter and as a physician.”

“There are so many rites of passage that people think are exclusive to fathers and sons. But as a boy who was raised by a single mother, I learned so many things from her you wouldn’t expect. She taught me to change my oil and change my tires.

"She taught me how to throw a baseball. But she also taught me how to cook and how to be a good listener. She played the role of two parents, and she did it in a way that never let on how many sacrifices she had to make. I am such a well-rounded person because of the way she raised me.” 

“When we were growing up, we didn’t have much to our names. But honestly, we never realized what we were missing out on. Susan, our mother, was so creative in the way she spent time with us. She could tell epic tales from the top of her head that always captured our attention.

"She created magical worlds for us to play in. Even when we didn’t have much to eat, she’d give our simple dinners exciting names to make us laugh. She taught us so much about resilience, even when we didn’t understand that’s the lesson we were learning.”

Read our guides on how to write a eulogy for a mother if you need more help, tips, or examples.

Siblings have a special and unique bond. While sometimes siblings can drive you crazy, they are also your first best friends. It can be so hard to eulogize siblings, but it is also incredibly rewarding to be able to send off your brother or sister with special, well-chosen words:

“When I used to go to my friends’ houses after school, I could never understand why their older brothers shooed us away when we wanted to play with them. After all, my older brother never treated me like that. Before long, it felt like he wasn’t just my big brother—he was everyone’s big brother.

"All my friends wanted to play at our house because they loved Manuel so much. He didn’t treat us like we were dumb or annoying because we happened to be younger than he was. He was always so generous with his time and attention. The world has lost such a special person.”

“Those of you who didn’t know us growing up might be surprised to hear that Marian and I weren’t always close. Marian was smart and beautiful. She seemed to have everything going for her. It was hard being her younger sister. I struggled academically, and teachers who had taught her would often accuse me of slacking off. In a lot of ways, I resented her because she seemed to have it so easy.

"It wasn’t until she went to college and I really began to miss her that I regretted the gulf between us. We talked more, and I learned she was jealous of how easily I made friends. I also learned she felt sad because it seemed like I didn’t like her. I vowed never to make her feel that way again. I’m proud to say that we were best friends for the last 20 years, and I’ll always be proud to be her sister.” 

“People used to ask me growing up what it was like to have an identical twin. I could never find the words. How do you explain what it’s like to have someone share your exact DNA? It’s the closest you can be to another person without being them.

"Conversely, I can’t begin to put into words what it’s like to be standing here without Emma. It would be easier to stand here without lungs or a heart because she is so essential to who I am. But because of our shared DNA, I can take comfort in the fact that as long as I’m alive, she will also exist in some form.”

Head over to our guide on how to write a eulogy for a sister and how to write a eulogy for a brother for more inspiration. 

Short eulogy example for a cousin image

Sometimes it can be challenging for parents or a sibling to eulogize someone in their immediate family. A cousin can be close enough to provide perspective on the deceased and retain some emotional distance.

“I was an only child growing up but in truth, it never felt that way. Rachel was more of a sister to me than a cousin. We were the same age, we wore the same size, and we both had the Andrews’ family combination of red hair and green eyes.

"We looked enough alike that no one questioned us when we said we were twins. In recent years, we lived farther away from each other than we ever had before. But we remained close, and I don’t know what I’ll do without our weekly Sunday night phone calls.”

“Growing up the only girl in a family with five brothers was a real challenge sometimes. Luckily I had Norah. While Norah was my cousin, she played the role of a big sister to me. She passed me down awesome clothes and taught me how to style my hair and put on makeup. She also offered me comfort and advice whenever I had boy troubles.

"This was so helpful because I couldn’t confide in my brothers—all they’d do is threaten to beat guys up if they made me cry. Norah left behind two daughters, and I hope I can pay forward her kindness by being there for them the way she was for me.”

“Calvin and I didn’t live near each other growing up, but every summer our families would meet up for two weeks at the family lake house. Those idyllic summers remain some of my favorite family memories. Calvin and I would be up with the sun every day. We played hide and seek. We leaped off the old tire swing into the water.

"We rode our bikes to the ice cream shop and roasted hot dogs and S’mores in the firepit for dinner. Half the nights we wouldn’t even sleep inside, opting instead to camp out under the expansive night sky. Now, whenever I look up at the stars, I’ll know Calvin is right there looking down on us.”   

When you commit to spending your life with someone, you have the intention of being with them until the end of the line. Sadly, sometimes one partner’s journey ends well before their counterpart. Here are some examples of a eulogy you might give in honor of a spouse or partner.

“Many little girls grow up planning their perfect future wedding. Anyone who knows me can tell you that I was not one of them. My family was complex and fractured. Every example I had of a marriage or partnership seemed toxic and terrible. I didn’t understand why people would voluntarily sign up to spend their lives with someone else when it just looked miserable to me. That all changed when I met Jeff.

While I had dated other people before Jeff, I never went into anything thinking it would last long-term. But Jeff was different. He quickly became my best friend as well as my partner. He told me once that he was ready to marry me two weeks after we met. But he knew I was wary about that level of commitment for various reasons. He told me that it was okay if I was never ready to get married. He wasn’t going anywhere, whether we had a piece of paper tying us together or not. And after almost a decade, I was finally ready to take that plunge.

Jeff changed my life in so many ways. He taught me that even if my past scarred me, it didn’t make me unworthy of love. He taught me that love and patience must go hand in hand. Now that he’s gone, I feel half of my heart is missing. But I will never regret loving him and walking this world side by side for the time we shared.”

“Mary Anne and I were only married for six short years, but our relationship spans decades. For so many years, we had to tell people that we were just roommates and best friends. But over time, we were able to share with our close family and friends that we were in love. Even then, we didn’t think that we would ever have the opportunity to get married. 

When same-sex marriage was legalized, there wasn’t a question about whether or not we would get married. The only question was when. We ended up having a quick courthouse wedding because we were so afraid that legislators would say, “Just kidding!” But even the most extravagant fairy tale wedding couldn’t have topped our simple ceremony. Because finally, the whole world could see us celebrate our love and commitment to one another.

A marriage license didn’t suddenly make our relationship valid or even stronger. Mary Anne and I were together for almost forty years before our marriage, and during that time, we were forged in fire. But even a decade ago, I wouldn’t have been able to stand up here and call myself her wife. I miss Mary Anne desperately. But I’m so fortunate that I was able to formalize my relationship with her in a way that earlier generations of gay people would never have dreamed possible.”

Family dynamics can vary quite dramatically across cultures. In some cultures, it’s unusual for people to form a close connection with extended family members. Meanwhile, in other cultures, every older family member is regarded as an aunt or an uncle, no matter how distant the family relationship may be. But no matter where you come from, an aunt or uncle may significantly influence your life. Here are some eulogies that honor that special relationship. 

“When people learn that I grew up without a dad, they often feel sorry for me. But the truth is, I never felt like anything was missing from my life. My mom was an amazing woman who worked hard to support us and was always there for me emotionally, too. But she also knew I needed a strong male role model in my life. That’s where Uncle Jerry came in.

My mom’s brother was a perpetual bachelor who never had much interest in starting a family of his own. But when my mom asked him if he could serve in a fatherly role to me, he stepped up without any hesitation. He played catch with me when I was young and attended all my baseball games when I got older. I could hear him bellow from the stands, “That’s my boy!” whenever I got so much as a base hit. He taught me how to shave and how to tie a tie. He taught me how to be a good man, unlike the guy who fathered me and then took off before I was even born.

When people ask me if it was hard growing up without a father, I tell them I don’t know. Because as far as I’m concerned, Uncle Jerry was and always will be the only dad I needed.”

“Both of my parents were only children, so I didn’t have a lot of family around when I was growing up. I would get jealous hearing my friends talk about their aunts and uncles, so one day when I was three or four, I demanded that my mom create an aunt for me. She told this story to her best friend Nancy, who immediately said, ‘Well, that’s it, I’m her aunt now.’ And from then on, she was Aunt Nancy.

Nancy was probably the most remarkable person I had ever met, so I was thrilled about her new role in my life. I was fascinated by her stylish bob haircut and dangly earrings. She lived in New York City, which felt so cultured compared to small-town Florida. When I would visit her, she’d take me to restaurants that served exotic global cuisine. She took me to plays. She let me sneak a glass of champagne at dinner and then took me to a fortune teller. Thanks to her influence, my world instantly expanded and became more colorful and vibrant.

Recently, my best friend had her first child. I’ve already told her that if her kid needs an honorary aunt, count me in. After all, I learned from the best.”

A eulogy is typically delivered by a family member or close friend of the deceased. But that’s not always the case. If you work a traditional nine to five job, you’ll spend nearly a quarter of your adult life at work. Over time, people often develop close, almost familial relationships with their coworkers, in addition to the people in their personal lives. Alternatively, someone who devotes themselves to their career may not have many close connections outside of the office. A coworker may be the best person to deliver a eulogy in cases like these. 

“Sally Murray was an extraordinary teacher. I could spend the next five minutes discussing her many accolades and professional accomplishments without even scratching the surface. Instead, I’d like to focus on the more personal aspects that made her a great educator. 

Sally didn’t talk about her early life too often, but she let some things slip every now and then. She grew up in the system, bouncing between foster families and group homes. When she aged out of the system, she had very few resources, save for her high school English teacher who took her in when she had nowhere else to go. Sally spent her entire life paying that forward.

Sally could have worked in any number of schools, but she chose the ones that had the fewest resources. She connected with even the most hardened kids because she had once been where they were. She was never condescending. She never painted herself as a savior. She just wanted to reach out a hand to people who were struggling and help pull them up.

One of our coworkers once asked her if she was sad she had never had kids. ‘What are you talking about?’ Sally scoffed. ‘I have hundreds of kids.’ That’s just the kind of person she was.”

“When I took over my dad’s business after he passed away, I felt like I was in way over my head. I spent a lot of nights working late, trying to get a handle on how to run the company without driving it into the ground. Every night at 10 pm, Sam, our nighttime security guard, would poke his head into my office to say hello. At first, I didn’t welcome the interruption. But I soon realized that Sam knew the company better than anyone else. He was the silent eyes and ears of the place, and he was happy to share his knowledge with me so I could have a broader understanding of what I was working with.

Soon, my nightly meetings with Sam became the highlight of my day. I started brewing coffee before he’d come by on his rounds and would cajole him into having a cup with me. He regaled me with stories about how the business had evolved over the past twenty years. It turned out he and my dad had shared the same ritual, which made me feel even closer to him.

When you run a business, you’re very fortunate if you can find people who value it as much as you do. Sam may not have owned the business, but he took ownership of it in a way that I probably never could have. It won’t be the same without his constant, steady presence.`` 

Delivering Your Best Eulogy

There is no hard and fast rule about who should deliver a eulogy. It could be delivered by a family member, a close friend, or even a work colleague or mentor. The only real requirement is that the person delivering the eulogy should have had a strong bond with the deceased. When you speak from your heart, you are sure to honor the person you cared for . 

Post-planning tip: If you are the executor for a deceased loved one, you have more than just the eulogy to think about. Handling their unfinished business can be overwhelming without a way to organize your process. We have a post-loss checklist  that will help you ensure that your loved one's family, estate, and other affairs are taken care of.

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How to write a eulogy for a mother

Share this article, what is a eulogy for mother.

A eulogy is a short funeral speech where you share memories and reflect on a person who died.

At this sad time of your mother’s death, you might have been asked to write and deliver her eulogy. You’ll want to do your best to write a heartfelt piece that honours her memory.

A good eulogy will capture your mother’s important life events in just a few short minutes. It’s a chance to share your feelings about her and a few stories with the people who also love and care about your mum.

Writing a eulogy for your beloved mother can be empowering and help you through the initial stage of grief.

There’s no score to aim for or an exam to pass. Any eulogy delivered with love and respect is a good eulogy.

On this page we cover everything you need to know about how to write a eulogy for your mum. But if you want to start working on the eulogy with insights from expert funeral directors , download a copy of our Eulogy Workbook. It includes suggestions for what you could write.

[Download the work with eulogy samples now]

Planning the eulogy

Brainstorming ideas for your mother’s eulogy and planning it out will make it so much easier to write. Spending a bit of time upfront thinking about what you want to say and gathering the facts about you mother’s life will make the overall process much simpler.

By reflecting and taking notes, you’ll see the big picture that connects your memories with the important aspects of your mother’s life and the person she was.

Brainstorm ideas

Think about the people who will be at the funeral and the kinds of things they’d like to hear about your mother. A funeral is not the time to shock or embarrass people with revelations. Be honest but focus on the positives.

Maybe the people who will attend don’t know much about her earlier life and you can fill in the gaps for them. Or perhaps they haven’t seen her in recent years and want to know how her last years unfolded.

Write down your significant memories of you mother.

When you spend time with your other family members and her close friends, ask them to share their memories. Take notes.

Identify a theme

After reflecting on your mother’s life, you’ll probably see a central theme emerge. It might be about her kindness and how she was always looking out for others. It might be about her marvellous sense of humour or her mischievous streak.

Once you have identified a theme, you can write your eulogy around this. You can use the theme to filter out the stories and information that don’t fit.

While a theme isn’t necessary, it can help tie together the important events of her life and your memories.

Write down significant life events

As well as your own memories, ask family members and friends about the big events they remember from your mum’s life.

Make a note of things like her:

  • favourite things she liked to do
  • children and grandchildren
  • volunteering activities

Decide on your tone

The tone you use will depend on the circumstance of her death and your relationship with your mother.

If your mother died at the end of a long and happy life, then there’s much to celebrate with warmth and good humour.

But if your mother is quite young and dies tragically or unexpectedly, then the funeral is likely to be a sadder and more somber occasion.

However, it’s always good to aim for an informal, conversational tone in your eulogy as though you’re talking to friends, which you will be.

How long it should a eulogy be?

Eulogies are short speeches. They usually run from 3 to 5 minutes, but sometimes they are as long as 10 minutes.

A 5-minute speech is around 600 to 750 words, which is not long. This works out to be around 2 or 3 A4 pages.

It might feel like a challenge to have to fit someone’s whole life into a short speech, but you don’t need to. Others will speak at the funeral and share their memories of your mother, too.

By planning the eulogy before writing it can help you fit the most important pieces of information and choose the best memories to share.

Writing the eulogy

Opening statement.

In the opening statement, address why you’re there. State who your mother was and what she was known for.

Share who you are and what your connection to her is.

Thank people for coming, especially those who travelled a significant distance to be there.

State your mother’s basic biographic details

You can state your mother’s biographical details in chronological order, but it doesn’t have to read like an obituary. These basic details include things like:

  • her full name (including her maiden name if she changed her name)
  • nicknames and what other relatives called her
  • who her parents were and their names
  • where and when she was born.

There might be other details you think are important to include here, too.

Mention loved ones

Mention other loved ones who were close to your mother. This could be her husband or partner, siblings, cousins, children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces and nephews.

If pets were an important part of her life, you could mention them, too.

Mention her close friends, the special people in her life who she enjoyed spending time with and who had a positive impact on her.

Talk about significant life events

Look back at the memories you brainstormed with your family and her friends. Find the significant events in your mother’s life. If there are many events, consider reducing the list to only those that fit with your overall theme.

When you mention the event, use memories and share the stories that help convey what you think and feel about your mother. Relate the event to what was happening in the world at these different times in her life.

Using gentle humour in a eulogy

Using humour in a eulogy is a personal choice. If you choose to use humour, it should be heartfelt and amusing, not poking fun at your mother in a mean-spirited way.

A warm and funny anecdote can help break some of the sadness and tension people might be feeling during the funeral.

Review the memories you brainstormed and find the funny and amusing stories that fit with your overall theme. Include them in the eulogy.

The conclusion

A eulogy’s conclusion offers comforting words to the people who love your mother and will miss her terribly.

In your final goodbye, you can address the people at the funeral, your mother directly, or both.

To help you find the right words, return to your overall theme, or think about what your mother would say to comfort everyone.

Funeral speech for mother from daughter

The bond between a mother and her daughter can be deep and special.

A eulogy for a mother from her daughter need not be structured differently to any other eulogy.

You might choose to focus more on your relationship with your mother when sharing memories. You might want to talk about the impact of her parenting on your life and if you have children, how she influenced your parenting.

When preparing for the funeral and writing a eulogy for mother, poems or special readings can add a lovely touch. If she had a favourite poet or if you find a poem that captures how you feel, include it in the funeral service, but separate to your eulogy.

But overall, there are no special rules.

Review your eulogy

Ask trusted friends and family members to review what you write, especially the stories, memories and anecdotes you share.

Be open to their feedback, but this is your eulogy and you have the final say.

Prepare to deliver your mother’s eulogy

The key to feeling confident about delivering your mother’s eulogy is to practice. Read it out loud, many times.

If you’re worried about being overcome with emotion, know that you can take a short break and few deep breaths to help regain a feeling of control. There’s no need to rush. Taking a sip of water might also help.

Make eye contact with your audience. They’ll remind you that they feel for you in this moment. No one is there to judge you.

Print out the eulogy in a large font to make it easy to read. If you’re too overcome by emotion, someone else will be able to continue on your behalf.

Practical considerations for your mother’s funeral

When you’re writing a eulogy for your mother, it’s about cherishing all the love and care she gave you. But besides remembering the good times, there are practical things to consider too.

  • Coffins : Think about what kind of coffin to choose. Some people prefer wicker coffins because they feel more natural, just like being surrounded by the outdoors your mother loved.
  • Funeral flowers : You’ve probably seen beautiful floral arrangements at funerals , and they can add a peaceful touch to the ceremony, making it feel like a serene garden in honor of your mom.
  • Funeral urns: If your mother chose cremation, you’ll need to think about funeral urns. These are special containers where her ashes will be kept. Each urn can be different, just like your mom was unique. They can be simple or fancy, but what matters most is that they hold the essence of your mother’s love.

Writing a eulogy helps you remember all these special things about your mother, including the little details that made her who she was.

Download our Eulogy Workbook

To help you craft a eulogy that will remember your mother with love, warmth and respect, download a copy of our eulogy workbook with examples of what you could write.

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Augustine Nyongesa

What to Say in your Mother’s Funeral Speech

Knowing what to say at your mother’s funeral can be a challenge. Not only are you overwhelmed by the emotions of losing your mom but also you have many experiences which makes it hard to decide which one to say and which one to leave out.

Since you have only one chance of speaking at your mother’s funeral, you have to get it right. If you mess up your speech in your mother’s funeral, you will live with the regret for the rest of your life.

This is why it is important to know exactly what you need to say without taking too long. You don’t want to give a speech at your mother’s funeral then regret later not having mentioned a particular aspect about your late mother.

Read Also: My Mom Died and I didn’t Cry; Am I Normal?

In this article, I will guide you on how to organize your speech so that it is short, sweet and memorable.

speech for a mother's funeral

I gave a speech in my mother’s funeral way back in 2014 and to this day I still remember the content of the speech.

Two years after I made the speech, one of my relatives told me she really loved the speech.

I am by no means an expert in curating speeches but I know how to formulate a speech that will be remembered for a long time.

What to Say at your Mother’s Funeral

1. speak simple truths.

In your speech at your mom’s funeral, speak simple truths that mourners can relate to. Talk about how your mother was a good cook or how much she loved a specific type of dress.

If most mourners know that your mom loved a particular dress, talk about your mom’s love for that dress. Such simple truths that resonate with your audience will prompt the audience to applaud you.

The applause of the audience is what gives you fulfillment when you are offering a speech at your mother’s funeral.

Pick one or two tiny bits about your mom that many people knew her for. Mention how she will be missed in those areas.

My mom was known for making tea that had a strong concentration of milk. Everyone who ever visited our home knew that the tea my mom made was sweet.

In her funeral, several relatives mentioned how they would miss the sweet tea that my mother used to prepare.

Such simple small truths are unforgettable.

2. Give Details of Experiences you had with your Mother

In your mother’s funeral, you won’t have much time to give a full speech. It is better to pick one experience you had with your mother and go into detail than touching on many experiences yet being shallow.

Read Also: My Mother is Dying and She Hates Me

Avoid being general by saying statements like ‘My mother did many good things for me’.

Instead, pick one thing and explain it in detail.

In my mother’s funeral, I chose to mention an experience one evening when dinner had been prepared. Our servant had prepared beef but I was allergic to it.

My mom sent our servant to go to the shop at night to get eggs for me. She then apologized to me for not remembering me when she bought the beef.

This simple experience showed how much my mother cared for me. Mourners can easily relate to such an experience.

Everyone knows that mothers love their children but not everyone remembers the little things that mothers do.

3. In your Speech at your Mother’s Funeral, Mention your Last Memories with Her

After mentioning how good your mom was, remember to mention the very last encounter you had with her.

Make the encounter very brief. Remember to include any promise she made to you before she died.

The last memories you had with your mom are powerful since they are the ones you will remember the most for the rest of your life.

Mourners want to hear the last memories you had with your mom so that they mourn with you.

If you spoke to your mom for the last time on the phone, mention also the last time you spoke to her face to face.

4. Express how much you will Miss her

You can say all good things about your mother and be applauded but if you don’t mention how your mom’s departure has left a void in you, your speech will appear shallow.

To show that you really loved your mother and that you valued her, let the mourners see genuine expressions of loss from you.

If you truly loved your mom, you will naturally express emotions of loss when you give your speech in her funeral.

This is not a drama event where you have to act according to a script.

Some people, because of the overwhelming love they had for their mother, may have no words to speak. That too is a good expression of honor for your deceased mother.

The most important thing is for you to show genuine loss for your late mother.

As you give your speech, you can kneel down for a few seconds and remain silent to honor your mom.

The expression you use to honor your mom will be remembered for a long time.

5. In Concluding your Speech in your Mother’s Funeral, Console Yourself in God

While it is good for you to express how difficult your life after the loss of your mother is going to be, it is not good to appear helpless.

Mourners will appreciate that you will sincerely miss your mother but they also expect you to be strong enough to carry on with your life.

Read Also: My Mother Died when I was a Teenager

This is why in concluding your speech, you need to mention how you will find comfort in God. God is the only one who can fill the void that your mother has left behind.

You can ask mourners to pray for you that God may give you strength to carry on with life. When you show your willingness to carry on with life after your mother’s loss, mourners will appreciate it.

Avoid begging mourners to do you favors in your speech during your mom’s funeral. If a mourner wants to do you a favor, let him do it out of his own will and not because you begged him.

Once you have promised to push on with life after your mom’s death, thank the mourners for coming to mourn with you.

After that, you can take your seat.

What to say at your Mother’s Funeral: Conclusion

Delivering a memorable speech in your mother’s funeral is not easy. But with this guideline, you can eliminate most errors and give a speech that will be remembered for a long time.

It will also be fulfilling for you to know that you gave your mother a memorable sendoff.

Sorry for the loss of your mother and all the best in your speech!

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Crafting a Meaningful Welcome Speech for a Funeral Service

A funeral service welcome speech sets the tone for the gathering and provides comfort and guidance to those attending. It is an opportunity to acknowledge the loss, express gratitude to those who have come to pay their respects, and offer words of hope and support. A well-crafted welcome speech can help bring people together in shared remembrance and provide a sense of closure. This guide provides key elements to include in a funeral service welcome speech and examples to help you find the right words.

1. Start with a Warm Greeting and Introduction

Begin the welcome speech by greeting the attendees and introducing yourself. A warm and sincere greeting helps set a comforting tone and acknowledges everyone’s presence.

Example of a Greeting and Introduction

  • "Good afternoon, everyone. My name is [Your Name], and I am [relationship to the deceased]. On behalf of the family, I want to thank you all for being here today to honor and remember [Name of the Deceased]."
  • "Welcome, everyone, and thank you for joining us today as we come together to celebrate the life of our beloved [Name of the Deceased]. My name is [Your Name], and I am truly grateful for the outpouring of love and support."

2. Acknowledge the Grief and Loss

It’s important to acknowledge the grief that everyone is feeling and recognize the loss that has brought everyone together. This acknowledgment shows empathy and creates a sense of shared experience among attendees.

Examples of Acknowledging Grief

  • "We are all gathered here today because we have lost someone very special. [Name of the Deceased] touched each of our lives in unique ways, and the pain of losing them is felt deeply by all of us."
  • "Today, we come together in our sadness and grief to honor a life that meant so much to so many. It’s okay to feel the weight of this loss, and it’s important that we support one another through this difficult time."

3. Express Gratitude to the Attendees

Take a moment to express gratitude to everyone who took the time to attend the funeral service. Acknowledging their support can provide comfort to the family and reinforce a sense of community.

How to Express Gratitude

  • "Thank you all for coming today to show your love and support. Your presence here is a testament to how much [Name of the Deceased] was loved and how greatly they will be missed."
  • "We are incredibly grateful to each of you for being here, for your kind words, and for the comfort you’ve provided during this challenging time."

4. Share a Brief Reflection or Memory

Sharing a brief reflection or a personal memory of the deceased can help attendees connect with the speaker and remind them of the impact the deceased had on their lives. It can be a lighthearted story, a meaningful moment, or a simple observation that captures the essence of the deceased.

Examples of Sharing a Memory

  • "I will always remember [Name of the Deceased] for their incredible kindness and generosity. They had a way of making everyone feel special, and their laughter could light up any room."
  • "One of my fondest memories of [Name of the Deceased] is when [share a short, meaningful story]. It’s moments like these that remind us of the joy they brought into our lives."

5. Offer Words of Comfort and Hope

After acknowledging the grief and sharing a memory, it’s important to offer words of comfort and hope. Remind attendees that they are not alone and that it’s okay to grieve while also cherishing the memories of the deceased.

Comforting Words to Include

  • "Although we are grieving, let us also find comfort in the memories we shared with [Name of the Deceased] and the love that will always remain in our hearts."
  • "In this time of sorrow, let us lean on each other for support and remember that [Name of the Deceased] will always be a part of us."

6. Provide an Overview of the Service

Before concluding the welcome speech, provide a brief overview of the service to let attendees know what to expect. This helps guide the flow of the service and keeps everyone informed.

Service Overview Examples

  • "Today, we will hear from several speakers who will share their memories and reflections. We will also have some time for quiet reflection and prayer, followed by a reception where we can continue to share stories and support one another."
  • "We have a few speakers who will be sharing their thoughts and memories today, and we will also have a moment of silence to honor [Name of the Deceased]. After the service, please join us for refreshments and a time to connect."

7. Conclude with a Message of Support and Thanks

End the welcome speech by thanking attendees once again and offering continued support to the grieving family and friends. A strong conclusion helps leave a positive and comforting impression on the attendees.

Conclusion Examples

  • "Thank you once again for being here today. Your presence means more than words can express, and it’s a reminder of the love and support that surrounds us. Let us now come together to honor and celebrate the life of [Name of the Deceased]."
  • "As we continue with today’s service, let’s hold onto the love and memories we have of [Name of the Deceased], and may we find comfort in each other’s presence."

Conclusion: Delivering a Meaningful Funeral Service Welcome Speech

A funeral service welcome speech is an important opportunity to bring comfort, express gratitude, and set the tone for a meaningful service. By greeting attendees warmly, acknowledging grief, sharing memories, and offering words of hope, you can create a supportive and unifying atmosphere for all who are gathered to remember and honor a loved one.

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Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker rails against Pride month, President Biden during commencement address

The three-time super bowl champion delivered the roughly 20-minute address saturday at the catholic private liberal arts school in kansas., by the associated press • published may 14, 2024.

Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker railed against Pride month along with President Biden’s leadership during the COVID-19 pandemic and his stance on abortion during a commencement address at Benedictine College last weekend.

The three-time Super Bowl champion delivered the roughly 20-minute address Saturday at the Catholic private liberal arts school in Atchison, Kansas, which is located about 60 miles north of Kansas City.

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Butker, who has made his conservative Catholic beliefs well known, began his address by attacking what he called “dangerous gender ideologies” in an apparent reference to Pride month, which has been celebrated in June since the Stonewall riots in 1969. He also criticized an article by The Associated Press highlighting a shift toward conservativism in some parts of the Catholic Church.

The 28-year-old Butker then took aim at Biden's policies, including his response to COVID-19, which has killed nearly 1.2 million people in the U.S., according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

“While COVID might have played a large role throughout your formative years, it is not unique,” he said. “The bad policies and poor leadership have negatively impacted major life issues. Things like abortion, IVF, surrogacy, euthanasia, as well as a growing support for the degenerate cultural values and media all stem from pervasiveness of disorder.”

Butker later addressed the women in the audience, arguing that their “most important title” should be that of “homemaker.”

“I think it is you, the women, who have had the most diabolic lies told to you," Butker said. “Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world. I can tell you that my beautiful wife Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vocation as a wife and as a mother.”

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The 2017 seventh-round pick out of Georgia Tech has become of the NFL's best kickers, breaking the Chiefs' franchise record with a 62-yard field goal in 2022. Butker helped them win their first Super Bowl in 50 years in 2020, added a second Lombardi Trophy in 2023, and he kicked the field goal that forced overtime in a Super Bowl win over San Francisco in February.

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It has been an embarrassing offseason for the Chiefs, though.

Last month, voters in Jackson County, Missouri, soundly rejected a ballot initiative that would have helped pay for a downtown ballpark for the Royals and an $800 million renovation to Arrowhead Stadium, the home of the Chiefs. Many voters criticized the plan put forward by the Chiefs as catering primarily to VIPs and the wealthy.

The same week, wide receiver Rashee Rice turned himself into Dallas police on multiple charges, including aggravated assault, after he was involved in a high-speed crash that left four people with injuries. Rice has acknowledged being the driver of one of the sports cars that was going in excess of 100 mph, and video shows him leaving the scene without providing information or determining whether anyone needed medical attention.

Last week, law enforcement officials told The Dallas Morning News that Rice also was suspected of assaulting a person at a downtown nightclub; Dallas police did not name Rice as the suspect in detailing a report to The Associated Press.

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Losing a mother is a profound and devastating event that can leave even the most articulate person struggling to find the right words to express their grief. For a son who had a special bond with his mother, delivering a funeral speech that honours her life and impact can be an emotional and challenging task.

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In this article, we share the steps and advice you need to write a heartfelt funeral speech for your mother from a son's perspective.

Begin by jotting down memories you shared with your mother, her qualities, values, and the impact she has on your life. Think of anecdotes and stories that illustrate her character or the relationship you had with her. Be open to emotions and allow yourself time to grieve as you remember the special moments with your mother.

Consider the most important message or life lesson that your mother has instilled in you, and centre your speech around this theme. This unifying thread will give your eulogy coherence, resonance and emotional power.

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While your mother might have been a superhero to you, others may have a different perspective. Use your speech to share the multi-dimensional aspects of her personality and experiences, including her flaws and quirks. This will make the eulogy relatable and authentic.

A funeral speech should ideally not exceed 10 minutes. Focus on the most touching and uplifting stories that illustrate your mother's life and legacy. Touch upon her passions, hobbies and achievements, as well as the love and support she provided for her family and friends.

Utilize vivid language and sensory details to help listeners visualize the stories you're sharing about your mother. This will make your speech engaging, evocative and memorable.

Dear family, friends, and loved ones,

We gather here today, not just to mourn the loss of my dear mother, but to celebrate the profound impact she has had on our lives. The pain of her absence is profound, and while I stand before you with a heavy heart, I also feel a profound sense of gratitude for having had such a remarkable person to call my mom.

My mother was a beacon of light—a woman whose strength was surpassed only by her ability to love unconditionally. She had a laugh that could echo through the darkest of times, a smile that brightened the gloomiest of days, and a presence that brought comfort and ease to anyone fortunate enough to be in her company. To encapsulate the essence of such an extraordinary woman in words feels like an impossible task, yet I find solace in trying, for it keeps her spirit alive in our hearts.

Born in a quaint town, which many of you know, my mother grew from a bright-eyed young girl filled with dreams, into a pillar of the community and the cornerstone of our family. Her journey was not always smooth, but the grace with which she weathered the storms taught me resilience, hope, and the true value of perseverance.

She was a nurturer at her core. From caring for her siblings at a young age to raising me and my siblings, nurturing seemed to be second nature to her. Each of us was the apple of her eye, and she loved us fiercely. Not a day went by where she didn't express her love in small, yet significant ways—a warm hug, a listening ear, a home-cooked meal, or the gentle touch of her hand. She was the fabric that held the tapestry of our family together, intricately weaving love into every thread of our lives.

The loss of my mother has left an emptiness in our hearts that can never be filled, but she has provided us with memories that will last us a lifetime. Her lessons will live on through her children and grandchildren, testimonies of her wisdom and character. She fought bravely in the face of illness, with a sense of dignity and courage that I can only hope to emulate. Even in her last days, she was more concerned with how we were all coping, rather than focusing on her own struggle. That was my mother—ever selfless, ever compassionate.

My mother also had a passion for life that was contagious. She embraced new experiences with enthusiasm and taught us to do the same. Her curious nature and zest for learning led her to travel, to read voraciously, and to constantly seek out new knowledge and understanding. Her example instilled in us the belief that life is a gift to be cherished and explored with vigor.

But what I will remember and cherish the most is my mother's extraordinary kindness. Everyone here today can probably recall a time when her kindness touched their lives. She had a unique ability to see the good in people and to forgive faults. She would open her heart and her home to anyone in need, and she made sure that no one ever felt alone or without a friend in her presence. This kindness, this pure, selfless love, is her lasting legacy.

There's a saying that 'mothers hold their children's hands for a short while, but their hearts forever.' This rings true for me today more than ever. For though her hand has slipped from mine, my mother's love remains eternally clasped around my heart.

As we lay my mother to rest, let's honor her by living our lives as she would have wanted—with love, compassion, and joy. Let's tell her stories to our children and let her lessons guide us through our own lives. Let's keep her spirit burning bright as we celebrate the time we were privileged enough to share with her.

To my mother, thank you. Thank you for your sacrifices, your laughter, your wisdom, and your love. While this day marks the end of your physical journey with us, it is not the end of your influence or the bond we share. I am forever your son; you are forever my guiding star.

In closing, I'd like to share a poem that my mother loved. It brought her comfort and I hope it does the same for you:

"Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there; I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there; I did not die."

Thank you all for coming today. Each one of you meant a great deal to my mother. Your presence here is a testament to her incredible life and the way she touched so many. May we leave here today not with a sense of loss, but with a feeling of gratitude for having been a part of her journey.

Rest in peace, Mom. You are loved, you are missed, and you will never be forgotten.

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At Eulogy Companion, we pride ourselves on the understanding that weaving a eulogy is a deeply shared endeavor, one that reaches into the essence of personal connection. In concert with you, we merge your intimate anecdotes and emotional expressions with our narrative artistry, designing a memorial that pays tribute with grace and prompts an emotional resonance.

We are rooted in genuine conversations and a collective artistic ambition. Your unique experiences and perceptions are intrinsically valuable in sculpting a narrative that unearths the true spirit of the enlightened life you wish to honor. This process is not merely about retelling a timeline of events; it is about enshrining their spiritual insights and the profundity of their influence.

Collectively, our goal is to create a homage that truly embodies your spiritual confidant – a eulogy that elevates beyond common commemorations, imbued with respect, intimate recollection, and genuine sentiment. The fruits of our collaboration yield a beautifully crafted eulogy, a testament to the indelible respect and love instilled by your mentor.

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Frequently Asked Questions What is the purpose of a funeral speech for a mother?

The purpose of a funeral speech for a mother is to pay tribute to her life, express the love and memories her family and friends hold, and to provide comfort through shared sentiments during the grieving process.

A funeral speech is typically between 3 to 5 minutes long. However, it should be as long as necessary to convey your message without being too lengthy for the attendees.

Yes, if it reflects your mother’s personality or the relationship you shared. It can be a comforting reminder of happy times, but it should be used cautiously and respectfully.

Yes, reading your speech is perfectly acceptable. During such emotional times, it's important to do whatever makes you feel most comfortable.

Include personal memories, your mother's life lessons, acknowledgments of her influence, and expressions of gratitude. Remember to speak from the heart.

Begin with a brief introduction of yourself, your relationship to your mother, and perhaps a heartfelt thanks to the attendees for coming to honor her memory.

Conclude with a final tribute to your mother, a statement of miss or love, or a comforting quote or poem that resonates with her memory.

It's completely natural to cry during such an emotional moment. Showing emotions can be healing for you and also for others who are grieving.

Focusing on her life, the positive impact she made on others, and treasured memories is often more comforting and celebrates who she was.

Religious or spiritual elements may be included if they were significant to your mother or your family. However, it's not a necessity and should align with the beliefs of the family.

It's generally best to focus on the positive and how challenges were faced or overcome, rather than dwelling on any shortcomings, unless it serves a purpose for healing or remembrance.

Take your time, breathe, and bring a handkerchief or tissues. Remember that it's okay to show emotion and to pause if you need to compose yourself.

Incorporating meaningful quotes, readings, or even scripture can be a powerful addition to your mother's funeral speech.

While there is no set structure, a common format includes an introduction, a body of personal and meaningful stories, and a conclusion with a heartfelt message.

If you become overwhelmed, it's okay to ask someone else to finish reading your speech. It's important to take care of yourself and engage in self-compassion during this time.

The speech should be as personal as you feel comfortable with sharing. Remember that your audience is there to support you and to honor your mother's memory.

The tone of the speech should be reflective of your mother's spirit and how you wish to commemorate her; usually, a mix of reverence, celebration, and hope is well-received.

While the speech will be most personal if you write it, there's nothing wrong with asking for help or even having someone write it if you're unable to do so.

Being a good public speaker is not necessary. The sincerity of your words and the love for your mother is what truly matters during a funeral speech.

Practice by reading your speech aloud multiple times, possibly in front of a friend or family member for support and feedback.

Yes, receiving feedback can be helpful in ensuring the speech conveys the message you intend and can provide emotional support.

A call to action, such as asking attendees to share their own memories or to support a cause close to your mother's heart, can be a positive way to close your speech.

Maintain a steady, clear voice and make occasional eye contact if you can. Using emotion and pausing for effect can also help in keeping the audience engaged.

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  23. What to Say in a Funeral Service Welcome Speech

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